Don't love people as they are...change them...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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😕 What a role model Nidhi is? She changes herself just to get Ashu's love. Listen up gals...change your hair, lose weight, change your clothes,etc because according to Nidhi that's the way to get true love in this world. And boys listen up, forget about your individual sense of style...because if you are Nidhi's love interest, she'll dress you the way she wants as if you are a baby. Here I thought love was loving the other person as they are. Nidhi teaches us to turn others in to what we love. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think u have got this all wrong...Nidhi is not changing herself to make Ashu fall in love with her ...nor is she trying to change Ashu...But it is simply a girlish way of finding out whether or not he loves for her...As for her giving the Tee shirt to Ashu to wear...then any girl would want her BF to use/wear the gift she gives him...Agreed it is a childish way but then Nidhi is childish in her ways whereas Ashu is a mature man.

Looks as though u are not overly fond of the show as most of ur posts are critical...U seem to be finding flaws with almost everything in the show...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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gosh u took her motive in wrong way yaar
she is not changing herself
she is just testing whether ashu loves her or not and she is following the hints etc from web
and she is trying to change ashu
well i don't agree with this fully
she just tried to get him out of his sorrow and live life
in mallika's words(which u understand more easily) nidhi is trying to get ashu out of that kila
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehek25

I think u have got this all wrong...Nidhi is not changing herself to make Ashu fall in love with her ...nor is she trying to change Ashu...But it is simply a girlish way of finding out whether or not he loves for her...As for her giving the Tee shirt to Ashu to wear...then any girl would want her BF to use/wear the gift she gives him...Agreed it is a childish way but then Nidhi is childish in her ways whereas Ashu is a mature man.


Looks as though u are not overly fond of the show as most of ur posts are critical...U seem to be finding flaws with almost everything in the show...

Mehek you exactly said wht I wanted to say about ankit, I checked some of her old post and she is out to find flaws in the show and seem to have some sort of obsession with mallika. In one of the earlier post she has also mentioned that mallika is the right person for ashu.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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You definitely got it all wrong Ankit.Nidhi's not trying to change herself or anyone for that matter.If u love someone then you tend to notice everything that has changed or is different about them...that's all Nidhi was testing to see if Dr Ahsu notices any changes on her and as for the T shirt any girl who gives a guy a gift would want to see if they would make use of it...that just goes to show if the person really has feelings for you.
You really seem to have a lot of negetative energy towards the lead Nidhi,really don't understand why as she is such a lovable character.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mehek25

<font color="#006600" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="2">I think u have got this all wrong...Nidhi is not changing herself to make Ashu fall in love with her ...nor is she trying to change Ashu...But it is simply a girlish way of finding out whether or not he loves for her...As for her giving the Tee shirt to Ashu to wear...then any girl would want her BF to use/wear the gift she gives him...Agreed it is a childish way but then Nidhi is childish in her ways whereas Ashu is a matureman.</font>

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😊 I actually love the show and Malika's character in particular. I just expected that the 21st century Indian woman would be shown more positively then it is being done in the show. On one hand there is Malika who is a confident Indian woman engrossed in her career and also mature in relationship by not acting childish to impress Ashu. On the other hand there is Nidhi who isn't really engrossed in anything...and pushes the modern woman back by a decade by acting like a love/struck teenager. I mean she is supposed to be in her mid 20's and is shown acting like a teenager. 😊 I just think Malika represents today's Indian woman way better then Nidhi does.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: roopalgupta

gosh u took her motive in wrong way yaar
she is not changing herself
she is just testing whether ashu loves her or not and she is following the hints etc from web
and she is trying to change ashu
well i don't agree with this fully
she just tried to get him out of his sorrow and live life
in mallika's words(which u understand more easily) nidhi is trying to get ashu out of that kila

😛 I mean come on changing her appearance just to get noticed by a man? It's like watching a Hindi movie from the80's. I thought the Indian woman has come much further since then. 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: shaz2009

You definitely got it all wrong Ankit.Nidhi's not trying to change herself or anyone for that matter.If u love someone then you tend to notice everything that has changed or is different about them...that's all Nidhi was testing to see if Dr Ahsu notices any changes on her and as for the T shirt any girl who gives a guy a gift would want to see if they would make use of it...that just goes to show if the person really has feelings for you.
You really seem to have a lot of negetative energy towards the lead Nidhi,really don't understand why as she is such a lovable character.

😊 turning to an astrology book, changing hair color, giggling like a Japanese school girl, playing silly games, is this what today's Indian woman is about? Where is her dedication towards her career? It's just about falling in love like Indian women of the last century? And that too filmy Wala love... 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mehek you exactly said wht I wanted to say about ankit, I checked some of her old post and she is out to find flaws in the show and seem to have some sort of obsession with mallika. In one of the earlier post she has also mentioned that mallika is the right person for ashu.

😲 Oh no hAng me...I dared have a differing view point then you and your friends.

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