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Enlightened21

@Enlightened21

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Posted: 8 years ago

In a particular African tribe of South Africa, when someone does something hurtful and wrong, they take the person to the center of town, and the entire tribe comes and surrounds him. For two days they'll tell the man every good thing he has ever done. The tribe believes that every human being comes into the world as GOOD, each of us desiring safety, love, peace, happiness. But sometimes in the pursuit of those things people make mistakes. The community sees these misdeeds as a cry for help. They unite together for the sake of their fellow man to hold him up, to reconnect him with his true Nature, to remind him who he really is, until he fully remembers the truth from which he'd temporarily been disconnected: "I AM GOOD".

Isn't it what Sonakshi is trying now-a-days, to help Dev out his miserable state and we who take pride of being educated, knowledgeable and experienced are being seen not to have the sensitivity this small African tribe posses, when it comes to understanding our fellow being, be it man/woman. What we know is to just sit and throw stones on them, with the prejudice that we are perfect. I feel ashamed in front on this African tribe and a BIG SALUTE to them, for their generous hearts.

To know more on this African ritual/philosophy, here is the link:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-judith-rich/ubuntu_b_1834779.html

Edited by grace4317 - 8 years ago

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lavanya

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Posted: 8 years ago

Awesome post. Its so true.. showing a man how bad he is repeatedly will not do any good if we need him to rebound

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havima

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Posted: 8 years ago

Grace your post👍🏼... running around. Catch u later

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vibg

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Posted: 8 years ago

I have no issues with Sonakshi helping Dev regain control of positive thoughts in his life. and hopefully grow to be a stronger, kinder, Smarter human and father! Thats her character!!!!

I do have an issue if she falls from him again.. so easily. as of now, Dev hasnt realized the extent of his physical and emotional abuse prior to divorce and in Season 2 😡 Until he relizes those actions and truly repents what he has done to theloveofhislife.. Yet she picked up the broken pieces of her life, raised his child, gained all her family had lost because he trusted the wrong people!!!! sonakshi shouldnt go back in a relationship with him other than co-parenting! Makers have to show this otherwise it sends a veeery wrong message to women everywhere. and will make this hatke show no different than other melodramas on Indian TV!!!!

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cscs

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Posted: 8 years ago

Beautiful post Grace. :)

They both can either make or break each other.

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Enlightened21

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: dlavanya
Awesome post. Its so true.. showing a man how bad he is repeatedly will not do any good if we need him to rebound

Thanks Lavanya for the nice comments.

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Enlightened21

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: havima
Grace your post👍🏼... running around. Catch u later

Havis...thanks for posting here, inspite of your busy schedule...take your own time

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Enlightened21

@Enlightened21

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: vibg
I have no issues with Sonakshi helping Dev regain control of positive thoughts in his life. and hopefully grow to be a stronger, kinder, Smarter human and father! Thats her character!!!!

I do have an issue if she falls from him again.. so easily. as of now, Dev hasnt realized the extent of his physical and emotional abuse prior to divorce and in Season 2 😡 Until he relizes those actions and truly repents what he has done to theloveofhislife.. Yet she picked up the broken pieces of her life, raised his child, gained all her family had lost because he trusted the wrong people!!!! sonakshi shouldnt go back in a relationship with him other than co-parenting! Makers have to show this otherwise it sends a veeery wrong message to women everywhere. and will make this hatke show no different than other melodramas on Indian TV!!!!

Hope yesterday's episode gave an answer to all your questions and brought a smile on your face, vibg.

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Enlightened21

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: cscs
Beautiful post Grace. :)
They both can either make or break each other.

Thanks Charu for the nice words. There is a correction in your wording...It should have been,'Only they both can make or break each other'...Isn't it?