Divorced or not....

Originally posted by: grace4317

After yesterday's episode, this was the most discussed topic and had left most of us confused. And that's why I would share my take on the same.

The makers through many instances had given the hint that they weren't divorced as per records. That's why no divorce papers were found among the records Sona kept and once we heard from Asha, on the first day of Dev's stay in Bose house, that they were still husband & wife. Then, why the matter of remarriage was raised in both Dev and Sona's case, is I would say was the creative liberty used for drama sake.

Now, coming to the part of calling each other ex-es, my finding is that for those who were thinking with their mind - Ishwari, Sona & Bijoy- Dev & Sona was divorced mentally. Reason is, the moment Sona threw her mangalsutra in the fire, everything ended there. Whereas, we can see those who were thinking with their heart - Asha, Dev & Golu- always hesitated to refer to them as ex-es. Because, for them Dev & Sona were still connected at heart. And that's why Dev couldn't see Sona with Jatin, whereas Sona could put on a farak nahi padtha mask in Shruthi's case.

But, ever since the Khatri track, there were changes happening in Sona. Her realisation is being shown gradually. The first news that shocked her was Dev being away from Ishwari for days. And the second one is Dev abandoning his sisters. In both cases, Sona is seen saying 'aisa nahin ho saktha; Dev aisa nahin hein'. And she stops there. It is not shown that she is thinking on what changed Dev. And my guess is that, Dev for once at least would have indulged in a physical affair, mainly before Golu was born, thus killing his soul & the innocent Dev completely. Yesterday Vicky was not there to welcome Sona and I believe that he is on the search of this one girl. Also, Dev yesterday declined contacting his sisters, saying he can't meet their eyes. So, revelation of Dev's this past & Vicky's cheatings may happen simultaneously and that's when Sona is going to realise & break down on how her one act of distrust had destroyed Dev & his family. And this time, it would be Ishwari & Dev together would be her support.

Originally posted by: SecretSuperstar

@bold the show will obviously go as per the above route but logically it's not sona's fault like really how can she be responsible for breaking of the family when she was never considered the part of their family by anyone including dev

what mistrust? didn't dev himself admitted that night that he has thrown them if he himself believed that he could do this(vicky only told him) ? there is no justice in blaming her for leaving him when he was the one who said get out, regretted loving her and then those infamous dialogues at farmhouse.

sona's only mistake was hiding about soha but since no one knew about it there is no way sona is responsible for dixit house mess

Originally posted by: sweetyidiot

Sorry to say this but sona has equal share of mistakes in their separation ...instead if being in best babu peagent she should have tried communicating her fears with Dev...there was no open communication between them that is the main reason for their failed relationship...pls.it will now lead to Dev vs sona

Originally posted by: sweetyidiot

Hi di thank you for this post ...I have some questions but ask you later as of now I have to rush to see my results

Originally posted by: SecretSuperstar

@bold the show will obviously go as per the above route but logically it's not sona's fault like really how can she be responsible for breaking of the family when she was never considered the part of their family by anyone including dev

what mistrust? didn't dev himself admitted that night that he has thrown them if he himself believed that he could do this(vicky only told him) ? there is no justice in blaming her for leaving him when he was the one who said get out, regretted loving her and then those infamous dialogues at farmhouse.

sona's only mistake was hiding about soha but since no one knew about it there is no way sona is responsible for dixit house mess

Originally posted by: grace4317

Hi Superstar, hope you have not teamed me in Dev's team. I have my own apprehensions with both. And while I agree with the fact that it required immense courage to still stick on to IN, after having experienced all these insults, I would like Sona to answer just this one question of mine. You could believe Vicky, who from the very first meeting has abused you or threatened you and had even challenged you that he will destroy Dev, over Dev, whom you yourself had once said had given you the fairy tale love story you had dreamt of. How was it possible for you Sona, to not believe Dev; but believe Vicky?