Ashni needs to talk ?

Though ppl says action speaks louder than words ..but is this ok when it comes to ashni ? Should they talk about their fights , separation , feelings etc ...or just 1 hug is ok for them to restart their journey ?


Well we have seen in ktlk that everytm there is a major issue for their fights n separation but when they reunite again they forget the issue n never discuss it ...n i dont know y ...may be for them the topic should be closed after reunion ..or it doesnt matter what was the reason ...

What i think is that TALK IS NECESSARY ...i know love is most imp ..but smtms u need to express it in words ..no matter how much ashni love each other ..their less communication is their biggest problem ..they never discuss things , never share feelings , never tell each other their wishes n needs ...n that's y when one day a third person or odd situation comes ..they start fighting easily .

now i want to ask y dont they talk ? i rem at the time when nidhi sold house to baghchi n ashni was talking at tea stall ..nidhi told "baat karne ke liye poori zindagi padi hai " ...n so ashu dint know anythn about it ...but ab aur kitna waqt ...ab kab samjhenge ek doosre ko ? kab open karenge apni feelings ?

though nidhi is very open but still she shares most of her things with anji instead to ashu ...kyun ? n ashu who has changed a lot after marriage but still not open to his wife ..though he can share evrythn to mallu easily ...y cant he share his dark corner secret with his wife ???

Now i want cvs to show at least 2 epi of ashni talk ...let them discuss their entire journey so far ...let them undrstd each other ...let nidhi know that y ashu fired her from hospital ...let nidhi know what ashu thinks about mallu now ? let nidhi know y ashu forgave mallu so easily ? let nidhi know about ashu's past ...let nidhi know about ashu's deep desire for baby n y this desire is so deep ...n on the same way let ashu undrstd nidhi's pov ...let him undrstd what n how she feels with mallu's entry in their life ...let him know how much struggle she went through during cb's heart attack time ...let ashu know nidhi's ambition , her desire ...let them discuss about their past , present n expectation from their future .....let them TALK please.

N if they wont talk now ...after few days there will be one more fight with some other issue ...as they dont understand each other ..bcoz the problem is deep rooted in their hearts ...which goes away for few days but as soon it gets trigger it comes back .

MY POV.

i second u shikha they shud talk...a heart to heart talk..

shikhaji,,,,,,,,

I agree they definitely need to talk. Hugs cannot solve any difference. We have seen many hugs but whenever any difference cropped up between them these hugs never worked. Hug is just an expression of love but to sort out any difference one needs to have a talk about the bone of contention and to understand each others emotional needs in a better way. That is why it is always said that non communication or mis-communication aggravates problem. Its good that they have already patched up, now they can talk it out in a cordial way and will understand each others POV better, so that they dont get into fight on the same issue repeatedly.

Nice post Shikha. Yes, they need to talk about what they were upset about and why. Express their feelings to each other and listen to each other. Hugs don't solve the problem alone.

Nice post Shikha. Agree with you. They should talk.

capricorn1967@ I agree with u.

They need to address the real issues of their marriage but going by their temperament am sure it would only lead to another fight in the process... Yehi toh chal raha hai shuru se... Nidhi addressed mallika issue n it led to their separation and Ashu addressed Amar only to have it led to another fight... So sirf baat se kuch nahi hoga, they need to understand each others perspective...

Yes, totally, they should talk,esp about the issue made them separated,otherwise it will happen again,always the real issue takes back seat...now new cvs should realize the need of their heart to heart talk about everything.