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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: muksonline18

In my views, Ashu doesn't n never deserve love from the girl like Nidhi. Many a times I use to think, what NIdhi seen in Ashutosh? Why she is loving him so much? Whats the reason? We never seen her getting impressed with his looks or his knowledge but still she is loving him...why?

Anyways, Nidhi should give him final warning regarding whatever he is doing currently. She should remind him that now she is his wife and he should respect her in every way.
She should remind him about Mallu's deeds and intentions.

AND even then IF he is not listening to her and singing friendship 'puran'...THEN Nidhi should leave Ashu with his friend and kick him OUT from her life forever.


I totally agree with all your points. Why does she love him? She is so fun loving. Nidhi should take him out of the house and talk to him. If they stay in the house, Mallu will again interrupt and Ashu will go to her.
And yes, if talking does not work, she should leave him. Why stay with him when he ignores you and pays more attention to his friend. Hopefully the shock will open his eyes. Actually I will not be suprised if this happens from DBs' reaction to Mallu hugging Ashu. Maybe BB will also say something to Ashu since he too was there when Mallu and Ashu were hugging.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: muksonline18

In my views, Ashu doesn't n never deserve love from the girl like Nidhi. Many a times I use to think, what NIdhi seen in Ashutosh? Why she is loving him so much? Whats the reason? We never seen her getting impressed with his looks or his knowledge but still she is loving him...why?

Anyways, Nidhi should give him final warning regarding whatever he is doing currently. She should remind him that now she is his wife and he should respect her in every way.
She should remind him about Mallu's deeds and intentions.

AND even then IF he is not listening to her and singing friendship 'puran'...THEN Nidhi should leave Ashu with his friend and kick him OUT from her life forever.


You know what they say " love is deaf, dumb and blind". Love has no logic. Love just is.
You really can't choose who you fall in love with, love just happens.
Sorry is this sounds too mushy, is just my pov.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SHIKHA19

Ok ok my heading seems offensive but what to do after seeing ashu's


u sure are upset Shikha...
chill..
i have some answers for u though...
I ALWAYS THINK Y NIDHI LOVES HIM ? 😕
she loves him despite all his flaws...she loves him for what he is ...besides i dont think one has 2 have a reason 2 love anyone... even ravan was loved ..and so was voldemort ..by bella...
every person is worthy of being loved !
what i dont understand is why do we keep on forgettin why do we take only the present episode/track in consideration..its not a play or a single episode.. its a whole show! after kerala track,everyone kept askin why does ashu love nidhi..and now why does nidhi love ashu...
why do we forget all that ashu has done for nidhi?

N 1 MORE THING ...mallu is taking advantage of situation n touching him again n again but ashu is no less ..he is also not leaving any moment to touch her back ...HELLO ...U R MARRIED MAN ...N SO AS MALLU ...SHE IS SMBDY ELSE WIFE ...SO THINK TWICE BEFORE GETTING TOO CLOSE TO HER ..NO MATTER SHE WAS UR 12 SAALPURANI FRIEND BUT RIGHT NOW SHE IS PARAYI AURAT ...WEIRD 🤢
see ,we woman have this unique quality of judgin a guy's intentions ..we can look at a guy and can immediately sense he is lookin at us wid what kinda intentions and the same goes for touch.. i shake hands wid so many guys.. but when I met my now ex,i knew from d very beginnin this is not just a ordinary friendship...
i dunno abt whether u felt the same abt someone or not though !
so the same goes for malu as well.. ashu must have held her hands so many times.and she would have felt the absence of that sp feelin.. despite that if she has waited for him,then i guess its entirely her mistake.. may be she was livin in d delusion that one day ashu would accept her!

SO OVERALL ASHU FAILED AS A HUSBAND ...BY ONLY ACCEPTING DEMAND OF WIFE'S hm PLAN DOESNT MAKES HIM A PERFECT HUBBY . AT LEAST SHE PLANNED Hm ..ASHU SE TO WO BHI NAHI HUA ...

