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Time is the best judge. Today's episode was a perfect example of that. Why you ask?
This simple of thing of exposing Vicky. Apparently it looks very simple...he is an absolutely good for nothing man and should not be spared. We were angry on sona as to why she didn't do exactly that and applauded dev for the same.
But often what we forget is in our lives... Any action just doesn't end but has its consequences. Of which we often do not think.
That day when sona said she can't see the family breaking anymore it didn't seem right... To me also I admit!
But probably this also I hadn't thought of. That if Vicky is thrown out... It will hurt mama and Mami whom he loves. Leave that even... It would hurt elena and golu who have been close to him for seven years. Not only that, his attire to Vicky will obviously change forever after this and he may never be able to forgive him obviously. And that may lead to many such impulsive actions again obviously, and it maybe seen as wrong by those two women who love him despite of it, again maybe obviously.
Norther is radharani wrong that he was wrong in putting him in front of kids, neither is Elena that if he tries to change she has to support him. Probably for everyone except them both it's easier to forgive Vicky. They can think of his other actions separately and judge him on that like now ishwari is doing... But for these two who lost seven years it's difficult. So now tell me was sona really wrong that day? Maybe she foresaw all this...mama Mami elena and mostly golu whom dev loves so much.
Maybe she chose between two wrongs.?
I don't know what I would have done but today that decision of sona didn't seem that wrong. Probably she would have thought of some other way. Anyways this is hurting dev, soha and her while family.
So as I said, the action may have been individually wrong but in context how wrong was it?
And the best part is how the show dev's dilemma and sona. For dev, he knows he can't forgive Vicky but he will die if separates from golu. So he asks elena to stay, not mentioning Vicky.
Similarly sona... Now not for once she is saying forgive him, forget and bring him back. But instead she is focusing on his pain, soha and golu...sje knows that dev is right and wrong at both time. That it's not easy to forgive. To me that means obviously she hasn't forgiven him too!
Now that Vicky has had its last chance and spoiled it. I want to see where this goes! I am sure he will be exposed... But how? Then the reactions? And the kids? And then finally that can probably put this to rest.
Anupamaa
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