How do you recover?

This is a sincere question to all of you- In Sonakshi's place, how would you even recover from the trauma that your spineless excuse of a partner put you through time and time again?

Dev has shown time and time again that he is not worthy of being trusted, he is a failure as a husband and as a father. While he might love Sona, he has no regard for her. He doesn't have the strength, nor does he have the conviction to stand against any decision his mother makes- no matter how wrong it is. Whether it is tricking him into signing a pre-nup, sending a rishta for his heartbroken ex to get her out of the way, forcing his trauma ridden wife into a honeymoon from hell, causing the breakdown of his marriage, ignoring his daughter (his "princess"), changing his son's name without permission, Dev finds it in him to defend each of these actions. It's not that he doesn't recognize it's wrong, the worst is that he actively supports it despite that knowledge.

On top of that he has the audacity to tell Sonakshi that he's giving her time to control her emotions and not confront Ishwari!!! After Ishwari just blindsided her to change her son's name without anybody's consent- not even her son's. This man has some nerve. Betrayal after betrayal, at what point is it time to walk away?

Sonakshi can do a million times better than him. Dev doesn't even deserve the powerhouse of a woman Sonakshi is. He seems to disappoint her consistently, and as a wife, how do you recover from the knowledge that your husband does NOT have your best interests at heart?

Originally posted by: them2d

This is a sincere question to all of you- In Sonakshi's place, how would you even recover from the trauma that your spineless excuse of a partner put you through time and time again?

Dev has shown time and time again that he is not worthy of being trusted, he is a failure as a husband and as a father. While he might love Sona, he has no regard for her. He doesn't have the strength, nor does he have the conviction to stand against any decision his mother makes- no matter how wrong it is. Whether it is tricking him into signing a pre-nup, sending a rishta for his heartbroken ex to get her out of the way, forcing his trauma ridden wife into a honeymoon from hell, causing the breakdown of his marriage, ignoring his daughter (his "princess"), changing his son's name without permission, Dev finds it in him to defend each of these actions. It's not that he doesn't recognize it's wrong, the worst is that he actively supports it despite that knowledge.

On top of that he has the audacity to tell Sonakshi that he's giving her time to control her emotions and not confront Ishwari!!! After Ishwari just blindsided her to change her son's name without anybody's consent- not even her son's. This man has some nerve. Betrayal after betrayal, at what point is it time to walk away?

Sonakshi can do a million times better than him. Dev doesn't even deserve the powerhouse of a woman Sonakshi is. He seems to disappoint her consistently, and as a wife, how do you recover from the knowledge that your husband does NOT have your best interests at heart?

Agree with all of these points.

Since you are asking how to recover, what could Sona do.

Sona shouldn't leave Dev, it would be the victory Ishwari always sought.

Instead, she should walk out of that house with the kids. Tell Dev specifically that she is not leaving him. Instead, she is leaving that house and his mother and all his toxic relations.

Sonakshi should get an apartment for herself and her kids and tell Dev to come visit whenever he felt like meeting his family. But his mother and the rest of his family were not allowed to come near the vicinity of her or the kids. Clean break from them.

She should file a complaint with the cops against Ishwari, saying that Ishwari was subjecting her and her child to emotional trauma.

Dev would be forced to take stands then. He can't stop meeting his children and his wife. He can't tell his mother he will cut them out of his life. It would be the best payback for Ishwari who will know that her son has his beautiful family together where they are actually happy, but she can't get a glimpse of them.

Originally posted by: them2d

This is a sincere question to all of you- In Sonakshi's place, how would you even recover from the trauma that your spineless excuse of a partner put you through time and time again?

Dev has shown time and time again that he is not worthy of being trusted, he is a failure as a husband and as a father. While he might love Sona, he has no regard for her. He doesn't have the strength, nor does he have the conviction to stand against any decision his mother makes- no matter how wrong it is. Whether it is tricking him into signing a pre-nup, sending a rishta for his heartbroken ex to get her out of the way, forcing his trauma ridden wife into a honeymoon from hell, causing the breakdown of his marriage, ignoring his daughter (his "princess"), changing his son's name without permission, Dev finds it in him to defend each of these actions. It's not that he doesn't recognize it's wrong, the worst is that he actively supports it despite that knowledge.

