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Daayan Bai

@KunwaariDaayan

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

This is a love story between an older man and a much younger girl,this was stressed even before the show came on air as it's based on the classic Dhoop Kinare and that is the initial story line so where in the world did sexual harrassement come into the equation.Dr Ashu nor Dr Nidhi have done any such so called flirting.Dr Ashu has never seen Nidhi in that sexual light of interest,he has not even want to acknowledge the fact that he has feelings for Nidhi and Nidhi has also never thrown herself at him therefore I don't understand how sexual harrassement at work can be sent out as a message to viewers.
Fair enough everyone is entitled to their views but you're posts always send out negative energy and half the time fails to make sense as I sometimes wonder if you're watching the same show as everyone else.

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Sumaiyah

@summikhan

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

I respect your POV... but the story is supposed to be about a young girl and an older man falling in love with each other... this itself was a controversial topic in society... and that's what the show is based on... it's just a show... and it has aspects to it that are unacceptable by society... but that's the whole point... the point is will this love succeed at the cost of losing morals and standards that the society has set

does that make sense???

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neha

@neha_smyli

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

well well well...u name nidhi's genuine feelins towrds ashu as flirting...😲
gosh...no wonder u r a mallika pujaari afterall...have alwaz seen u posting all negative comments regarding Dr.nidhi!!!

if ashu is sexually harassin nidhi or vice-versa...what do you call mallika'a behaviour than???
who is nuthin but a selfish b**ch!!!
n what explanation do u have for whatever she did to nidhi???allottin her night shifts again n again...hiding case files..n last but not the least replacin injection wid a bottle of anesthesia????
mixing personal n professional lives...she turns the hospital into a personal war zone!!!
is this how a senior surgeon behaves??

playing with the lives of innocent patients!!!!
and yeah who said mallika doesn't flirt with ashutosh???tym n tym again she always reminds ashutosh of how long she has been waiting for him!!!
n sorry to say but i wonder if mallika really luvs ashu..cuz luv isn't about your own happiness...n when it comes to mallika...thats what she's all worried about...her happiness...her loneliness n blah...blah...blah!!!
there was a time when i used to pity her...but now after wateva she did to ashu n nidhu...i simply hate her!!
in short she is a pathetic..shallow...selfish n disgusting woman!!

😡

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dua_44ever

@dua_44ever

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Sexual Harassment? REALLY NOW? I am sorry I might be watching a different show... I thought I was watching a love story 😆

No offence here but where did you see acts that provoke sexual harassment? Just because a senior and a junior (both adults) have fallen in love just justify this as sexual harassment. What if Nidhi has fallen in love with a co-worker and they were having problems? That would be ok? I apologize but from your statements it seems that you are categorizing harassment as it can only be in specific cases. This show is simple. About an intern who has fallen in love with her senior and so has he. They realize the problem is the age difference that's why he is backing away...which really isn't a big issue... If we go by the looks of it Munna Bhai the student fell in love with his "senior" in medical college.🤣

It's not even the case of younger guy and older woman... And at workplace is where you meet people...A lot of people who work together or in the case of medicine are interns together fall in love and get married or even are in senior and junior years and fall in love. So just because Ashutosh is the senior and Nidhi is an intern...who says they can't fall in love and this is promoting sexual harassment?

Monica Lewinsky and Bill Clinton can not be compared in this issue... Bill was MARRIED! Ashutosh is not! Nidhi's character is not sending any strong signals like that to anyone that men in "power" can take advantage of women who work under them! It's pathetic to even think it in that way... There is no physical or sexual abuse being talked about here...

This show is about love between two SINGLE ADULTS with age difference and about society accepting that love. It's not about Infidelity, Sexual/Physical Abuse or Harassment.

Edited by dua_44ever - 13 years ago

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rpmenon

@rpmenon

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Under other circumstances,I would have agreed with you.But from the past 2 weeks,you have been posting many threads which were primarily meant to create some kind of disturbance in the forum.

