Romantic gestures! - Page 5

Originally posted by: ssktlk

Lovely post Sujatha and nice to hear of everyone's experiences . I can't think of any one such occasion which was too romantic for me. My hubby is a little slow in that respect. He is scared to give surprises and do something different to be romantic, for fear of me not liking it. But he always keeps my likes in his mind. And says his mission is to fulfill my dreams, however he can, which is too sweet I feel. Though sometimes I wish he would be romantic in his gestures, but he is more practical and calls me dreamy 😊

I think i have had enuf of spamming on u r thrd Sujathaji.. so i wud come to ur topic and put my own bit..

Originally posted by: achiever

I think i have had enuf of spamming on u r thrd Sujathaji.. so i wud come to ur topic and put my own bit..

i guess.. v as couple r most overtly unromantic couple in this whole world!😆! the day he will do any of such bold romantic thing.. i will get heart attack😆😆😆! Its funny how it is betn us.. obviously i m the better romantic betn the two.. and it wud b surprise for him if i come up with any such thing.. he will swell for sure..😆 bt still it wont b tht important.. coz its jst so trivial thing thn the way v stand by each other in life.. the way v enjoy it togther.. its nothing compared to tht.. 😳 .. v dont expect any such overt romance from the other.. its more in the simple gestures and beyond the materialistic thngs i guess.. (bt such surprise wud b nice for a chng i guess...** me rubs hand excitedly!*** thnk u all for the ideas..😉.. i m the one who likes to pamper the other betn the two...and i luv the way his face lightens up and chest swells!!😆😆😆)

once he said (after 3 yrs into the mrg) tht v r soulmates randomly wen we wer discussing on some topic... i guess thts the most most most romantic and true thing he has ever said!😆😆😆.. no he has said those typical loving lines too..bt i always felt its not wat he says or wen he says, its the things he does tht captures my heart.. thrs no valentine day or anniversary day for us.. the day v feel v shud enjoy and celebrate.. we go out and celebrate.. and mostly those r adventure trips and not romantic dates!!!😆

I m so unconventional as a wife.. he thinks i was meant to b a husband bt i became a wife!😆😆😆.. how can a wife b so linient.. understanding and never complaining.. he says..!!! 😆😆😆 he is amazed at tht i dont luv gold ornaments.. nor do i like diamonds to b gifted on anniversaries 😆😆😆.. he wants me chose the place we wud visit nxt..! or plan our fun weekends.. and he wants to take me around the world!

with my husband, its always been in simple and pure gestures of luv.. the real concern behind his furious anger.. or the way he luvs for wat i m by heart and soul.. and the way v care and pine after our every big fight.. and the way he misses me even if he has too big an ego to admit it😆😆.. makes me luv him more with each passing day! the thng tht he luvs and wants me to b with him in watever he does.. even its very uncoventional to do for a woman or girl!😳 we luv and want each other's company in watever v do,.. thts for me the most romantic gesture.. 😳

for watever harsh words he mite have said, its the thing tht he still cannot imagine his life without me and the way he occaisonally and randomly expresses his thanks and luv wen i do even simple things for him.. touches my heart...

i guess romance finds u if u find it in even simplest of things..!😳

Originally posted by: turags

the most beautiful thing that i have read...

Originally posted by: achiever

I think i have had enuf of spamming on u r thrd Sujathaji.. so i wud come to ur topic and put my own bit..

