marriage vs live in(discussion)

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A.K.Aggarwal

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Posted: 8 years ago

hey guys i really think ki krpkab fandom is one of the most matured fandom n we really talk about realistic things and not OTT drama n crap...problems which are actually faced like ppl say that they actually faced this mother in law insecurity thingy in their lives so i also wanted some opinion...

i really wanted honest opinion on

live in vs marriage

honestly what nikki said was somewhere right in a sense... i have no qualms with a live in relationship if that what is d circumstances require and ppl can get married at the right time when you feel its okay as dating is totally diff then actually saath me rehna types...i beleive in marriages but one has to be really sure about it as in todays world its not easy to find a genuine guy...

so i am confused at one point i was so against a live in relationship (for me but not for others like if they want to they can,born in a free world )but now i think its not that bad...as if u want to leave then u can leave your partner irrespective whether married or not...(recently saw a guy cheating on his wife when they had a love marriage and even a child,i guess thts playing on my mind)

but somewhere i dont know...giving ur v-card before marriage is a bit not something for me i guess thts where my traditions kick in or i guess u dont think abt it it jst happens like love ...

so in all i am a goner...well jab mujhe decision lena hoga tab shayd better clear hoga...

please i want all of you to give you valuable thoughts to it and comment

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Hari73

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Posted: 8 years ago

My opinion is different. I belong to old school. I have high respect for marriage institution. Our elders created this marriage institution for society benefit. In this world no one is perfect. Marriage is all about loving, understanding, learning, respecting and committed irrespective of all odds. In marriage both will try 200% make it to success. If you see from healthy society point of view, to give better atmosphere to children marriage is important. Also personal health point of view also marriage stands much higher. This live in relationship is temp not life long. Just imagine if they keep changing partners..where is life security and on the top of it chances of spreading Aids. So from me big no to live in.

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SecretSuperstar

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Posted: 8 years ago

Live in is like a trailer to how ur married life gonna be
Marriage has the advantage of extra commitment from partners as compared to live ins imagine Dev and Sona relation had it been a live in it would have got broken up early

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sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

This is going to be quite a controversial topic and I am predicting this thread to be a debate ground ..Hmm Interesting..HAHA

Would like to see some deep discussion here

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A.K.Aggarwal

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sjain
This is going to be quite a controversial topic and I am predicting this thread to be a debate ground ..Hmm Interesting..HAHA

Would like to see some deep discussion here

hey if u think i tried tpo offend someone so plzzz let me know i can delete it...

i was just curious

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sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: A.K.Aggarwal

hey if u think i tried tpo offend someone so plzzz let me know i can delete it...
i was just curious

No no I am actually looking forward for this ..Infact I was waiting for somehting like this yesterday..But this is nice

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aparna_krpkab

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Posted: 8 years ago

Without being judgemental all I can say is I will not condemn if someone is in live in relationship. I have seen couples in live in relationship without having physical relation. They live together like 2 friends and when the commarade blossoms to love they decide to marry. In my university I have seen this and even professors never questioned them. Its your personal choice whether you want the relationship to take to physical. Its wrong to judge and conclude its all takes to intimacy.

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A.K.Aggarwal

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sjain

No no I am actually looking forward for this ..Infact I was waiting for somehting like this yesterday..But this is nice

well i thought of it yesterday only bt then i was like shayd koi bana hi lega plus i was busy bt jab nobody made it so i thought i will only make it

so that i can only read some opinion on this as i am like hellish confused in this area so i really wanted to read ppl out but i guess no one is interested that much...but really lookinf forward how cvs aere going to take this forward

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cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

On personal level i will never be judgmental for a live in couple. I might not go into in, but will never judge the persons involved in it. It depends on personal choices and i feel everyone should respect it. One of my classmates was into live in and it was all fine with our friend circle atleast. Yes society still sees it as something very bold and non indigenous step as pre- marital sex is still a taboo in our country.

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sjain

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: A.K.Aggarwal

well i thought of it yesterday only bt then i was like shayd koi bana hi lega plus i was busy bt jab nobody made it so i thought i will only make it
so that i can only read some opinion on this as i am like hellish confused in this area so i really wanted to read ppl out but i guess no one is interested that much...but really lookinf forward how cvs aere going to take this forward

Oh cool Now I expect a good healthy discussion here :)

I am sure everyone has some views regarding it ..and will surely share here its quite a hot topic :)

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