Ashutosh - a failure ?

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SHIKHA19

@SHIKHA19

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Posted: 13 years ago

Ok ok my heading seems offensive but what to do after seeing ashu's behaviour ysday ..i have to say this that ashu has failed as both husband n friend .

AS HUSBAND :-

we know this since beginning that he never took lead in this relationship ...n after marriage his behaviour is same ...he never did anythn for nidhi ...unless armaan told him to do so ...or nidhi demanded herself ...otherwise he himself never thought of doing anythn for her ...Though i expected him to change after marriage ...n was having a hope when he understood nidhi's feeling at hospital ...that now he will balance both ladies well ...but to my shock he has not changed . 😲

UR WIFE PLANNED SUCH A BEAUTIFUL DATE FOR U ...U HIMSELF CALLED IT JANNAT ...BUT WHEN U SAW MALLU U FORGOT EVRYTHN 😲 N TELLING UR WIFE GO N SLEEP ALONE ..DONT WAIT FOR ME I WILL REMAIN HERE WITH MALLU ...N MOREOVER U R BACK AT SHARING OLD STORIES OF LONDON WITH HER ..THAT HOW U N MALLU SPENT WHOLE NIGHT TOGETHER IN ONE COAT 😲 ...UNBELIEVABLE

The way ashu completely ignored nidhi's efforts n love ...i am so so angry with him ...khud kuch kabhi kara nahi ..its always her who always do things for him ...n bajaye ki u should undrstd her feeling u r busy with friend ..because she is ill ...OK NOW please explain :-

u r a doctor na ...so if ur patient ..any patient in hospital wants u to stay with him or her ...to kya ap poori raat uske paas baithe rahoge ? ghar nahi jaoge ? There is smthn called sedatives ...y ashu is not giving her that ..if her condition is so bad n she needs rest physically n mentally both ? ..doctors give sleeping pills even in fever so that patient will get some rest ...then y not to mallu ?

YE KASIE DOCTORI HAI ?

n no feelings for wife ...taking her for granted ..ki ye to biwi hai ..sab smajah hi jayegi ..kahan jayegi ..etc etc 😡

I ALWAYS THINK Y NIDHI LOVES HIM ? 😕

N 1 MORE THING ...mallu is taking advantage of situation n touching him again n again but ashu is no less ..he is also not leaving any moment to touch her back ...HELLO ...U R MARRIED MAN ...N SO AS MALLU ...SHE IS SMBDY ELSE WIFE ...SO THINK TWICE BEFORE GETTING TOO CLOSE TO HER ..NO MATTER SHE WAS UR 12 SAALPURANI FRIEND BUT RIGHT NOW SHE IS PARAYI AURAT ...WEIRD 🤢

SO OVERALL ASHU FAILED AS A HUSBAND ...BY ONLY ACCEPTING DEMAND OF WIFE'S hm PLAN DOESNT MAKES HIM A PERFECT HUBBY . AT LEAST SHE PLANNED Hm ..ASHU SE TO WO BHI NAHI HUA ...

AS A FRIEND :-

ok we all think that he is a good friend ..the way he is caring for mallu ...but isnt he also rspnsbl for her condtn ..? no lady is such a fool that she will destroy her life for sm1 who doesnt love u ..unless the man himself give some hints to her ...agar ashu ne yes nahi kaha to kabhi mallu ka saath bhi nahi choda ...the way he cared for her ..the way he helped her ...the way he always told her every single thing etc etc ..suggests that ashu himself didnt want to loose her so in a way he spoiled her life .

wo bhi jane do ..what he did ...but what he is doing now :-

1. as a friend y he is not informing police ...for whatever hppnd to mallu ? isnt jagan a threat to mallu ...so he should at least file a FIR against him .

2. Y he is not trying to find aditya n sue ...he supposed to inform her family na ...n come on its not that difficult ..check mallu's diaries etc ...shayad koi no. ho ...n dude USE FACEBOOK ...EASIEST WAY TO FIND ANY1 ..U R IN 21st CENTURY .

