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deepa

@jayanti_dj

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Posted: 13 years ago

Forum mahaul these days seems to be boilin .. all the time. this
actually made me stay away from it on friday (a rare thing for me !) ..and
made me wonder why do I come here ? i watch the show ...and that should be it ..right ? then why do i come here.. make posts on a daily basis .get 2 eat wonderful jootas at times

..and spend literally all my wakin time here...
here is what I found..

seven- i dont have anything else 2 do.. most of the time anyways..

six- i get 2 see all the wonderful siggys and caps..

five-i get 2 know whats gonna happen next in d show (obviously ,i cant follow all the tv news based shows !..actually follow none of them !)

four-i get 2 read some wonderful posts made by tanu ,waves,mudra and our latest entrant libra ..honestly u ladies rock the forum... i smile so much when i read them..

three-i got some really nice friends here..

two-i can forget my daily problems for some time ..
see we all have our share of problems.. for me , forum is kinda escape mechanism.. effective nonetheless...
while i understand its not always maintain positivity in the forum,we can try our best..we need to remember that words are powerful and needed to be used in a right way.we can write watever we want.. but we need to judge the impact they would have on the reader..constant negativity fuels depression and hopelessness.. thats exactly what we fight ..in real life ,we do that all the time..yaha aake bhi if we see negativity (24/7) and doin the same fighting ,then whats the point of coming here?

one - this is my adda. .. where i have spent some wonderful time..and hope I would ..

what are your reasons ?

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Rabzonedge

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Posted: 13 years ago

Excellent post...I have same Reasons for coming to Forum..

Foremost Reason I love KTLK...

And other its an escape mechanism from Real World...And ofcourse to Read wonderful posts and to meet my Friends i Made here...🤗

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Sujatha.rao

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Posted: 13 years ago

Deepa, very nice post...I think you have pretty much summed up the reasons for most people to visit the forum...

I am sure you have heard of how sorrow/pain is halved by sharing...forget the forum, most of use watch shows for relaxation...after a point, we start engaging with the characters and start experiencing their emotions vicariously...we relate their life situations to our own...our personal pains and joys come to the fore in the process...and in the forum, we find a group of people who are going through pretty much the same experiences and we share our anger/depression etc with them...to me this is group venting...am sure you are aware of a custom in South India where people even mourn their dead by group crying...I know it is an extreme analogy but the fact is it is like a pressure valve that helps to let off the steam...

I don't know about others but that is exactly what it is for me...venting on the forum is a therapeutic exercise...when I share my agitation with my fellow members and listen to them venting in return, it kind of helps to calm down...and am truly glad for this space. Of course the funny posts that people like you and Waves make helps by showing up the absurdity of the whole situation...

All in all, I want to be able to scream and shout out my helplessness and anger over the absurdities on the show before laughing them away...and I am happy that the forum allows me to do both!

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RoDee

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Posted: 13 years ago

Wow ...Deepa, another wonderful post...

FFs was the first reason to join forum. But I come here for all the reasons you have mentioned. Its good to be in some LaLa land for sometime... Now I would say its more of an addiction,just can't stop myself from coming here. But I really enjoy here.

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deepa

@jayanti_dj

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: rabzonedge
Excellent post...I have same Reasons for coming to Forum..
Foremost Reason I love KTLK...
And other its an escape mechanism from Real World...And ofcourse to Read wonderful posts and to meet my Friends i Made here...🤗

haha..
thanks div..
me 2 love ktlk!

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deepa

@jayanti_dj

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao
Deepa, very nice post...I think you have pretty much summed up the reasons for most people to visit the forum...

I am sure you have heard of how sorrow/pain is halved by sharing...forget the forum, most of use watch shows for relaxation...after a point, we start engaging with the characters and start experiencing their emotions vicariously...we relate their life situations to our own...our personal pains and joys come to the fore in the process...and in the forum, we find a group of people who are going through pretty much the same experiences and we share our anger/depression etc with them...to me this is group venting...am sure you are aware of a custom in South India where people even mourn their dead by group crying...I know it is an extreme analogy but the fact is it is like a pressure valve that helps to let off the steam...

I don't know about others but that is exactly what it is for me...venting on the forum is a therapeutic exercise...when I share my agitation with my fellow members and listen to them venting in return, it kind of helps to calm down...and am truly glad for this space. Of course the funny posts that people like you and Waves make helps by showing up the absurdity of the whole situation...

All in all, I want to be able to scream and shout out my helplessness and anger over the absurdities on the show before laughing them away...and I am happy that the forum allows me to do both!

we need to rememeber the reasons why we are here..
i hate negativity !
would have 2 stop comin here if i see negativity all the time.. and honestly speakin ,iam reaching my limit of endurance!

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deepa

@jayanti_dj

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: aarch
Wow ...Deepa, another wonderful post...

FFs was the first reason to join forum. But I come here for all the reasons you have mentioned. Its good to be in some LaLa land for sometime... Now I would say its more of an addiction,just can't stop myself from coming here. But I really enjoy here.

i rarely read FFs. but i like here coz it gives me a chance 2 escape real life tensions..n pressure..
lekin of late,yahan ka mahaul is so depressin that iam questionin why am I here?

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Rabzonedge

@rabzonedge

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Posted: 13 years ago

Deepu...KTLK Forum mahaul reflects KTLK Tracks..Ppl are expressing their anguish...Though i agree with you..Its getting over board now...KTLK Mallu Track is Main Culprit...KP Ji ki jai bolo jai bolo...

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kaks0211

@kaks0211

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Posted: 13 years ago

Lovely post Deepa. Reasons are the same for me too. I find this forum a lovely place to share my views. Esp when I get depressed with the episodes I love reading the posts here. Of course even I agree that recently the negativity has increased and sometimes we get more depressed reading those..

I love KTLK and like to keep myself updated with the latest news about my fav serial and the tweets of SK and others...

This is a wonderful place where I have made new friends and would like to continue being a member...

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heydoc27

@heydoc27

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Posted: 13 years ago

#10

oy JK ki AD jai ho!!!
unki naam aur roshan karo😆😆
yeh saath number ki OCD se bhi maaf!!!😆😆

waise,reasons toh hume dene honge for njaaying d brilliant,fantabulous,amazing,fadooo creative posts by the forum Qs>>>>>>emoticQ,themeQ,tanu,MS n libra

WORD👍🏼 for ALL d reasons i mean AAL😆😉

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