AS A FRIEND :-
ok we all think that he is a good friend ..the way he is caring for mallu ...but isnt he also rspnsbl for her condtn ..? no lady is such a fool that she will destroy her life for sm1 who doesnt love u ..unless the man himself give some hints to her ...agar ashu ne yes nahi kaha to kabhi mallu ka saath bhi nahi choda ...the way he cared for her ..the way he helped her ...the way he always told her every single thing etc etc ..suggests that ashu himself didnt want to loose her so in a way he spoiled her life .

wo bhi jane do ..what he did ...but what he is doing now :-

1. as a friend y he is not informing police ...for whatever hppnd to mallu ? isnt jagan a threat to mallu ...so he should at least file a FIR against him .
jagan is in US .and from what I remember ,he has a green card ...so dont think a FIR here will help mallu ..as long as he isnt here !

2. Y he is not trying to find aditya n sue ...he supposed to inform her family na ...n come on its not that difficult ..check mallu's diaries etc ...shayad koi no. ho ...n dude USE FACEBOOK ...EASIEST WAY TO FIND ANY1 ..U R IN 21st CENTURY .
try 2 find me ! my personal experience tells me no "friend" can find u if u dont wanna be found.. if sue left india like that ,do u think she wouldnt be smart enuf 2 hide traces.. ashu and Ranga aint a detective!

3. Y HE IS NOT APPOINTING ANY NURSE ..FOR HER ..r Db n nidhi servants or what ?...wo kyun poora din us ki dekh bhaal karein ..n ashu khud to kisi ke help karne ke haal mein nahi hai ..so at least appoint a nurse who can take care her 24 hours . 😕
its not even 24hrs since they came home.. nurse req will depend on what are her needs.. u cant hire a nurse just like that..esp when there r so many ppl in home.. if mallu was bed ridden,then things would have been diff!

4. N ashu ji sell BB's house ...n purchase a new house for mallu ...n jaise hi madam theek ho jaye...ghar ki chabbi do ...or bye bye bolo ...kuch to karo ..free mein ghar hadap kar baith gaye .
give him time yaar! these things dont happen over nite.. gov things take time.. besides ,ashu is sick !

Phew ..so overall ASHUTOSH IS FAILED AS FRIEND ALSO ...JUST BY TAKING UR FRIEND AT HOME N TOUCHING HER AGAIN N AGAIN DOESNT MAKE U A GOOD FRIEND AT ALL .
he doesnt touch her coz he wants to.. agar baar baar mallu haath pakad le to vo kya kare?

So its high time that ashu realised that he is doing wrong with nidhi ...n agar abhi bhi nahi samajh mein aaye then nidhi call rohan ...n go away with him ...he is anyday better .
how can nidhi go away wid rohan? she is married for cryin out loud!

WAISE BHI KP JI NE PROVE KAR HI DIYA ..THAT DOSTI IS MAHAN OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS ...MAHAN THAN LOVE MAHAN THAN MARRIAGE .

DOSTI ROCKS MARRIAGE FLOPS 😡 .

cvs should do a reality check before making fun of the most beautiful rishta of husband - wife . DISGUSTING 😡

n ya after saying so much ...i want to say yes i like d whole song sequence..the whole set up n evrythn ...dialogues bw ashni ...ashu as typical husband ..khud show off karo to kuch nahi ..wifey ne kar diya to expose 😲😆 n yes he always has one answer " I DONT KNOW " ...either SR or wife ki tareef or smthn else ..HE JUST DOESNT KNOW .. aise log pyar karte kyun hai ..
n uske baad jo hamla hua viewers par that was more powerful to kill us 😡
i would have been really surprised if ashu hadnt reacted the way he did.. this is his character..a conservative husband who is pretty borin ..and doesnt need all this ...what he might consider over the top ! not every man drools over a hot woman..and d same goes for every woman!
n cvs if u feel happy just bcoz u r getting hatred for mallu ..then think again we r not hating mallu as we know what she is ...we r hating this concept where the other woman in a man's life is more superior than wife for him 🤢



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SHIKHA19

Ok ok my heading seems offensive but what to do after seeing ashu's behaviour ysday ..i have to say this that ashu has failed as both husband n friend .


agree wid u completely..ashu is a complete failure as a hubby bt nt as a friend. he has always been der fr his friends be it mallika or arman.