3. Y HE IS NOT APPOINTING ANY NURSE ..FOR HER ..r Db n nidhi servants or what ?...wo kyun poora din us ki dekh bhaal karein ..n ashu khud to kisi ke help karne ke haal mein nahi hai ..so at least appoint a nurse who can take care her 24 hours . 😕

4. N ashu ji sell BB's house ...n purchase a new house for mallu ...n jaise hi madam theek ho jaye...ghar ki chabbi do ...or bye bye bolo ...kuch to karo ..free mein ghar hadap kar baith gaye .

Phew ..so overall ASHUTOSH IS FAILED AS FRIEND ALSO ...JUST BY TAKING UR FRIEND AT HOME N TOUCHING HER AGAIN N AGAIN DOESNT MAKE U A GOOD FRIEND AT ALL .

So its high time that ashu realised that he is doing wrong with nidhi ...n agar abhi bhi nahi samajh mein aaye then nidhi call rohan ...n go away with him ...he is anyday better .

WAISE BHI KP JI NE PROVE KAR HI DIYA ..THAT DOSTI IS MAHAN OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS ...MAHAN THAN LOVE MAHAN THAN MARRIAGE .

DOSTI ROCKS MARRIAGE FLOPS 😡 .

cvs should do a reality check before making fun of the most beautiful rishta of husband - wife . DISGUSTING 😡

N YA WE ALL R EXPECTING DB TO SOLVE THINGS ..BUT Y ..WHY ALWAYS SM1 ELSE TO SOLVE ASHNI'S TROUBLE ? ...Y CANT THEY DO ANYTHN THEMSELVES ? Y ROHAN , ARMAAN , BB N NOW DB ???😕 Y ASHU IS NOT REALISING HIMSELF THAT HE IS DOING INJUSTICE TO HER WIFE ? WHY OH WHY ?? HADD HO GAYI 😡

n ya after saying so much ...i want to say yes i like d whole song sequence..the whole set up n evrythn ...dialogues bw ashni ...ashu as typical husband ..khud show off karo to kuch nahi ..wifey ne kar diya to expose 😲😆 n yes he always has one answer " I DONT KNOW " ...either SR or wife ki tareef or smthn else ..HE JUST DOESNT KNOW .. aise log pyar karte kyun hai ..

n uske baad jo hamla hua viewers par that was more powerful to kill us 😡

n cvs if u feel happy just bcoz u r getting hatred for mallu ..then think again we r not hating mallu as we know what she is ...we r hating this concept where the other woman in a man's life is more superior than wife for him 🤢

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tanu

@Armu4eva

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Posted: 13 years ago

Shikha.. good analysis... i will reply to the post.. in a while.. meeting going on... . i do not agree that Ashu has ruined Mallus life...

A person with self respect wuld stop tagging onto their friend.. after getting sufficient response from him that he is not interested in her.. lets not forget that.. during the candle light tea nite.. after nidhi left.. n mallu asked ashu to come to her house as her bro expected him to ask for her hand.. he told in CLEAR CUT tone that he is not interested n that the relation of marriage has no space in his life...

The reason why he clings on to Mallu is coz back in those days.. when BB left... she was the only constant in his life.. the only RELATION he had to get love from.. or care from and to give ..love n care to...!

Din Ashu.. ask Ranga to find the whereabouts... din.. Ranga say.. that coz of immigration laws.. getting Jagan immediately wuld b an issue?? (it mite be a technical flaw in writing but not in Ashu or his desire to help)

Mallu was being taken care of in the hosp by nurses but she only wants Ashu... to feed her to hold her hand to take her home... what is he supposed to do?

As a FRIEND he has done ENOUF ... but if Mallu wants to b shameless enouf to cling on to his neck.. i dun see how it is ASHUS fault???

However.. regarding as a Hubby. i agree to ur concerns...

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purplegrapes

@purplegrapes

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

@SHIKA

AGREE --he is a failure both as a hubby and friend

i wish they remove the the tag that its based on DK

in DK ,dr ahmer was both a great friend and partner(they didnt show marriage,they go to the house together)

they have messed up

Edited by andkan - 13 years ago

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SHIKHA19

@SHIKHA19

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Armu4eva
Shikha.. good analysis... i will reply to the post.. in a while.. meeting going on... . i do not agree that Ashu has ruined Mallus life...