i guess.. v as couple r most overtly unromantic couple in this whole world!😆! the day he will do any of such bold romantic thing.. i will get heart attack😆😆😆! Its funny how it is betn us.. obviously i m the better romantic betn the two.. and it wud b surprise for him if i come up with any such thing.. he will swell for sure..😆 bt still it wont b tht important.. coz its jst so trivial thing thn the way v stand by each other in life.. the way v enjoy it togther.. its nothing compared to tht.. 😳 .. v dont expect any such overt romance from the other.. its more in the simple gestures and beyond the materialistic thngs i guess.. (bt such surprise wud b nice for a chng i guess...** me rubs hand excitedly!*** thnk u all for the ideas..😉.. i m the one who likes to pamper the other betn the two...and i luv the way his face lightens up and chest swells!!😆😆😆)

once he said (after 3 yrs into the mrg) tht v r soulmates randomly wen we wer discussing on some topic... i guess thts the most most most romantic and true thing he has ever said!😆😆😆.. no he has said those typical loving lines too..bt i always felt its not wat he says or wen he says, its the things he does tht captures my heart.. thrs no valentine day or anniversary day for us.. the day v feel v shud enjoy and celebrate.. we go out and celebrate.. and mostly those r adventure trips and not romantic dates!!!😆

I m so unconventional as a wife.. he thinks i was meant to b a husband bt i became a wife!😆😆😆.. how can a wife b so linient.. understanding and never complaining.. he says..!!! 😆😆😆 he is amazed at tht i dont luv gold ornaments.. nor do i like diamonds to b gifted on anniversaries 😆😆😆.. he wants me chose the place we wud visit nxt..! or plan our fun weekends.. and he wants to take me around the world!

with my husband, its always been in simple and pure gestures of luv.. the real concern behind his furious anger.. or the way he luvs for wat i m by heart and soul.. and the way v care and pine after our every big fight.. and the way he misses me even if he has too big an ego to admit it😆😆.. makes me luv him more with each passing day! the thng tht he luvs and wants me to b with him in watever he does.. even its very uncoventional to do for a woman or girl!😳 we luv and want each other's company in watever v do,.. thts for me the most romantic gesture.. 😳

for watever harsh words he mite have said, its the thing tht he still cannot imagine his life without me and the way he occaisonally and randomly expresses his thanks and luv wen i do even simple things for him.. touches my heart...

i guess romance finds u if u find it in even simplest of things..!😳

Originally posted by: Libra

That is every woman's dream. You are a lucky woman indeed.

God bless the both of you.😳

@achiever

Thanks for responding to each and every post...and having added to it too...

Romance is very subjective... what one finds romantic, another may find mundane...and vice versa...but ultimately to me, romance is about sharing with and caring for each other...candlelight dinners and diamond solitaires are nice but they cannot make up for sharing and caring...that is why when people fretted and fumed about no b'day gitts for Nidhi, I could only smile...I have been married 22 years...and have never received any gifts for b'days or anniversaries...nor have I given any...I buy him things when I feel like it...he gives me money at times and asks me to go splurge...but nothing for special occasions...

And yet, he backs my every dream...he is the first person I go to when I am hurt or disappointed...I would say he is my best friend...we are each other's confidantes...and, the icing on the cake is that he has loved my parents as his own...something I am not sure if I have been able to do...when I see the love and care he has for my parents, solitaires and flowers and all other romantic gestures pale in comparison...because he has adopted my dreams and my concerns as his...and that is all that matters at the end of the day!

Originally posted by: achiever

I think i have had enuf of spamming on u r thrd Sujathaji.. so i wud come to ur topic and put my own bit..

i guess.. v as couple r most overtly unromantic couple in this whole world!😆! the day he will do any of such bold romantic thing.. i will get heart attack😆😆😆! Its funny how it is betn us.. obviously i m the better romantic betn the two.. and it wud b surprise for him if i come up with any such thing.. he will swell for sure..😆 bt still it wont b tht important.. coz its jst so trivial thing thn the way v stand by each other in life.. the way v enjoy it togther.. its nothing compared to tht.. 😳 .. v dont expect any such overt romance from the other.. its more in the simple gestures and beyond the materialistic thngs i guess.. (bt such surprise wud b nice for a chng i guess...**me rubs hand excitedly!*** thnk u allfor the ideas..😉.. i m the one who likes to pamper the other betn the two...and i luv the way his facelightens upand chest swells!!😆😆😆)

once he said (after 3 yrs into the mrg) tht v r soulmates randomly wen we wer discussing on some topic... i guess thts the most most most romantic and true thing he has ever said!😆😆😆.. no he has said those typical loving lines too..bt i always felt its not wat he says or wen he says, its the things he does tht captures my heart.. thrs no valentine day or anniversary day for us.. the day v feel v shud enjoy and celebrate.. we go out and celebrate.. and mostly those r adventure trips and not romantic dates!!!😆

