Originally posted by: achiever
I think i have had enuf of spamming on u r thrd Sujathaji.. so i wud come to ur topic and put my own bit..
i guess.. v as couple r most overtly unromantic couple in this whole world!๐! the day he will do any of such bold romantic thing.. i will get heart attack๐๐๐! Its funny how it is betn us.. obviously i m the better romantic betn the two.. and it wud b surprise for him if i come up with any such thing.. he will swell for sure..๐ bt still it wont b tht important.. coz its jst so trivial thing thn the way v stand by each other in life.. the way v enjoy it togther.. its nothing compared to tht.. ๐ณ .. v dont expect any such overt romance from the other.. its more in the simple gestures and beyond the materialistic thngs i guess.. (bt such surprise wud b nice for a chng i guess...** me rubs hand excitedly!*** thnk u all for the ideas..๐.. i m the one who likes to pamper the other betn the two...and i luv the way his face lightens up and chest swells!!๐๐๐)
once he said (after 3 yrs into the mrg) tht v r soulmates randomly wen we wer discussing on some topic... i guess thts the most most most romantic and true thing he has ever said!๐๐๐.. no he has said those typical loving lines too..bt i always felt its not wat he says or wen he says, its the things he does tht captures my heart.. thrs no valentine day or anniversary day for us.. the day v feel v shud enjoy and celebrate.. we go out and celebrate.. and mostly those r adventure trips and not romantic dates!!!๐
I m so unconventional as a wife.. he thinks i was meant to b a husband bt i became a wife!๐๐๐.. how can a wife b so linient.. understanding and never complaining.. he says..!!! ๐๐๐ he is amazed at tht i dont luv gold ornaments.. nor do i like diamonds to b gifted on anniversaries ๐๐๐.. he wants me chose the place we wud visit nxt..! or plan our fun weekends.. and he wants to take me around the world!
with my husband, its always been in simple and pure gestures of luv.. the real concern behind his furious anger.. or the way he luvs for wat i m by heart and soul.. and the way v care and pine after our every big fight.. and the way he misses me even if he has too big an ego to admit it๐๐.. makes me luv him more with each passing day! the thng tht he luvs and wants me to b with him in watever he does.. even its very uncoventional to do for a woman or girl!๐ณ we luv and want each other's company in watever v do,.. thts for me the most romantic gesture.. ๐ณ
for watever harsh words he mite have said, its the thing tht he still cannot imagine his life without me and the way he occaisonally and randomly expresses his thanks and luv wen i do even simple things for him.. touches my heart...
i guess romance finds u if u find it in even simplest of things..!๐ณ