the wedding ,a letter and the couple-ripple effect - Page 2

Originally posted by: sun29

Lazy Sunday, idle mind, impatiently waiting for Monday '.so decided to pen some thoughts on our dear ashni as a married couple'.😳

They met, fell in love faced issues got united then separated and are now bound in holy matrimony with blessings from elders. The perfect'.and they lived happily ever after'..now will they???Can they ????

Fairy tale is over, now starts the real story, real test of their unconventional relationship and the real meaning of a love story

Once honeymoon gets over and they return '.awaits for them with bated breath literally is that forsaken letter'.

The letter written by a friend who fell in love, unable to handle it went away but not before making his actions clear, emotionally pained '.to what extent can or will this letter cause damage''.

I was watching jodha akbar yesterday and in that movie there is a similar situation of a letter being the cause of huge misunderstanding. When Akbar's chief nurse misuses the letter jodha wrote to her brother before the wedding to sow seeds of distrust and betrayal in his mind'he takes the bait and jodha leaves the house and goes'.

So my understanding is that this letter on its own can cause no major destruction'ashutosh will not react to that extent unless a third party misuses it to cause a wedge intentionally or unintentionally'so who are the candidates'.there seems one ..that is armaan's mother If she is staying for a longer period'she has every chance of getting hold of the letter and misunderstanding or the letter awaits the entry of mallika who can use to rattle an insecure ashutosh about his umar 'or it may be a simple case of mountain out of a molehill where the letter would instead be showing a mature side to ashni as compared to ranga anjie '.

Many options are available and other than speculations we have nothing concrete about the letter'

And if the letter does not cause the rift. What are the other options that can bring a reality check to this wedding and the couple?

What I would like to see???

Compatibility issues has to be shown but in a believable way

Both ashutosh and nidhi have very different character trait. They are as apart as chalk and cheese'yet they are together 'so if opposites attract, sparks also flies sometimes it cause a fire and sometimes it is just sparks'

There is no need to portray one as imbalanced and the other as compromising in a relationship. Flaws are part of a human nature'.but in order to bring out the beauty of ashni 'it is necessary to push nidhi back into the medical world'their true test lies there'coz both have very different approach as doctors and this is the best way to highlight them as individuals'.it is this professional that got them together as lovers..hence it needs to be this profession that brings them closer in mutual respect and understanding'.

I suggest the above because the household adjustments and compromises a couple make even though are important part of a relationship but still u cannot test a love story based on silly letters ,wardrobe space and bathroom hours'these simple things need to be shown for sure'but they should not be the ripples that cause a relationship to stumble at all'.

I hope we never enter into kitchen politics with KTLK ..

another thing i am hopng the writers would concentrate on is the stark difference between ashni and ranjie as a couple..we already are witnessing it but i would love if the writers explore it at different levels too..once ranjie get married after that both the couples handling situations and how they resolve them... a relationship cannot be perfect even if u are of the same age group and convention...this is for my selfish reason to see DB shut her mouth abt ashutosh and then tell her in ur face screaching DB😆..

Girls all of u are free to add on ..what you expect to see post their wedding and honeymoon'.

Thanks for your patience to read through it and if u have directly reached the last line I suggest go back up read and come down here'😡😆😆

First of All...Superb Post Sun...😊...Very logical and u have covered almost all the valid points...

btw,I agree with Ur point of professional relationship of Ashni and showing Nidhi working and they handling their professional and personal life in a balanced way.

Secondly,I dont think...that letter will make any impact on ASHNI relation...if and only if...Rohan dare comes back and creates any further drama with his annoying face...

Mallikka is bound to return...and can play guilt card...but,this time i think...Nidhi will handle well as She is legally wedded wife of Dr...Saab.

Finally...I would love Nidhi joing Kotnis and when Mallikka comes back...She can handle the hospital,Hubby and Vamp at the same time and manage it well...😆

Hope to see logical turn of events and Best wishes for KTLK...😛

Great post sun!