AS HUSBAND :-
we know this since beginning that he never took lead in this relationship ...n after marriage his behaviour is same ...he never did anythn for nidhi ...unless armaan told him to do so ...or nidhi demanded herself ...otherwise he himself never thought of doing anythn for her ...Though i expected him to change after marriage ...n was having a hope when he understood nidhi's feeling at hospital ...that now he will balance both ladies well ...but to my shock he has not changed . 😲
UR WIFE PLANNED SUCH A BEAUTIFUL DATE FOR U ...U HIMSELF CALLED IT JANNAT ...BUT WHEN U SAW MALLU U FORGOT EVRYTHN 😲 N TELLING UR WIFE GO N SLEEP ALONE ..DONT WAIT FOR ME I WILL REMAIN HERE WITH MALLU ...N MOREOVER U R BACK AT SHARING OLD STORIES OF LONDON WITH HER ..THAT HOW U N MALLU SPENT WHOLE NIGHT TOGETHER IN ONE COAT 😲 ...UNBELIEVABLE
The way ashu completely ignored nidhi's efforts n love ...i am so so angry with him ...khud kuch kabhi kara nahi ..its always her who always do things for him ...n bajaye ki u should undrstd her feeling u r busy with friend ..because she is ill ...OK NOW please explain :-

u r a doctor na ...so if ur patient ..any patient in hospital wants u to stay with him or her ...to kya ap poori raat uske paas baithe rahoge ? ghar nahi jaoge ? There is smthn called sedatives ...y ashu is not giving her that ..if her condition is so bad n she needs rest physically n mentally both ? ..doctors give sleeping pills even in fever so that patient will get some rest ...then y not to mallu ?
YE KASIE DOCTORI HAI ?

n no feelings for wife ...taking her for granted ..ki ye to biwi hai ..sab smajah hi jayegi ..kahan jayegi ..etc etc 😡
I ALWAYS THINK Y NIDHI LOVES HIM ? 😕

me too 😕 kyunki script mein likha hai 😛 no bt seriously y does he always take her fr granted 😕 n wenever nidhi tries to do something,he says ab meri umar nahi rahi..toh fir shaadi hi kyun ki 🤢

N 1 MORE THING ...mallu is taking advantage of situation n touching him again n again but ashu is no less ..he is also not leaving any moment to touch her back ...HELLO ...U R MARRIED MAN ...N SO AS MALLU ...SHE IS SMBDY ELSE WIFE ...SO THINK TWICE BEFORE GETTING TOO CLOSE TO HER ..NO MATTER SHE WAS UR 12 SAALPURANI FRIEND BUT RIGHT NOW SHE IS PARAYI AURAT ...WEIRD 🤢

i dont blame mallika in dis case coz of d state she's in..bt wonder isnt she aware about ashu-nidhi marriage ??

SO OVERALL ASHU FAILED AS A HUSBAND ...BY ONLY ACCEPTING DEMAND OF WIFE'S hm PLAN DOESNT MAKES HIM A PERFECT HUBBY . AT LEAST SHE PLANNED Hm ..ASHU SE TO WO BHI NAHI HUA ...

AS A FRIEND :-
ok we all think that he is a good friend ..the way he is caring for mallu ...but isnt he also rspnsbl for her condtn ..? no lady is such a fool that she will destroy her life for sm1 who doesnt love u ..unless the man himself give some hints to her ...agar ashu ne yes nahi kaha to kabhi mallu ka saath bhi nahi choda ...the way he cared for her ..the way he helped her ...the way he always told her every single thing etc etc ..suggests that ashu himself didnt want to loose her so in a way he spoiled her life .

wo bhi jane do ..what he did ...but what he is doing now :-

1. as a friend y he is not informing police ...for whatever hppnd to mallu ? isnt jagan a threat to mallu ...so he should at least file a FIR against him .

2. Y he is not trying to find aditya n sue ...he supposed to inform her family na ...n come on its not that difficult ..check mallu's diaries etc ...shayad koi no. ho ...n dude USE FACEBOOK 🤣🤣 ...EASIEST WAY TO FIND ANY1 ..U R IN 21st CENTURY .

