Tia's Thread - Satta!!! - Page 9

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

Now anyone tell me, if Dev is so concerned that his mother will be in guilt till she gets to say Sorry to this other family , then why the hell is he not saying sorry to the Boses for throwing them out at midnight?!! And they are very much available to him...no need to hire a jasoos!! Isnt he supposed to be guilty...then he is not guilty...which means he justifies his own actions that night..taking revenge for you rmother's insult by throwing other out of their house at midnight is perfectly ok...some silly past mistake not worth digging at. Then it should be perfectly ok if this other family turns up to take revenge from the Dixits...I hope they do so, I'll cheer for them, at the cost of Dev-Sonakshi.
Dev's dictionary justifies revenge for family...so all's fair.

I still cant believe how can a so-called good soul/person not be guilty about it and doesn't have an ounce of sensibility to say sorry to the family...all in the name of revenge for mother's hurt ego?

Originally posted by: chucklebuddy

@Tia - I love you for that message! You are a sweetheart! 🤗

And, I see a lot of similarities between us.😃 The privacy factor, in particular. Even I am not very comfortable with showing my conversations to other people, no matter how close they are. Nothing to hide or be shameful of, but it is just not their business and out of my comfort zone. I have a phone to myself since '10 and my parents have always ensured me that privacy. My college principal was like Saya from the popular show, u know!😆 She randomly called for confiscating mobile phones. My friend had a girl's name "Sudha" saved in her phone and she asked if it was "Sudhakar"🤢 She even called up my friend's parents and told them that their daughter is in a relationship(Heights of overreaction!). She subsequently phoned to all the parents of those who sat with her(that included me) and spoke all nonsense. What I wanted to convey is, when I was worried as to what the effect would be, since it had been just 3-4months after I got into that college, my mother did not even talk to me about it and when I myself brought the topic up, she told that my princi sounds like a lunatic and asked me if she is the same always! We had a hearty laugh.😆 I vividly remember that incident even after all these years. My point from all this is, I need that kind of trust! I know I am asking much and it is very rare. Everything comes with conditions now. But we cannot settle for something just because of the on-going trend. Adjustments are fine and very necessary only if it is two-sided.

Well, being rude to people is not the take away from any bad experience. It is all about learning to balance our emotions and retrospecting on what went wrong and how! Some people I know, due to depression, resort to drugs, alcohol and women. One of my junior went suicidal because of a girl, spoiled his parents' happiness, consumed a lot of time and money on recovery, lost an year of academics, couldn't find a job for an year or two and later went to some mediocre university in the USA after one of his relatives sponsored.

Friends are only the people we choose and we do not really suffer until we choose to. I have always felt pride in my self-control and in-built auto-recovery. They have got me where I am today. A person either succumbs to his feelings and ruins his life by seeking temporary benefits (like Dev) or builds a fort over it (like Sonakshi) and that is why I have always connected with Sonakshi's values and decisions in S1, early S2 and very rarely now.

I wasn't trivializing the issue because others said but I felt so. Back then, I used to think that I should have looked at things from a different perspective. I meant the incident which I had described in my earlier post might be trivial when in comparison with few others. I wouldn't be half the person I am today if not for taking a couple of hits. Again, sorry for rambling on and I will shut up now😆 Btw, your traits are not annoying but amazing!😃 Thank you for sheltering all our thoughts😃🤗I am Ambika, you can call me Ambi or Amb.😃

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

Tia how did you watch bahubali so fast? torrent or you went to watch it?

Originally posted by: Tia.0

<font size="3" color="#009900">@BOLD, That's is the crux of the matter. That's exactly is my disbelief on Dev even when he does something good because I know, he will flip again, sooner rather than later, depends on who is holding the spatula at that time.</font>

<font size="3" color="#009900">Vicky asked a good question. I was also wondering about that. Because you know when Dev and alcohol get together, his memory works in mysterious ways.</font>

<font size="3" color="#009900">So yesterday I realised that Dev is still under the impression that he was responsible for Bose family being on the street. Yet I did not see any guilt, any remorse, any apology from him.</font>

<font size="3" color="#009900">Even Bijoy had blamed Dev for breaking Sonakshi's heart, not for bringing them on the street. Because for him, his daughter's pain is a bigger blow.</font>

<font size="3" color="#009900">But why is Asha all chummy with Dev? Her husband getting sick due to losing his lifelong savings doesn't matter to her, her daughter's heart getting broken twice by the same man doesn't matter to her. Where is her loyalty?</font>

<font size="3" color="#009900">Bijoy Bose always said that in troubled time his family stand by each other, protect each other. But Asha never protected her family. I honestly don't like disloyal people. For me, Asha is like Radha who spits on the hand that feeds her.</font>

Originally posted by: Tia.0

Good point, Gauri. Because it's very simple.

Who asks for forgiveness when they get forgiven for free?

Who pays credit card bill when their past debts get automatically wiped off?

Who pays for milk, when the cow is free?

I can go on, but that's the point. Dev's past deeds get wiped off by everyone in Bose family except Bijoy, hence he only apologizes to Bijoy.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Tia and girls.. nice discussions...

I just wanted to clarify... which particular scene showed that sonakshi is sending wrong signals to dev - like flirting etc... i thought she was just being nice, lightening his mood , did not even hang around while he was staring at her and cut him off everytime he was lecturing etc...

regarding Bahubali 2 ... i tried to get tickets for last weekend but failed... all theatres are booked. and the price of ticket is unbelievable -- regular 25$ and IMAX 34 $... i am trying to book for next weekend... i heard really great things about the movie.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Tia and girls.. nice discussions...

I just wanted to clarify... which particular scene showed that sonakshi is sending wrong signals to dev - like flirting etc... i thought she was just being nice, lightening his mood , did not even hang around while he was staring at her and cut him off everytime he was lecturing etc...

regarding Bahubali 2 ... i tried to get tickets for last weekend but failed... all theatres are booked. and the price of ticket is unbelievable -- regular 25$ and IMAX 34 $... i am trying to book for next weekend... i heard really great things about the movie.

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

The screenplay and script is heavily flawed.I mean just because the story is from Dev-Ish angle,they just ignore the wrongs done to Sona's family.I mean i understand Boses are not the ones to hold grudges but the fact that none of them ever remembers is kind of hard to digest.Im not asking them to hate Dixits but no wistful retrospection also.Why isnt the boses as apprehensive abt all this as Sona is??

Here we have the Dixits who dont waste any breath of theirs without blaming Sona.They can show a lot of postive scenes between Elena,Sona,Golu and Soha without the weight of the past.But no,drama sells.

One more thing,I would love to see more scenes of Jatin putting Vicky in his place.But no Ish needs her screenspace.What am i thinking??

Originally posted by: Tia.0

Hi Lavanya,

I was talking about the scene where Sonakshi was sitting outside and Dev comes there. She starts asking about if he thought about their anniversary celebration etc etc and then when she was walking away, she was hoping Dev calls her back. I never saw her behaving that way with Jatin. So it looked very much of a flirty way to talk to an ex who has history with her and clearly still gets lost around her.

And then there is her talk with Asha in the kitchen and her saying may be she and Dev too... Remember that scene?

In fact, last week, the scenes were shown such a way that I was 100% convinced that she will jump on Dev the moment he returns.

But this week the entire attitude changed.

So yes, it's confusing for me. There is absolutely no similarities between last week's scene and this week's scene.

Bahubali is super expensive. That's why it hasn't released in Canada yet. My friend crossed border in USA to watch it, lol. 😆