A successful marriage requires falling in love many times.....

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"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person"
All these 19 years of my marriage, this one quote had been one of my motivation in not focusing on the weaknesses of my spouse or what he says or what I feel at the time when we both are impulsive in our actions and thoughts. Unfortunately, this is where our Devakshi failed 7years back. On that fateful day, due to their immaturity & impulsiveness they lost their most beautiful years. Though Sona still expected & waited for Dev to come in search of her, nothing worked out because they both failed to understand each other. The moment Sona left him that fateful night, Dev believed he was never Sona's choice and she had left him forever; That's why he didn't go in search of her and even didn't want to stop his engagement with Nisha (though I can't agree with Dev on this; since I believe he should have done it if not for anyone else, but for Soha. Especially, when he knew why Ishwari & Soha had devised this plan of re-marriage). On the contrary, Sona when she came to her senses, started to wait for Dev coming in search of her as usual; but when he didn't turn up felt that what all he told her that fateful night was true. Though even for Soha's sake she tried to take a step forward, destiny didn't help her because she was doing it only for Soha; not because her misunderstandings about Dev was cleared. If it wasn't so, she would have just given a call to Dev to inform about Soha; he would have been beside her within seconds. The end result was they lost 7beautiful years of their married life.

"What if we get the chance to rectify all the big mistakes of our life? And what if a magical wand takes us into the future to personally witness all those critical twists and turns on the road journey of life where we may swerve into the wrong lane? And then, what if we get a chance to revise our actions and deeds accordingly? The movie Baar Baar Dekho is about getting a chance of changing the mistakes in life without making them" - Review by movies.ndtv.com

And those who have seen the movie Bar Bar Dekho will surely agree with me, when I say let us all forget what has happened in the past 7years and give our Devakshi one more chance to live their lives. I am sure they will not disappoint us. Till now we were watching a show with the tagline, 'Kya khote hai, Kya Paate Hain Jab Dilon Ke Faisley Dimaag Se Hotey Hai'...From Monday onwards, it is going to be a totally new phase where we will get to see what our hearts wanted to see. Get ready for the beautiful & soothing ride!!!!😃
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sweetyidiot thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Grace di beautiful words👏 let's us sit back and enjoy the ride of new phase
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetyidiot

Grace di beautiful words👏 let's us sit back and enjoy the ride of new phase


Thank you Sweety...With lots of loops still being open, I am eagerly waiting to see what all is in store for us.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow beautiful n heartwarming post...❤️.Excited for Mon now as how they wud take it on from here..!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post grace di
I always love ur post 👏

Agree with u
Both r immature that time
Waiting to see their new chapter of relationship
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Beautiful post Grace. 👏
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grace, your words are indeed full of love and grace. You are absolutely right about falling over and over in love with the same person.
It is possible if two people rise above mere flesh and are intertwined in the spirit. The flesh will wither and pass away but the spirit lives for ever. A relationship is not a mere culmination of the flesh becoming one, but spirits in absolute and perfect harmony. I tell all youngsters that If one falls for outer beauty, they are headed for disaster. One needs to look much deeper than the skin and into the realms of 'who' the real person is before true love can actually blossom. Some of the most ugliest are the finest spirits ever.

Sona and Dev are like that. They may be played by actors who are great looking just for the packaging but the characters are such beautiful spirits.

Long live KRPKAB, in our hearts.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahulvats14

Beautifully written everything 👏


Rahul...thank you very much for the nice words.

Btw, why are you being shown as a Newbie and recent date of joining?. You were here much before I joined the forum. Then what happened?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: mehraan

Wow beautiful n heartwarming post...❤️.Excited for Mon now as how they wud take it on from here..!


Thank you Mehar...Yeah, with the latest photoshoots out, the excitement is getting out of control. Can't wait for the episodes to air...😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank you dear.

But, please note that the IF moderators are now cleaning such one liner posts and are not counting it for the ranking. So make sure that you add few more sentences to your posts. 😊

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