Originally posted by: sun29

Lazy Sunday, idle mind, impatiently waiting for Monday '.so decided to pen some thoughts on our dear ashni as a married couple'.😳

They met, fell in love faced issues got united then separated and are now bound in holy matrimony with blessings from elders. The perfect'.and they lived happily ever after'..now will they???Can they ????

Fairy tale is over, now starts the real story, real test of their unconventional relationship and the real meaning of a love story

Once honeymoon gets over and they return '.awaits for them with bated breath literally is that forsaken letter'.

The letter written by a friend who fell in love, unable to handle it went away but not before making his actions clear, emotionally pained '.to what extent can or will this letter cause damage''.

I was watching jodha akbar yesterday and in that movie there is a similar situation of a letter being the cause of huge misunderstanding. When Akbar's chief nurse misuses the letter jodha wrote to her brother before the wedding to sow seeds of distrust and betrayal in his mind'he takes the bait and jodha leaves the house and goes'.

So my understanding is that this letter on its own can cause no major destruction'ashutosh will not react to that extent unless a third party misuses it to cause a wedge intentionally or unintentionally'so who are the candidates'.there seems one ..that is armaan's mother If she is staying for a longer period'she has every chance of getting hold of the letter and misunderstanding or the letter awaits the entry of mallika who can use to rattle an insecure ashutosh about his umar 'or it may be a simple case of mountain out of a molehill where the letter would instead be showing a mature side to ashni as compared to ranga anjie '.

Many options are available and other than speculations we have nothing concrete about the letter'

And if the letter does not cause the rift. What are the other options that can bring a reality check to this wedding and the couple?

What I would like to see???

Compatibility issues has to be shown but in a believable way

Both ashutosh and nidhi have very different character trait. They are as apart as chalk and cheese'yet they are together 'so if opposites attract, sparks also flies sometimes it cause a fire and sometimes it is just sparks'

There is no need to portray one as imbalanced and the other as compromising in a relationship. Flaws are part of a human nature'.but in order to bring out the beauty of ashni 'it is necessary to push nidhi back into the medical world'their true test lies there'coz both have very different approach as doctors and this is the best way to highlight them as individuals'.it is this professional that got them together as lovers..hence it needs to be this profession that brings them closer in mutual respect and understanding'.

I suggest the above because the household adjustments and compromises a couple make even though are important part of a relationship but still u cannot test a love story based on silly letters ,wardrobe space and bathroom hours'these simple things need to be shown for sure'but they should not be the ripples that cause a relationship to stumble at all'.

I hope we never enter into kitchen politics with KTLK ..

another thing i am hopng the writers would concentrate on is the stark difference between ashni and ranjie as a couple..we already are witnessing it but i would love if the writers explore it at different levels too..once ranjie get married after that both the couples handling situations and how they resolve them... a relationship cannot be perfect even if u are of the same age group and convention...this is for my selfish reason to see DB shut her mouth abt ashutosh and then tell her in ur face screaching DB😆..

Girls all of u are free to add on ..what you expect to see post their wedding and honeymoon'.

Thanks for your patience to read through it and if u have directly reached the last line I suggest go back up read and come down here'😡😆😆

Originally posted by: rabzonedge

👏👏...So happy to get a 'Sunilicious' post after a longg time...

Regarding 'Rohan's Letter' i agree A third party likr Armu's Mother or Mallu can use it to create MU..and the way Camera was focused on that Letter i am scared.....
Ashutosh is Mature so He might Handle situation Well...
i Want AshNi's Post Marriage compatibility issue both in Personal and PROFESSIONAL front...

Depiction of professional front has been very poor in KTLK...Though the base of KTLK is Age gap love between Two DOCTORS...I Hope KP understands Youngstres passion for their career in 21st Century as he keeps claiming on FB...😳

Wonderful post Sunmeera! And well timed too! I loved all the issues you raised. I really hope CVs would read all this...