I m so unconventional as a wife.. he thinks i was meant to b a husband bt i became a wife!😆😆😆.. how can a wife b so linient.. understanding and never complaining.. he says..!!! 😆😆😆he is amazed at tht i dont luv gold ornaments.. nor do i like diamonds to b gifted on anniversaries 😆😆😆.. he wants me chose the place we wud visit nxt..!or plan our fun weekends.. and he wants to take me around the world!

with my husband, its always been in simple and pure gestures of luv.. the real concern behind his furious anger.. or the way he luvs for wat i m by heart and soul.. and the way v care and pine after our every big fight.. and the way he misses me even if he has too big an ego to admit it😆😆.. makes me luv him more with each passing day! the thng tht he luvs and wants me to b with him in watever he does.. even its very uncoventional to do for a woman or girl!😳 we luv and want each other's company in watever v do,.. thts for me the most romantic gesture.. 😳

for watever harsh words he mite have said, its the thing tht he still cannot imagine his life without me and the way he occaisonally and randomly expresses his thanks and luv wen i do even simple things for him.. touches my heart...

i guess romance finds u if u find it in even simplest of things..!😳

wow! Achiever how can you call yourself unromantic couple . You guys are so much in love that if not words and action your eyes speaks whatever is there in your heart. That's the most beautiful gesture ,much more beautiful than expression through words and Action . Eyes speaks Deep love ,you are one sweet and lucky person . You find love in small things without complaining that's a beauty of your love.
Your husband says you act like husband lolz . Means you are very sweet natured.
God bless both of you , and you guys keep loving like this forever.
Hey! Achiever make him read your FF on Ashni one day , and look at his expression that will be fun.

This is the most beautifull gesture I have ever read. Kisi ki nazar na lage aap dono ko.

Originally posted by: achiever

awww.. u know u r such a lovely and true person.. and i m sure u will get the best man in ur life..😳

bt i wud suggest to shorten ur list of demands before showing it ur wud-b-hubby.. 😆tho keep it handy and show it to him at appropriate time btdont try to strike off each and every point as it completes jst let it go and jump to nxt one if it doesnt get fullfilled.. tht way u can add more innovative and improved demands to ur list..😆😆😆 and the plus point is u can get happy if thy get fullfilled.. if not, u can try something new..😆!

that's so sweet of you achiever you are replying to each and every post . Thanks for your advice . I will definately take your advice. All I need is just love and only love. That's enough for me . But everytime method should be different. Thanks for replying and for the pm.

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

@achiever

Thanks for responding to each and every post...and having added to it too...

Romance is very subjective... what one finds romantic, another may find mundane...and vice versa...but ultimately to me, romance is about sharing with and caring for each other...candlelight dinners and diamond solitaires are nice but they cannot make up for sharing and caring...that is why when people fretted and fumed about no b'day gitts for Nidhi, I could only smile...I have been married 22 years...and have never received any gifts for b'days or anniversaries...nor have I given any...I buy him things when I feel like it...he gives me money at times and asks me to go splurge...but nothing for special occasions...

And yet, he backs my every dream...he is the first person I go to when I am hurt or disappointed...I would say he is my best friend...we are each other's confidantes...and, the icing on the cake is that he has loved my parents as his own...something I am not sure if I have been able to do...when I see the love and care he has for my parents, solitaires and flowers and all other romantic gestures pale in comparison...because he has adopted my dreams and my concerns as his...and that is all that matters at the end of the day!

aww... yet again a touching luv story..