3. Y HE IS NOT APPOINTING ANY NURSE ..FOR HER ..r Db n nidhi servants or what ?...wo kyun poora din us ki dekh bhaal karein ..n ashu khud to kisi ke help karne ke haal mein nahi hai ..so at least appoint a nurse who can take care her 24 hours . 😕

ditto n as a damad also hw can he let DB to take care of mallika!! she's being good doesnt mean he shud take her advantage 🤢

4. N ashu ji sell BB's house ...n purchase a new house for mallu ...n jaise hi madam theek ho jaye...ghar ki chabbi do ...or bye bye bolo ...kuch to karo ..free mein ghar hadap kar baith gaye .


Phew ..so overall ASHUTOSH IS FAILED AS FRIEND ALSO ...JUST BY TAKING UR FRIEND AT HOME N TOUCHING HER AGAIN N AGAIN DOESNT MAKE U A GOOD FRIEND AT ALL .

sorry to disagree bt dis is d only relation he has succeeded so far i guess 🤢 as a friend..

So its high time that ashu realised that he is doing wrong with nidhi ...n agar abhi bhi nahi samajh mein aaye then nidhi call rohan ...n go away with him ...he is anyday better .

big ditto to dis..rohan is anyday better ! atleast he never took nidhi fr granted n had always been their fr her unlyk Mr ashutosh 🤢

WAISE BHI KP JI NE PROVE KAR HI DIYA ..THAT DOSTI IS MAHAN OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS ...MAHAN THAN LOVE MAHAN THAN MARRIAGE .

DOSTI ROCKS MARRIAGE FLOPS 😡 .

cvs should do a reality check before making fun of the most beautiful rishta of husband - wife . DISGUSTING 😡

N YA WE ALL R EXPECTING DB TO SOLVE THINGS ..BUT Y ..WHY ALWAYS SM1 ELSE TO SOLVE ASHNI'S TROUBLE ? ...Y CANT THEY DO ANYTHN THEMSELVES ? Y ROHAN , ARMAAN , BB N NOW DB ???😕 Y ASHU IS NOT REALISING HIMSELF THAT HE IS DOING INJUSTICE TO HER WIFE ? WHY OH WHY ?? HADD HO GAYI 😡

agree again..their is always a third person to solve their MU's..n dey always need to be persuaded to do things.nidhi takes anji's advice on everything n ashutosh takes arman's advice on everything..before marriage also arman used to give him advice on everything.has'nt he learnt to do things on his own 😕

n ya after saying so much ...i want to say yes i like d whole song sequence..the whole set up n evrythn ...dialogues bw ashni ...ashu as typical husband ..khud show off karo to kuch nahi ..wifey ne kar diya to expose 😲😆 n yes he always has one answer " I DONT KNOW " ...either SR or wife ki tareef or smthn else ..HE JUST DOESNT KNOW .. aise log pyar karte kyun hai ..
n uske baad jo hamla hua viewers par that was more powerful to kill us 😡

i watched d epi to see her performance 😛 😆 loved her dance , expressions , look n everything 😃 other than that baki sab pakau laga 🥱 😛

n cvs if u feel happy just bcoz u r getting hatred for mallu ..then think again we r not hating mallu as we know what she is ...we r hating this concept where the other woman in a man's life is more superior than wife for him 🤢

high tym fr d cv's to buck up nw ..poor n illogical storyline like this cant fetch them good trp's 😕

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even if to prove Husband's role,i can-(Mallu sick,attempting suicide,wants Ashu only-so) give Ashu little more time but yes,definitely he didn't handle Mallika in a right way.Why Mallu kept waiting fr 12 yrs?Is it Mallu's fault?Even if it is,didn't Ashu realize it or Mallu didn't tell it ever?So much intense friendship and Mallu showing Love-why then Ashu didn't accept it?OK,fr consideration-let's say Ashu felt no interest much than friendship,but why then he tried to convince her to get married to anyone elseDid he maintain the distance not to give any type of hopes about him and encourage her to move on???
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Posted: 13 years ago
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