I have not seen Nidhi flirting with Dr.A in the hospital,from the updates I have been reading.Nidhi used to visit his hospital and once they were in the hospital,the work got the primary importance.I have not read about Nidhi and Ashutosh inside the cabin,flirting or whatever it is that you find agitating.As long as the work does not get effected,any kind of exchange provided it is not emotional blackmail between 2 parties,it is not disturbing.So,isn't it Mallika who did whatever harassment happened in the show? I guess answer is,yes!!

I have a tip for you.You obviously dislike the show,and how it is shaping up.If it is surprising,I don't like it either,as of now.But,opening up a million posts with sooo many of your favorite smileys all over,is not helping the cause,is it?

Why disturb people who like the show?Live,and let live!

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rpmenon

@rpmenon

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

and BTW,sexual harassment happens when one uses the gender to make things happen,promotion,or maintaining the promotion,appraisals etc.I am not sure I see those in this show.

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sunrise35

@sunrise35

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: neha_smyli
i have always been a silent reader on this forum..,i have always read ua posts n i try very hard not to comment but i guess today...i just cudn't stop maslf from commenting!!!

tell me sumthing are you insane or are u jst out of ur mind???
i mean how on earth can u post such stupid n outright pathetic threads...seriously dude...u need to get ur brains checked!!!

u just stole my words..i am reading his posts from last so many days & try not to comment but he is just not ready to stop..don't know what is his problem..kaunsi duniya me ji rahe ho bhai? Love has no boundaries & it can happen anytime, anywhere...there is a vast difference between flirting & loving someone..Nidhi loves ashu & we people dont find it offensive, as loving ur boss/co-worker/employee is not a crime unless & until it is one sided like Mallika, who is literally forcing herself on the poor man...

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jaan

@penn

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Guys lets not forget that SH is very broad and in firms the rules usually apply to unwanted contact. For example, So if my boss is trying to flirt in any way and I am not welcoming it then its harrasment. in the case of DR. NA they both feel for each other I find pure love/feelings and I personally didnt notice any flirting.

As Tahmina said above that we find our soul mates out there..

I love the show and wait for it everyday and wish there was alittle less of repeated flashbacks.

The show ROCKS!!!

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Ankit

@ankit_nyc

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: rpmenon
Under other circumstances,I would have agreed with you.But from the past 2 weeks,you have been posting many threads which were primarily meant to create some kind of disturbance in the forum.

I have not seen Nidhi flirting with Dr.A in the hospital,from the updates I have been reading.Nidhi used to visit his hospital and once they were in the hospital,the work got the primary importance.I have not read about Nidhi and Ashutosh inside the cabin,flirting or whatever it is that you find agitating.As long as the work does not get effected,any kind of exchange provided it is not emotional blackmail between 2 parties,it is not disturbing.So,isn't it Mallika who did whatever harassment happened in the show? I guess answer is,yes!!

I have a tip for you.You obviously dislike the show,and how it is shaping up.If it is surprising,I don't like it either,as of now.But,opening up a million posts with sooo many of your favorite smileys all over,is not helping the cause,is it?

Why disturb people who like the show?Live,and let live!

😕 Ummm am I not allowed to post my views on the show? Must my views be the same as others? If there is no crime in an intern flirting with her boss then why is it not allowed in modern day workplace? Nidhi visits Ashu at his home everyday, and you're saying that's not flirting? 😕 Do you make it a habit to go over to your boss' house everyday? 😕

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Ankit

@ankit_nyc

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: sunrise35

<div>u just stole my words..i am reading his posts from last so many days & try not to comment but he is just not ready to stop..don't know what is his problem..kaunsi duniya me ji rahe ho bhai? Love has noboundaries& it can happen anytime, anywhere...there is a vast difference between flirting & loving someone..Nidhi loves ashu & we people dont find it offensive, as loving ur boss/co-worker/employee is not a crime unless & until it is one sided like Mallika, who is literally forcing herself on the poor man...

If there is nothing wrong with an intern flirting with her boss, then why do all major companies forbid such thing? Oh that's right they don't understand true love, only you do. 😕 So since love can happen anytime with anyone, you support Monica Lewinsky and Clinton because she loved him and he said he loved her. 😕

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