A person with self respect wuld stop tagging onto their friend.. after getting sufficient response from him that he is not interested in her.. lets not forget that.. during the candle light tea nite.. after nidhi left.. n mallu asked ashu to come to her house as her bro expected him to ask for her hand.. he told in CLEAR CUT tone that he is not interested n that the relation of marriage has no space in his life...

The reason why he clings on to Mallu is coz back in those days.. when BB left... she was the only constant in his life.. the only RELATION he had to get love from.. or care from and to give ..love n care to...!
exactly this my point ..they both were filling gaps in each other's life ..ashu took it as friendship but mallu as love ...n that created all problems ...y ashu never tried to contact armaan that time ..when he is his childhood friend ? y always mallu for everythn . ..n after this result ye hua that mallu started thinking that no one can come in ashu's life other than her ..bcoz ashu never gave entry to any1 else except mallu ...so yes ashu has fault here though not directly but indirectly . n now he is doing this again ...y cant he tell mallu that now he is married to nidhi ..so he cant be there with her all the time ..keep it clear n open to mallu na . she is again taking his sympathy as love ...CLEAR IT NOW
Din Ashu.. ask Ranga to find the whereabouts... din.. Ranga say.. that coz of immigration laws.. getting Jagan immediately wuld b an issue?? (it mite be a technical flaw in writing but not in Ashu or his desire to help)

I am not saying him to go abroad ..but try to contact them on his own .

Mallu was being taken care of in the hosp by nurses but she only wants Ashu... to feed her to hold her hand to take her home... what is he supposed to do?

at least appoint a nurse or some one who can take care of her ...instead of making DB n nidhi servants 😕 ...who can give her tea , medicines n moreover can stay with her whole day ...mallu dint have any prob with nurses in hospital ...she just want ashu to keep coming to check her...but ghar aane ke baad sab ulta hi ho raha hai ...😡

As a FRIEND he has done ENOUF ... but if Mallu wants to b shameless enouf to cling on to his neck.. i dun see how it is ASHUS fault???

earlier may be its not all his fault but right now he is deffo doing evrythn wrong 😕 mallu is out of her mind ..but ashu is behaving that he has lost his mind 😡

However.. regarding as a Hubby. i agree to ur concerns...
no good things for ashu now ..i m so angry at him

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tanu

@Armu4eva

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Posted: 13 years ago

@Shikha... Back then the person called Armaan was not part of the story... remember his entry in the show was not to.. save him from Mallika rather to bring AshNi closer...! We can have 10000000 friends.. in the world but we wuld hv only a few close buddies n in this regard.. Mallu was always closer to Ashu...!

Its not about going abroad.. in the story.. Ashus inquiry for Mallus family has been shown n answer given by Ranga too (We may not be happy with it but that does not mean its Ashus fault)

The condition that Mallu is .. at the moment.. his priority wuld b to see her get cured than calling all n sundry to take care of her..! Ashu wuld never do that to Mallu...!

I agree that his behvariour towards Mallu beats.. logic.. off late..but.. to say he is responsible for Mallus condition.. NO WAYS..!

She has written the grief in her own fate.. .and she has to endure it..! But yes i want to see Jagan punished and m sure that will happen to...! (If KP ji doesnt suffer a memory loss... lolz)

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SHIKHA19

@SHIKHA19

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Armu4eva
@Shikha... Back then the person called Armaan was not part of the story... remember his entry in the show was not to.. save him from Mallika rather to bring AshNi closer...! We can have 10000000 friends.. in the world but we wuld hv only a few close buddies n in this regard.. Mallu was always closer to Ashu...!

Its not about going abroad.. in the story.. Ashus inquiry for Mallus family has been shown n answer given by Ranga too (We may not be happy with it but that does not mean its Ashus fault)

The condition that Mallu is .. at the moment.. his priority wuld b to see her get cured than calling all n sundry to take care of her..! Ashu wuld never do that to Mallu...!

