Ashutosh - really a lover ?

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SHIKHA19

@SHIKHA19

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

So many question marks are now there for the fact that IS ASHUTOSH ACTUALLY A LOVER ? DO HE REALLY LOVES NIDHI ?? DO HE REALLY CARES FOR HER ??

Being confused about love is one thing but being careless about love is other . Just by saying romantic lines doesnt prove that he actually love nidhi .

His mistakes :-

1. Fired nidhi from hospital . n dint even feel guilty .

2. Not even helped her to get her career back , in fact denied her entry back into the hospital as a doctor.

3. Misunderstood her for a wrong reason .

4. Never asked nidhi for a date , except 1 or 2 times ..nidhi is the one who always makes the plan first ..picnic plan is also from her side ,

5. What i remember he never gifted anything to her (except returning her own earrings ) ..Its nidhi who always comes up with gifts ..T-shirt , tie etc .

6 . He Doesnt care for nidhi's feelings ..its visible today when he dint wear the tie ...n even when he n mallika was laughing he dint even realised how nidhi was feeling ..only said "HELLO HI ..BYE BYE ".

7. He is not trying to maintain good relationship with nidhi's family ..when nidhi said she came here to inform about baba ...he just said "good" ...y he dint say that he will try to come to meet him n all ?? no concern to her baba ??

8. He never went nidhi's house ..its nidhi who keeps making rounds to hospital n his house.

9. Always listens to mallika ..n not noticing mallika's mistakes.

10. A good friend = a bad lover .

There r many more mistakes ..but what 's d point in saying it when cvs has decided to show ashutosh as negative person . "N NO ALL THESE REASONS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIS AGE " ...neither its showing his reserved nature ...as being a caring lover has nothing to do with age . n its clear now that he has very weird nature ...n we fans r still unable to find why nidhi likes him ? 😕

It was very sad when nidhi said "kya pharak padta hai ki main naraz hoon ya nahi hoon " 😭 ..n ashutosh dint do anything to manaoying her .

now i want nidhi to take up little attitude n should start khaoing bhaav ..n make ashutosh realise his mistakes .

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Lizzie

@LizzieBennet

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+ 34

Posted: 13 years ago

Shikha.. we're all flummoxed at Ashu's character.. why is he being shown the way he is?

He's not even OCDing about the house now.. and after his supreme self-actualisation moment at the mandir there should have been a 180 degree turn in his attitude towards Nidhi and it did seem that that might happen when he goes to visit her baba at the hospital. But now its back to square one!! He keeps expressing his concern to Armaan if he's really meeting Nidhi's expectations... and what she thinks of him..whether he's really right for her etc etc.. but at the same time make no move.. takes no concrete steps to strengthen his relationship with her.. forget about gifting her things, he doesn't seem to want to meet her even?

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SHIKHA19

@SHIKHA19

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: LizzieBennett
Shikha.. we're all flummoxed at Ashu's character.. why is he being shown the way he is?
He's not even OCDing about the house now.. and after his supreme self-actualisation moment at the mandir there should have been a 180 degree turn in his attitude towards Nidhi and it did seem that that might happen when he goes to visit her baba at the hospital. But now its back to square one!! He keeps expressing his concern to Armaan if he's really meeting Nidhi's expectations... and what she thinks of him..whether he's really right for her etc etc.. but at the same time make no move.. takes no concrete steps to strengthen his relationship with her.. forget about gifting her things, he doesn't seem to want to meet her even?

ya exactly ..after mandir thing he should have changed but he dint ...he only speaks ..but doesnt do anything ..BOL BACHCHAN

Donno y cvs r only intrstd in showing twists ..cant they move a simple love story as it is ..."AGE" factor itself is a big twist ..what's d need of all this ? but yahan age ko to jane do ..poori ki poori love story hi gadbad ho gayi hai 😕

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-Nups-

@-Nups-

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: LizzieBennett
Shikha.. we're all flummoxed at Ashu's character.. why is he being shown the way he is?
He's not even OCDing about the house now.. and after his supreme self-actualisation moment at the mandir there should have been a 180 degree turn in his attitude towards Nidhi and it did seem that that might happen when he goes to visit her baba at the hospital. But now its back to square one!! He keeps expressing his concern to Armaan if he's really meeting Nidhi's expectations... and what she thinks of him..whether he's really right for her etc etc.. but at the same time make no move.. takes no concrete steps to strengthen his relationship with her.. forget about gifting her things, he doesn't seem to want to meet her even?

yeah actually even I was thinking da same...even wen he knows dat nidhi is upset wid him he does nothing...tells armaan of not meeting nidhi's expectations, but does nothing to do sumthing to match up wid her expectations...everytym accepts a gift from nidhi, from rose to t-shirt to tie, but nver thinks of giving sumthing to her not even a rose...

makes no effort to make nidhi feel special...god knows wat will b nidhi's nxt step if he keeps on behaving da way he is ryt nw...😲

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chumki

@chumki...

