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Posted: 8 years ago
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Tia !!! Good one !!!

I watched this episode to see if they again change something ... I see they are beginning to do ...
just like flipping a pancake ... one flip to change !!! And we all know once Ish mata comes she will again do the flip .

Bechara Dev ... he s always on the pot flipping flipping and but doesn't bake at all only flops ...
Good kudos to cvs to bring in Vicky in front of Dev ... Dev always completely want to forget the past ... his mistakes won't allow him to sleep ... as in Ishwari suffered with Khatri for her misdeeds this Dev will be reminded of his mistakes . Some ppl may feel it was Vicky who did the deed ... but no not at all ... Vicky turned the situation to his favor like a businessman... he hit his jackpot because Dev had already broken the pot ... he had already sent Sona out... Vicky made sure she doesn't comeback . That's it.

I would have been more happier if it had come from some member of Bose family to shut him up that they were brought to the street by him . But today I was really happy ... see from where and which place this Dev Dixit got his shock !!!

Well nothing else was interesting... as in This MAA ka ladala is again with his MAA MAA dialogue and doing jassos!! You know we can't straighten certain things
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Posted: 8 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Tia.0

I honestly don't know. Even Dev thinks that he kicked them in the street, Bijoy got sick, they lost their home, still Asha wants Sona to go back to Dev? Then there could only be one reason is that by hook or crook, she wants Sonakshi married and Soha's demand just gave her that opportunity which she didn't have for any other man. 🤢


This over understanding of asha is not digestible. I feel she does not know it was dev did it. May be they know the truth that Vicky did it..otherwise this sweetness does not go with human character.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: chucklebuddy

Tia 🤗 I love this write-up!! Extremely relatable! You have a way with words and that conveys the message with the right impact. Thanks a lot for sharing you life with us!

I too am a 'experience everything' kind of person and keep running around from one adventure to another. My mom too is the epitome of patience (although, of late, she gets worked up a little, due to reasons). And, I too am commitment phobic.

I have been an ultra-forgiving person till 20, when I had to make terms with realisations and lessons learnt the hard way. It must be probably due to my mom's influence. My dad was an ill-tempered person until my birth, so she had to go through a lot and remain patient, also, even now, my mother's siblings are unfair to her and I do not like them but she does not express her dissatisfaction.

One small event I would like to share here. I had a friend in school. I was the kind of person who did not make much friends during school days. I had only 2, when I entered high school. Life started changing gradually after that, that is a different story altogether. There was this girl with whom I sat with, from 6th-12th and during high school(changed phase), when people used to call me, in order to make sure that she did not feel alone, sometimes, I didn't go and stood by her side. In the public examinations, her scores were very low(topper she was, in school tests) and I somehow managed to pull off a very good score, both of which were due to absence and presence of luck respectively. Her mother filled her mind with poison on how bad a friend I was (no relevance, I know!) and even verbally insulted me when I tried to contact her, not once, but thrice! I somehow couldn't let go of that incident. This is just a trivial issue which I was comfortable to discuss. There are much more. And some of them are serious, while some seem trivial now. Inspite of immense trust, getting disowned for familial reasons and not having them stand by you during tough times are bad signs of even acquainting with someone.

Life has not been easy on me. Some people have been sorry but somehow, I don't find the strength or necessity to trust them again, although I maintain a Hi & Bye relationship with some among the some people who are sorry. Right now, apart from family, I trust only one friend , who has been a strong pillar of support, made sure I was okay and even if we do not talk daily, we know our equation. I have a lot of friends, atleast that is what people say so and some even complain that I don't give much attention to X people because I am close with Y people. But it is the result of my lack of trust and my mind tuning itself to focus on better things than on temporary people. All I have seen is, when you are too nice (not the right amount of nice) with people, they exploit you and when you realise this one day, no amount of regret is going to bring back the lost time which could have been spent joyfully and on self-love. I am happy where I am right now! I embrace aloneness and solitude when not in company and socialise and comfort when in one. Some incidents are bound to happen in life to make us the person we are today, i.e. a better person for tomorrow. I now know my limits with people and set the bar for winning my trust way too high. Although I am in my mid twenties, I am skeptical of marriage, just the way you were, because of the factors you have mentioned.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me!

