What does the child want? - Page 3

Alka: not you dear... I am talking to sujata rao..

Originally posted by: ithasme

Wat r u talking abt?? 1st u wanted a adopt child for ashni, then u said one child of their blood & second one a adopted, then u said ashu cn wait for sme yrs as nidhi shud b allowed to complete & fullfil her certain desires etc.. Now u r Talking abt the unborn child on greater length.. Grrr..

Harshal...am sorry you are unable to understand my post...!

Originally posted by: radhika72

Parental care is seen in fishes which are the lowest form of chordates. In fact no animal abandons the young ones like humans. Janvars are better in this department.

Pretty much what I said in my response to Alka's post!

Originally posted by: deepa_jd

thats exactly wat i said d other day and it became a joke !

Dekh yehi toh dukh ki bat hae. Tujhe koi seriously lete nahi. Bahut nainsafi hae.🤗 Tune mazak me bahut bari baat keh di thi. Yes, if given option to the baby then many babies would have been decided against it. But they have no choice.

I always said that career and baby can be handled together. Where there is a will there is a way. But there need to be a will in both the parents.

Sujata: i dnt comment just for sake of commenting on such debate oriented post.. If i hv a point to put down, i comment on it.. I write wat i mean.. Ask any old member who knw right frm the startof my membership here.. Tanu ji ko aap pooch sakti ho..

Originally posted by: sun29

sujatha ..she was not vehement because she did not want a child she was perplexed and ruffled because DB cornered her and then ashu stated his desire...give her a break...she loves children,she has a natural gift with them...and for all we know she would herself give in seeing ashu ka desire without him telling her anything...

we screamed and screamed when she was not once considering working...and i had given up all hopes too..but then she did wake up from her slumber and decided to pursue her career ...so before she actually goes back to slumber let her finish her internship at the least

and nidhi would never harm a life be it unborn ...just becuase she chose to react in such a way does not mean she is categorized as one...so let her chose to be a mother rather than us and the unborn child deciding it for her...if not now then in sometime she will realize time is of utmost important to ashu and so is the need for the kid...have patience

the girl needs self awakening and once it happens she excels in whatever she does...be it an intern ,daughter ,wife ,lover or mother ...

You've missed the point here...I am not saying she should be pushed...on the contrary, if she is vehemently opposed to the idea, having a child now would neither be in her or the child's interests...on what she will feel eventually, we will have to wait and see...

And I would never imply that she would harm an unborn child...yet, you cant deny that there are likely to be moments of resentment if she is coerced into it...that is all I was saying!

Originally posted by: ithasme

Sujata: i dnt comment just for sake of commenting on such debate oriented post.. If i hv a point to put down, i comment on it.. I write wat i mean.. Ask any old member who knw right frm the startof my membership here.. Tanu ji ko aap pooch sakti ho..

Harshal, I did not imply that you were doing anything of that sort...and yet, if you are unable to appreciate what I am saying, I can't help that either...!

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

You've missed the point here...I am not saying she should be pushed...on the contrary, if she is vehemently opposed to the idea, having a child now would neither be in her or the child's interests...on what she will feel eventually, we will have to wait and see...

And I would never imply that she would harm an unborn child...yet, you cant deny that there are likely to be moments of resentment if she is coerced into it...that is all I was saying!