On top of that he has the audacity to tell Sonakshi that he's giving her time to control her emotions and not confront Ishwari!!! After Ishwari just blindsided her to change her son's name without anybody's consent- not even her son's. This man has some nerve. Betrayal after betrayal, at what point is it time to walk away?

Sonakshi can do a million times better than him. Dev doesn't even deserve the powerhouse of a woman Sonakshi is. He seems to disappoint her consistently, and as a wife, how do you recover from the knowledge that your husband does NOT have your best interests at heart?

If I was at Sonakshi's place.... honestly speaking I wouldn't have given in to all those haat jodh manipulation & wouldn't have even reconciled with Dev after the 2nd breakup.

The 2nd breakup, because I think I kind of understand why Dev broke off the first time. There are ton loads of excuses & okay....he deserves a second chance.

But after chucking me out of the house for accidentally pushing his mother after putting me through a hell of a marriage, throwing my whole family out on street to avenge his mother's supposed "insult" & never once bothering in 7 long years to contact me to even check whether I was alive or dead?? No dude. After all these if he ever dared to tell me he still loves me & wants me back, I would have laughed on his face & tell him to shove his so called "love" up his a** & get the hell out of my sight. 🤬

Since Sonakshi couldn't do it & fell for the Maa Beta's manipulation & came back, the road ahead would be tough for her. Not only did she come back & gave Soha a taste of full family but she also brought another kid in the mix. And now she has another. She is responsible for the kids & cannot really go away abandoning her kids. She should rather take her kids along with her & teach the Maa Beta some lesson. Give the MIL from hell a clear lecture about why she is leaving with emphasis on the role she played in it & give Dev an ultimatum finally to choose his Mother or his family. He always blamed her for making him choose between her & his mother, better be blamed for something that she actually does. Make it very clear that Dev can be a part of her children's life ONLY if he can keep his mother away from them. Otherwise get ready for a messy divorce & to cough up a hefty alimony. The sum should be huge enough to give Ishwari a never ending fainting session, for real this time.

Sonakshi has walked out in the past. She is very capable of doing so and will be just fine on her own. Shenajs fantastic support from her parents side of the family. The problem now is what millions of women face - the kids! How do you deprive your kids of a family- the security they feel in knowing their mom and dad are together. I am not saying that Sonakshi should stay in an abusive marriage like this, but this time around it is not easy, there are 3 kids involved who would have to go through extreme torture with a grandmother like Ishwari she would not hesitate to declare Sonakshi as a mental case and get the custody of the kids! She is such a disgust in the name of a woman.

Originally posted by: NotAMuggle

If I was at Sonakshi's place.... honestly speaking I wouldn't have given in to all those haat jodh manipulation & wouldn't have even reconciled with Dev after the 2nd breakup.

The 2nd breakup, because I think I kind of understand why Dev broke off the first time. There are ton loads of excuses & okay....he deserves a second chance.

But after chucking me out of the house for accidentally pushing his mother after putting me through a hell of a marriage, throwing my whole family out on street to avenge his mother's supposed "insult" & never once bothering in 7 long years to contact me to even check whether I was alive or dead?? No dude. After all these if he ever dared to tell me he still loves me & wants me back, I would have laughed on his face & tell him to shove his so called "love" up his a** & get the hell out of my sight. 🤬

Since Sonakshi couldn't do it & fell for the Maa Beta's manipulation & came back, the road ahead would be tough for her. Not only did she come back & gave Soha a taste of full family but she also brought another kid in the mix. And now she has another. She is responsible for the kids & cannot really go away abandoning her kids. She should rather take her kids along with her & teach the Maa Beta some lesson. Give the MIL from hell a clear lecture about why she is leaving with emphasis on the role she played in it & give Dev an ultimatum finally to choose his Mother or his family. He always blamed her for making him choose between her & his mother, better be blamed for something that she actually does. Make it very clear that Dev can be a part of her children's life ONLY if he can keep his mother away from them. Otherwise get ready for a messy divorce & to cough up a hefty alimony. The sum should be huge enough to give Ishwari a never ending fainting session, for real this time.

