Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30
That I agree. She made it for him, he should have eaten it, showing that he is truly prioritizing her.
I don't get it you know. It looks like he does want to prioritise her sometimes, but only on his terms. Like romancing her is a priority for him.
But understanding her, legit talking to her & discussing stuffs like equal partners....not so much. It's not like he doesn't want to do that. It's like he doesn't even know he should be doing that.
Again, when she is upset, he tries to make it up to her with extravagant gestures... like the Asha school, previously Suhana maternity ward etc....but all these come AFTER she is visibly upset. No efforts to genuinely appreciate her, make her feel valued in normal times.
It's almost as if he doesn't know how to treat/behave with his wedded wife, his life partner rightly. Even after 10 years of marriage, he still seems to be stuck at the dating phase. Excited with the possibilities of romance like a boyfriend, but not mature or understanding enough to be a caring husband. He behaves like he is dating her, not like he had married her.
I don't understand if it's just clumsy writing or Dev is actually supposed to be like that. Even if the writers are deliberately presenting him like that, I will still call it a bad writing. It made sense when he first behaved like that (pre-leap) owing to Ishwari's upbringing & his inexperience in the relationship department. But now, 10 years after marriage, of which 7 years was a separation phase due to this very approach, still the same approach makes him look like he is just stubbornly refusing to grow up.🤓
Edited by NotAMuggle - 4 years ago