Sorry for rambling on. I am a private person but something triggered me to write this, and I myself am surprised that I opened up, even for a trivial incident. Sorry about the length. I know, people have real issues and I might appear as an imbecile. :P

Totally off the topic, but for something on the show, there were situations and people which made me relate with the show and few characters respectively. OMG, Tia's thread has become my personal diary today! I am pouring in whatever comes to my mind. Sorry Tia!🤣 *Runs off in shame*


Life is full of challenges, hurdles. Sometime we need to fight and sometime we should just let it go. But wise person is learning lesson and not to do same mistakes. It's interesting to learn so many different experience.

You mentioned about exams..i want to share funny incident happened with me. It was my 12th std exam (board exam), after maths exams, my friend started crying like anything. Me and my friends thought her paper must have gone really bad. So we consoled her and we did not leave her alone. We went to her house to drop and spend 2 hrs with her. Like that we spent almost 4-5 hrs. In our time we had continues exam so we went home to prepare for next exam. But our 5 hrs gone in consoling her. But you know when result came, she had scored 98.5 in maths. She cried so much bcoz she knew she did some small mistakes. Also she came 3rd rank in the university. I was passed with some 70s..hehehe..it was really shock of our life.


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Posted: 8 years ago
#54
Nice update Tia. And you are so right, Asha could not even tolerate 2 min of Mami's bashing and expects her daughter to tolerate Mami, Ishwari and Vicky day in day out! 😕
I liked Sona's stance that she is trying to help Dev, Soha's father so that Soha doesn't feel neglected and is happy with her father. As long as she is stuck to this agenda it is good for her because then she can give back strongly to Mami, Ishwari and Vicky. I don't want her to fall in the trap again UNLESS Dev develops a spine, which I think will take a while!😃

He is still bothered about his mom's secret and that it should not leak out to anyone. He is not anxious that Sona is not serious about him, so that shows his seriousness(!) about Sona!😆 This guy will remain dedicated to Ish only! 😆




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Posted: 8 years ago
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LOL. I mentioned it the other day. The writers have no idea what they are showing. One day, Dev-Sona are flirting, other day they claim to be 'just friends' and the next day, they are back to eye-locking and trip fall catch 😆 Zilch consistency and logic. Sona's lecture on their relationship, Elena and Asha's hyper shipping, Vicky and GTB's petty games, Dev's MPD behaviour- everything is on loop. Only Golu makes sense right now and am sure the writers wont spare him either. Its only a matter of time.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tia.0

<font size="3" color="#336666">Hey Ashi, how are you? Yes. Bahubali is mind blowing. There is no comparison between Amarendra Bahubali vs. Dev Dixit. Out of the question. They are not even on the same galaxy.🤢</font>



Different timezone too 😆 ..Dev Dixit looks like he belongs to dinosaur age when I see BB2.

@Ashi: I already saw twice...going for thrice during visa tour in kolkata 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Excellent write up Tia.
Gambling is for those who acknowledge the loss that may come along with the wins or don't acknowledge it at all. The acceptance should be for both either-or. So, gambler are easily those people who are highly intelligent or foolish. One who accepts losses and one who doesn't. It is never for the people who have no appetite for losses...that is the majority.