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

yaar have some murcy on aashu. don,t u think we r little more hars on ashutosh abt ant thing he do? we just want his best behavior with nidhi? but why? didn,t u hear what arman was saying?" ek dusre ke khamiyoon ko gale lagane ka naam hi pyaar hai"

and if we r analysing ashutosh then do it in a mature manner yaar! just think once he is 42, and at dis age it,s not easy to cange himself suddenly? it takes time?

aur 2ndly though we all r angry abt mallika.s behavior, but just think once she is his only friend, from last 12 yrs. agar hamara koi BF aake hum se apne best friend se rishta torne ko kehta hai? then how it sound? and spl ashutosh is a clear person, he doesn,t know any tricks, thats why he is open to everybody, either it is mallika or it is nidhi,

thoug nidhi is not saying anything like dat lekin phir bhi he just started to know nidhi, he loves more then anything, he always try to make her happy, but some time he fails, lekin yehi to pyaar hai, agar apne lover me perfect sabkuch chahiye, to phir pyaar ka matlab kya banta hai, aur pyaar me nok jhok, ruthna manana nahi hoga to pyaar barega kaise?

so guys have somemurcy on ashu. either take it as it is or if u really judge him try it in a open mind

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TitanFan

@TitansFan

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

Shikha,

1. he did feel guilty over throwing her out of hospital, he did

2, he tried building her career and helped her get into another hospital , she left it

3. he misunderstood her in a situation he is not wrong in doing so , but later on he let it go with out her giving explanation , later on she gave him one

4. he never asked her out , as he was a man who is coming out of shell and just like nidhi he need a push , had rohan not been pushing nidhi , some of their outings were out of question

rest i agree with u , its like a completely diffrerent person, cannot say he is taking her for granted if its so , he hardly knows her to take for granted , he is a lover but he just donno how to live , maintain and bring life to a relation

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Rabzonedge

@rabzonedge

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

Agree with you Shikha and lizzie...Ashu looked insensitive towards Nidhi today...When she said..kyaa fark padta hai??'..he dint call her once to please her...He should Gift her something...Nidhi is the one Gifting him everytime...Ashu should start giving importance to nidhi and her Family...He should have visitted Baba...And should ask Nidhi to join kotnis now...

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TitanFan

@TitansFan

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

Shikha,

its love , else he wouldnt try giving her chance , rather he would have sulked in his world and would have ignored the gal rather than calling her back ...

Reg feeling guilty , he knows his mistake and he tried correcting it , i dont see how making her come back to Kotnis can make everything alright, it would be lame,

NO denying both need a back up for plans, but ashu is more thinking like a older man , he is too much to take at times

I donno but first half of the episode was so dam irritating , i didnot finish watching the rest of repeats ...

Ashu;s confession to nidhi reg tie was more like how he used to talk about nidhi to mallu before ...

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tanu

@Armu4eva

Moderator

+ 14

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: breezy
Shikha,

1. he did feel guilty over throwing her out of hospital, he did --> Agreed

2, he tried building her career and helped her get into another hospital , she left it ---> A job on recommendation is actually an insult imho... i rather be jobless than take such favour..!

3. he misunderstood her in a situation he is not wrong in doing so , but later on he let it go with out her giving explanation , later on she gave him one

Wohoo hold it..?? Not wrong in doing so?? When ur g.f doesnt come.. u think about her security and safety not sulk... thinking she played a prank on u... that utter MCP-ness by Ashu 🤢

4. he never asked her out , as he was a man who is coming out of shell and just like nidhi he need a push , had rohan not been pushing nidhi , some of their outings were out of question

Agreed

rest i agree with u , its like a completely diffrerent person, cannot say he is taking her for granted if its so , he hardly knows her to take for granted , he is a lover but he just donno how to live , maintain and bring life to a relation

My biggest grouse at the moment is his.. utter neglect for Nidhis feelings.. and deepest concern for Mallus...! Mallus sins are blessings and Nidhis hardships are sins.. in his view till Armu or someone makes him realise...😡

He has rather handled the HOUSE issue better... not blaming Nidhi.. rather fighting his feelings n coming out triumphant!

Edited by Armu4eva - 13 years ago

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TitanFan

@TitansFan

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

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Lol, Tanu, reg 2 one , well thats wat exactly she did hai na , and waise bhi wats horribly wrong over recommendation ???? dont students get recommendation letter from their principles and teachers if they are best ???? ashu sort of did the same, he didnot advertise , he rather recommended only when asked for , which i consider as a + point , yes some times ppl get their work done by recommendation which is wrong , not this and its not even favor ...

on 3, again i beg to differ, he is shocked to see he is standing right in the place he longed to have , so his first instant reaction was doubt , he had done the same thing , he reacted just as a confused, person who felt he was played , then he did had to go through a lot to actually see things .

reg him being god knows wat with both ladies, i am lost and clueless, just have no idea of wats going in anyones head

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