Who want dr. Ashutosh type hubby? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Blushsarika

@mudra kahi tumpar bhi Ashu effect toh nahi ho gaya
you are thinking this janam to be your 7th janam
and despo to have a partner like Ashu jaldi se jaldi
don't mind please it's a joke

7th janam tak 'hubby' ko jhelne ke baad, do you really think, any body will ever think of marriage??

and as far as Ashu's effect is concerned,
right from the childhood to date, I should have become despo to marry 1000 times...

few day back i read a beautiful story i would like to share with all of you who believe or not believe in love

My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders.

Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband, is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce.

"Why?" he asked, shocked. "I am tired, there are no reasons for everything in the world!" I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought with a lighted cigarette at all times. My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can't even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:" What can I do to change your mind?"

Somebody said it right, it's hard to change a person's personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered : "Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let's say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?" He said :" I will give you your answer tomorrow'." My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes'. My dear, "I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further.." This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading.

"When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs. You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love traveling but always lose your way in a new city, I have to save my eyes to show you the way. You always have the cramps whenever your "good friend" approaches every month, I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy.

You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom. You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand' and tell you the color of flowers, just like the color of the glow on your young face' Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do' I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. "

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting' and as I continue on reading' "Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favorite bread and fresh milk' I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread'.

Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone'

That's life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness.

Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model, it could be the most dull and boring form.. . flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands' and that's our life' Love, not words win arguments'

If you find this story useful, please share with a friend!

@nini, Ishy interesting suggestions for deepa but what about you two . You want your Ashu to come on which animal or vehicle

@rabz, Nighlad ,pachauri21
thanks for answering

@Ritu thanks for sharing this interesting story .it was very touching
please answer the above questions also

@mudra you are frightining with your experience of marriage.
Abhi tak toh meri shadi bhi nahi hui hai,
jokes apart you are right 7 janam tak kisi ko bardast karna bahut mushkil hai , yaha toh log 1 janam bhi mushkil se nibhate hai.

Exactly similar to the nature of Dr. Ashutosh.
What will be your Answer? Yes, I will fall in love without any biased.Would you be happy with with someone who is unromantic in expressing his love?Yes, as above all he is very very pure,kind and good humban being. I am sure he will have his own way to express his feelings.Will your parents agree to this relation?
Yes, my Mom will agree as he is very much like my Dad.What will you do to make your life lively?
Lively and bubbly me...the way I am with who he fell in love at the first place.

Originally posted by: Blushsarika

@deepa are you also desperate to get married or its just that your parents , friends and relativeswant you to get married.
@Devvivek you can answer above questions keeping kritika in place of dr. Ashutosh and her nature .
And I am sure there will be age difference between you and kritika
@ tanu so glad to know that it was fun for you to answer questions and you enjoyed it

@Shivu no dear you have not all cracked me ,I loved your answers , you know very well what happens in your age. It's good for you

@All thanks for giving true Answers and for commenting

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Hmmm, thnx mam! But i say KK di so hw cn i imagine her in by bride?? But u asked so, In Kritika kamra's case! She is i think "26 or 27" and I'm Just "18" so there is 8 to 9 YEARS DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ME AND KRITIKA. And i also want my Lyf Partner lyk KK! But I believe in LOVE,JAB HOGA TAB HOGA,TAB DEKHENGE HUM. Abi toh Bachlor hi Khush hu!! But i want True Love and thats Y i dnt make GirlFRIENDS. I BELIEVE IN MAKING GIRL+FRIENDS=GF. And i always Smile!! Wid friends!!

If I get Dr. Ashutosh or a similar type of person like him it will be like dream come true.
I would definately like to marry him.
For me age gap doesn't matter at all, from my school days I was attracted to only matured man who were much older than me.
I was never interested in Boys of my age or near about my age. I did't find them attractive and that's the reason Why I like this show so much.
I am a very romantic person so it won't be difficult for me to make our relation lively so no problem here.
Problem is only with my grandfather ,who thinks just like our DB , he will never agree for such huge age gap marriage. Whenever he sees any marriage proposal for me, first thing he checks is the Age, it's very imp. For him.
I also think my mother will also not agree to it.
And My problem is I can't go against them.

@ Ritu really nice story:-):-)
Thanks for sharing 🤗

Originally posted by: Blushsarika

As all the female members of this forum are drooling over Dr. Ashutosh.
This question is for all the spinsters in this forum:-
If in actual life you are asked to marry a person like Dr. Ashutosh ,who is older than you ,is workoholic , sophisticated, rich, at all not good in expressing his love,
good physique, dark handsome hunk. Exactly similar to the nature of Dr. Ashutosh.
What will be your Answer?
Would you be happy with with someone who is unromantic in expressing his love?
Will your parents agree to this relation?
What will you do to make your life lively?

All those who are married can also answer this question. I know 7 janam tak you have promised to be your hubbys partner?
Plan for your Aathwa janam .

don't lie guys ,want only true answers.

First of all good post Sarika...

I would have said YES, if someone like Ashu had asked me.. You know, my husband's nature is similar to Ashu's. He is shy, introvert. Initially I got very irritated with him. I am a very talkative person, love to live life to the fullest, he is exactly opposite. But slowly he started to open up, has become more expressive.
May be this is my 7th janam, But 8th janam me koi dusra chalega, thoda to change chahiye na..
😉 😆

@aarch thankufor liking and commenting