Ashutosh - really a lover ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: breezy

Lol, Tanu, reg 2 one , well thats wat exactly she did hai na , and waise bhi wats horribly wrong over recommendation ???? dont students get recommendation letter from their principles and teachers if they are best ???? ashu sort of did the same, he didnot advertise , he rather recommended only when asked for , which i consider as a + point , yes some times ppl get their work done by recommendation which is wrong , not this and its not even favor ...

on 3, again i beg to differ, he is shocked to see he is standing right in the place he longed to have , so his first instant reaction was doubt , he had done the same thing , he reacted just as a confused, person who felt he was played , then he did had to go through a lot to actually see things .

reg him being god knows wat with both ladies, i am lost and clueless, just have no idea of wats going in anyones head

Originally posted by: breezy

ahh , some discussion which i can enjoy

Its not a reco letter for a specific designation.. usually character certis r issued.. n employers issue certificate open ended on how the ward is... recommending someone for a job thats not open to competition is highly unfair.. n i on my professional morals.. abhor recommendation... 🤢 it shows that u are not competent enouf to make a mark in the world on ur merits n need recommendations..!! NO denying recommending someone from a job which they are unfit for is wrong , said that before , but the one which happened btw ashu and the other one who asked about a candidate can be called as head hunting , the ones u said is different those are part of selecting a candidate ...and waise bhi that man (i dont rem his name ) was looking at resumes and asked for the best one , which is head hunting babies ...

na doc sunil specifically asked for a name of an intern... for his hosp 😳

thats a very 'appointment based on reco' case with some minimal background check kinda thing

Disagree completely.. . only a person who is selfish wuld react in such a manner..! When u love someone u worry day n nite for their safety.. n i can never forget that ridiculous reaction of his.. what a loser 😡 Again disagree, how can it be called selfish act ??? agree that one can for loved ones more than themselves , but at times there comes a testing time (ok not in every ones cases 😆, else u will take ur own eg ) which brings strain and doubts in relations over a action which makes them doubt the whole relation and person, which is wat exactly happened , and this bring them more close ... again i say, he was right in thinking from his angle ...

Nope.. n not gonna discuss on it... coz theres no point. .u will keep justifying.. n i will keep justifying from my POV 😆 and lols its not abt my own case.. its about every NORMAL unselfish persons case..!! I dunno about u tho 😆

Sorry no agreements on the Topic with u 😆 Kyu , why not ... i would love to disagree with u anyday ...

Haa .. i dun want to.. coz .. i m clear on my pov.. i never change it.. 😳 call me obdurate.. 😉 n esp dun like boiling my blood with friends.. 😉

Originally posted by: breezy

😆... if u say so , wont do that ...

still say, its not recom and not selfish act ... 😆

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Dr. A totally needs to step up his game and he needs to make up for his mistakes and Mallu's:

1. He messed up her career - first firing Nidhi because he was "in love" and then recommending her for a job behind her back - he totally messed up😡😡 Instead of asking Armaan what Nidhi expects from him - he should ask Nidhi what she wants to do careerwise and if she wants to return to Kortnis, start a clinic, what? Once she figures it out he should support her in achieving whatever that goal is. Currently he calls her "doc" but, treats her like a "doll"😳 - someone who should do only what he wants!

2. Losing the House - he's the reason they lost the house... if he had truly been mature than they would have been able to retain it.

3. Gifting - N is always stepping up, but he can't even receive gifts graciously🤣🤣

4. Prioritizing N - if N is truly most important person in his life then he needs to demonstrate that in his behaviour instead of chipking to Mallu. N knows his likes and dislikes...he needs to make a reciprocal effort.