Didi...akal se kaam lijiye...is duniya mein tikne keliye hum auraton ko har opportunity ko parakh na chahiye...when a better 'mard' says, he is waiting for you, you put him on the higher priority and push Ashutosh to the wait list. Anyway, Dr.Ashutosh se koi khatara nahi hai...he doesnt have anybody and will wait for you...