Isnt one month too soon?

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Isnt one month too soon?

deepa

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Yep,wonderin again. For quite a while actually. I had this neighbour of mine who's weddin i attended one feb many yrs ago. Attended her baby's 'balasara' or d namin ceremony in december,exactly 10 months later. Found it very wierd. Still cant 4get it. Its like did she really get time wid hubby?
I understand time is runnin out 4 ashu. He cant wait 4 a few yrs i agree,but certianly 1 yr. I know concievin isnt easy either but still. Thinkin he n db r scarin d hell outta poor girl.

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subashni

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Voted for yes. I am totally against the idea A couple should have time before they turn into parents or else they will start their life as parents and not as a couple.. I support Nidhi if she specifies time rather than evading the issue. 1 year will make no difference. But she talks about years which is not right. Any couple should have minimum 1 year.

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Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 13 years ago

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One month is definitely too soon even for Ashutosh and Nidhi...but the question is what AShutosh wants...is he actually asking her to conceive right away...or does he want to discuss having a child and agree on a timeframe...that is still not clear...somehow, I don't see him telling her to drop everything and get pregnant right away...am assuming that he would definitely want her to complete her internship at the very least!

However, I must confess that i had my son eleven months from the time we got married..and he was a planned kid...it might shock you to know I was 21 at that time!

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parmarA

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Posted: 13 years ago

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i voted for no.bec when two persons[husband/wife] are settled in their proper age and before wedding they disscussed or dated properly[don't take it wrong way]their communication became stronger.and by chance they issued the baby early they can't abort it.and after confirm pre you have more than 6 months time or more.so i don't think one moth or two months are too soon.soory if i disappointed you this is not view for ashu/nidhi.

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koyelbasu

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I voted YES.
Min 1 year gap between marriage and conception is needed. Couples also need some time for their own. But considering Ashu's age they should plan immediately after the completion of internship or just 1or 2 months before the completion.

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deepa

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@sujatha. Frm wat i understood ,ashu n db want nidhi 2 leave internship n get pregnant asap. Remember db said how wuld she think of a baby if u give her a job?
@alka. Y wuld i b disappointed my dear? Did a poll coz i wanted to know wat ya all think.

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Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: deepa_jd
@sujatha. Frm wat i understood ,ashu n db want nidhi 2 leave internship n get pregnant asap. Remember db said how wuld she think of a baby if u give her a job?
@alka. Y wuld i b disappointed my dear? Did a poll coz i wanted to know wat ya all think.

About DB, I wouldn't know...but she is quite capable of thinking that way since she had never approved of Nidhi becoming a doctor...but I don't think Ashutosh expects that from Nidhi...if he does, then I will be the first to cast my vote against him!

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niniborn2rule

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Posted: 13 years ago

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voted for yes...agree that being an age gap couple they need to plan a family earlier than other couple but 1 month???naaa i guess they can wait fr 1yr...no harm in that..

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BayofSarcasm

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Good poll deeps. Yes it's too early. Poor girl has just about got her husband and house from evil intruders, so let her get some time to even feel married.

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busybee..

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Posted: 13 years ago

Good poll deepa 👍🏼
Voted for YES

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