Big enough for Ishwari to go back to her old job and I don't mean, at Lakshya's startup.

I can’t really answer this question

I will never go back and live with a person who just throw me out of his life like Dev did in the hospital.

That shows it will repeat again , and for him Maa is every thing .

That moment onwards it is a closed chapter no recovery

I can understand Dev as a character and his point of views

😂😂

From the beginning this Maa & Beta are unique she is even biased against her daughters ! For Iswarry it is only Dev ...addiction , obsession or madness who knows

Choices every one make in life decides their fate , Sona decided to live with him and still loves him so her choice to go through it 😁

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

I can’t really answer this question

I will never go back and live with a person who just throw me out of his life like Dev did in the hospital.

That shows it will repeat again , and for him Maa is every thing .

That moment onwards it is a closed chapter no recovery

I can understand Dev as a character and his point of views

😂😂

From the beginning this Maa & Beta are unique she is even biased against her daughters ! For Iswarry it is only Dev ...addiction , obsession or madness who knows

Choices every one make in life decides their fate , Sona decided to live with him and still loves him so her choice to go through it 😁

I really didn't want Sona to go back right away. I wanted them to truly introspect what had transpired. Take real time to think about what happened and face the real issue, Ishwari's dislike of Sona, why and how much was it. Instead they rushed into a marriage no one was ready for.

Originally posted by: them2d

This is a sincere question to all of you- In Sonakshi's place, how would you even recover from the trauma that your spineless excuse of a partner put you through time and time again?

Dev has shown time and time again that he is not worthy of being trusted, he is a failure as a husband and as a father. While he might love Sona, he has no regard for her. He doesn't have the strength, nor does he have the conviction to stand against any decision his mother makes- no matter how wrong it is. Whether it is tricking him into signing a pre-nup, sending a rishta for his heartbroken ex to get her out of the way, forcing his trauma ridden wife into a honeymoon from hell, causing the breakdown of his marriage, ignoring his daughter (his "princess"), changing his son's name without permission, Dev finds it in him to defend each of these actions. It's not that he doesn't recognize it's wrong, the worst is that he actively supports it despite that knowledge.

On top of that he has the audacity to tell Sonakshi that he's giving her time to control her emotions and not confront Ishwari!!! After Ishwari just blindsided her to change her son's name without anybody's consent- not even her son's. This man has some nerve. Betrayal after betrayal, at what point is it time to walk away?

Sonakshi can do a million times better than him. Dev doesn't even deserve the powerhouse of a woman Sonakshi is. He seems to disappoint her consistently, and as a wife, how do you recover from the knowledge that your husband does NOT have your best interests at heart?

If I am at Sonakshi's place, I'll get angry and won't mind to Dev's excuses, immeditately go to the house and confront Ishwari for changing the name and pacifies Ayush.

But, I don't know if it was a right thing to do (considering future)

Originally posted by: Newbiewriter30

I really didn't want Sona to go back right away. I wanted them to truly introspect what had transpired. Take real time to think about what happened and face the real issue, Ishwari's dislike of Sona, why and how much was it. Instead they rushed into a marriage no one was ready for.

Going back was hopeless

In real life situation should never go back to that kind of a person once in love people are helpless so do Sona.

History repeated too , Sona had seen personally how awkward the Maa & Beta relationship was !

When I see grown up man lying down on moms lap always itself is cringeworthy ( I have seen that only on ITV shows ) .

Dev is totally helpless in front of his mom , he knew his Maa always disliked Sona !

Sona too knew that still they decided to marry consequences followed 😅

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

When I see grown up man lying down on moms lap always itself is cringeworthy ( I have seen that only on ITV shows)

Many personality disorders exist between both Ishwari and Dev but lying down in mom's lap is just a way to show affection, nothing wrong or cringeworthy. Also every culture has a different way to show affection. For instance Pakistani shows also show this head in mom's lap mostly that's because it's south asian culture, Greeks kiss on lips when they greet their families, everyone does it regardless of gender, it's their way of showing affection.

Ishwari does suffer from narcissism and Dev is probably has a borderline personality disorder and he should ne able to maintain a balance between his mom and wife, but this particular thing you mentioned is actually adorable way to show your affection.