1. HM - Since this is on-going, I do want CVs to spend atleast till Thursday on this. I certainly do not want them to show Ashni returning on the same day they consummate their marriage. Not realistic. They need to show a few more things in light of this new intimacy, some other cute moments in guest house, maybe a candle light dinner, etc...

2. Ranji - Since their wedding is around the corner, I think this will be the focus next week. If CVs handle it well, they can bring in situations and show the diff bw AShni and Ranji. As Ranga is more sensitive to Solanki and more impulsive they can show how Ashu was more patient, more accomodating to all the rituals but Ranga is more nervous. Then they can also show how Ranga is more demonstrative making Nidhi a alittle jealous but then realizing that Ashu loves her a lot if not more than Ranga loving Anji.. Some problems are sure to emerge bw Ranji during this wedding and Ashni can advise Ranji to help the wedding go smoothly. Maybe Ashu may learn to be a little more demonstrative in public...

3. Profession - After the Ranji wedding Nidhi should go back to work. Maybe AShu can insist, talk about why she was dismissed, or they can create an emergency where extra doctors are needed at KGH and somehow bring Nidhi back into the hospital to help and then join back and continue as an intern... I think Nidhi always needs some push when it comes to her profession and maybe a situation like this will make her realize her talent (something she always forgets!) This would also be a good time to reduce those poeple at home for sometime, maybe send them on some journey, and they can show Ashni adjusting to professional and domestic life... Some nice situations both at work and home and how AShni handle it.

4. Letter - Like everyone said there are a few options with this. My favorite is to project AShu's maturity... But I sincerely want this to be an Ashni issue only, no third party involvement. They may handle this with Ranji wedding but I rather they do not and use the Ranji track to reveal the differences between the two couples... If they do, they may show tension bw Ashni during the wedding, not a good situation as DB will rasie a storm... Lets see to what extent they drag the MU about this letter...

5. House - I think if used properly the Ashu-Sanjeevani-Mansukhani link can be used to show Nidhi's maturity and understanding. The question is how they are even going to expose this. They can show Anji exposing Mansukhani for a lot of other shady deals (I am sure he has done quite a few!). But Mansukhani does not know Sanjeevani was Ashu's lawyer! And eventually Mansukhani did not get anything for the house, so this will be difficult... But if Nidhi gets to know, they can show her hurt, angry but eventually realizing that AShu will not hurt anyone intentionally and finally forgive him...

6. Mallu - When she comes back she will try to play her guilt card, even if Ashu is married now. I think the way to expose her is if Sandeep Bagchi finds Mallu and goes to Ashni with the real story, and Nidhi can also reveal how Aditya forced her to sell the house to pay the loan. This could be a separate track and not have to be connected with the other house track...

7. Love angles - When Mallu and Rohan return to what extent will they affect Ashni? Will they use the darr track either for Rohan or Mallu? When will they return? Will they show Rohan return when Ashu finds the letter and he will help clear the air bw Ashni? Though i want Ashni to solve this problems by themselves, but when Rohan comes, maybe Ashu will get very jealous one more time??

8. Personal decisions - They will also have to show other things like decision to have kids, and this is a large subject. They can do anything, show any number of problems relating to pregnancy and finally how they create that family...

The letter only speaks about Rohan's feeling and it can be clearly understood that Nidhi only treats him as a friend. Now it is to be seen that how maturely Ashu handle this.From the very 1st Nidhi has to take lots of pain from Mallu, always create problem too. She always handle it maturely, gracefully without any insecurity & always trust Ashu. Trust is the base of any relationship mostly in case of marriage. Rohan has done so much for Ashni and always try to help them. Now when they are together he went away to let them live their own life. Ashu can ask Nidhi why she didn't tell him about Rohan or feel bad about this but suspecting Nidhi is illogical and worst thing can ever happen to this serial. MU is not needed so early .Let them settle in their own life - personal & professional. Life-marriages has its own ups &downs but at the end with love-trust & understanding everything can be solve and overcome easily. True Love is much much bigger than this small letter or Mallu influence.