I agree that his behvariour towards Mallu beats.. logic.. off late..but.. to say he is responsible for Mallus condition.. NO WAYS..!

She has written the grief in her own fate.. .and she has to endure it..! But yes i want to see Jagan punished and m sure that will happen to...! (If KP ji doesnt suffer a memory loss... lolz)

tanu its different POV ...right now i m just seeing ashu at every fault ...what mallu is doing is expected from her ...moreover we can think that she is doing because she is not in her senses ...but what ashu is doing is doing in his full senses ..so for me right now he is at BIG FAULT .

moreover when he said to nidhi that he knew mallu is rspnsbl for evrythn earlier ..i was shocked ..if he knew all that then y he dint stop her or punish her at that time ..y at that time he was behaving as dumb who listened evythn from mallu n was telling evrey single detail to her ...poor nidhi was fighting all alone for love 😕

n itna sab hone ke baad bhi he is again giving priority to friend more than wife ...awesome 😡

n about punishment to culprits ..well bhool jao ...abhi tak to kuch hua nahi aisa ...may be after some time KP ji will show jagan's harketin as his mahanta ..bcoz of some odd reason

Edited by SHIKHA19 - 13 years ago

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tanu

@Armu4eva

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Posted: 13 years ago

Shikha... this i agree totally... Ashus turning blind eye to Mallus crimes is really appalling to say the least...

Thats why m saying.. as a husband i agree he is failing.. day by day.. but as a friend.. no.. he is doing some justice.. if not 100%

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kaks0211

@kaks0211

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Posted: 13 years ago

I dont want to use the word failure - but definitely Ashu is not behaving like a proper husband. He is totally taking his newly wed wife for granted and taking full advantage of the fact that Nidhi will silently do whatever he says... Esp after yesterday's epi and precap this feeling has crept into our mind.

He has always been partial towards his friend as compared to Nidhi - but all that was before marriage - now that he has married her it is his duty to keep her happy..he is not even thinking of her mental state...The way he is behaving it is appearing to us and to Nidhi that he actually loved Mallika..

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karajekar

@karajekar

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: kaks0211
I dont want to use the word failure - but definitely Ashu is not behaving like a proper husband. He is totally taking his newly wed wife for granted and taking full advantage of the fact that Nidhi will silently do whatever he says... Esp after yesterday's epi and precap this feeling has crept into our mind.
He has always been partial towards his friend as compared to Nidhi - but all that was before marriage - now that he has married her it is his duty to keep her happy..he is not even thinking of her mental state...The way he is behaving it is appearing to us and to Nidhi that he actually loved Mallika..

i agreed with you kaks

the way he is behaving with mallu use lagta hai mallu ko uski zarurat hai per jaise mallu ko ashu ki zarurat hai waise he nidhi ko bhi hai yehi waqt hai ashu ka nidhi ko sambhalne kaa nahi toh things will reach out of ashu hand

and ashu ko aisa lag reha hai ki woh mallu ko cure kar reha hai but yeh baat galat hai woh use aur deepression mein daal reha hai ,aise woh cure toh nahi balki aur obsesse ho jaygi fir nidhi aur ashu ka relation sambhalna bahot mushkil hai

aur yeh jo differences hai use un dono ko he kam karna hai 3rd person ki help lena thik nahi hoga

hope every thing will be all right (i taught this serial will set an example for those who are oppose to the marriage of age gap but ??????

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White Lotus

@white_lotus

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Posted: 13 years ago

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In my views, Ashu doesn't n never deserve love from the girl like Nidhi. Many a times I use to think, what NIdhi seen in Ashutosh? Why she is loving him so much? Whats the reason? We never seen her getting impressed with his looks or his knowledge but still she is loving him...why?

Anyways, Nidhi should give him final warning regarding whatever he is doing currently. She should remind him that now she is his wife and he should respect her in every way.
She should remind him about Mallu's deeds and intentions.

AND even then IF he is not listening to her and singing friendship 'puran'...THEN Nidhi should leave Ashu with his friend and kick him OUT from her life forever.

Edited by muksonline18 - 13 years ago

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