As for the episode, I couldnot have agreed more on your take on Asha.
For the simple reason that she wants Devaskhi together she can not be termed as sensible. I do not see any sensibility in influencing your daughter to go back to a household where her age-old wisdom and tolerating power is tested for 5 minutes and they fail to hold their ground. Can she not see if she being Sonakshi's mother is treated this way, how would they be treating Sonakshi?
If Dev is her prince charming, does it mean she has to be pushed to hell just because her prince charming resides in hell? Can she ever not be any sensible advice to Dev...like to balance relationships or to take a stand when needed?
Yday epi, inspite of Dev taking a stand infront of Vicky-Mamiji, Asha was insulted and did not want to stay any longer. How can she even think of Sonakshi and Suhana staying there forever?
I'm sorry but I do not call it sensibility.

Elina - no comments. I absolutely detest this character, even more than Vicky-Mamiji. The only consistency/purpose of this character is to ship Devakshi.


Sonakshi - I understand her anger and I hope she clears the air. And I also hope she enlightens her mother-cum-best friend about her prince charming as well. I have no idea from where Asha gets her notions since Sonakshi clearly said she , now, does not know what is love.

Dev- I'm happy that he finally spoke up for something good. I liked him speaking and giving Asha respect, care which she deserves being Soha's grandmom, if not Sonakshi's mother.

Dev-Golu scene was sweet.

Lastly, I hope CVs show that this time Dev doesnot get what he wants easily without trying hard for it...when I say trying it means to actually do something other than drink and whine.

Saunita - filler scenes.

Asha gave no advice to Sourabh over the last dinner fiasco-- point to be noted. All gyaan for Sona only...not fair!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now anyone tell me, if Dev is so concerned that his mother will be in guilt till she gets to say Sorry to this other family , then why the hell is he not saying sorry to the Boses for throwing them out at midnight?!! And they are very much available to him...no need to hire a jasoos!! Isnt he supposed to be guilty...then he is not guilty...which means he justifies his own actions that night..taking revenge for you rmother's insult by throwing other out of their house at midnight is perfectly ok...some silly past mistake not worth digging at. Then it should be perfectly ok if this other family turns up to take revenge from the Dixits...I hope they do so, I'll cheer for them, at the cost of Dev-Sonakshi.
Dev's dictionary justifies revenge for family...so all's fair.

I still cant believe how can a so-called good soul/person not be guilty about it and doesn't have an ounce of sensibility to say sorry to the family...all in the name of revenge for mother's hurt ego?
Edited by gaurimisha - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Tia - I love you for that message! You are a sweetheart! 🤗

And, I see a lot of similarities between us.😃 The privacy factor, in particular. Even I am not very comfortable with showing my conversations to other people, no matter how close they are. Nothing to hide or be shameful of, but it is just not their business and out of my comfort zone. I have a phone to myself since '10 and my parents have always ensured me that privacy. My college principal was like Saya from the popular show, u know!😆 She randomly called for confiscating mobile phones. My friend had a girl's name "Sudha" saved in her phone and she asked if it was "Sudhakar"🤢 She even called up my friend's parents and told them that their daughter is in a relationship(Heights of overreaction!). She subsequently phoned to all the parents of those who sat with her(that included me) and spoke all nonsense. What I wanted to convey is, when I was worried as to what the effect would be, since it had been just 3-4months after I got into that college, my mother did not even talk to me about it and when I myself brought the topic up, she told that my princi sounds like a lunatic and asked me if she is the same always! We had a hearty laugh.😆 I vividly remember that incident even after all these years. My point from all this is, I need that kind of trust! I know I am asking much and it is very rare. Everything comes with conditions now. But we cannot settle for something just because of the on-going trend. Adjustments are fine and very necessary only if it is two-sided.
Well, being rude to people is not the take away from any bad experience. It is all about learning to balance our emotions and retrospecting on what went wrong and how! Some people I know, due to depression, resort to drugs, alcohol and women. One of my junior went suicidal because of a girl, spoiled his parents' happiness, consumed a lot of time and money on recovery, lost an year of academics, couldn't find a job for an year or two and later went to some mediocre university in the USA after one of his relatives sponsored.

Friends are only the people we choose and we do not really suffer until we choose to. I have always felt pride in my self-control and in-built auto-recovery. They have got me where I am today. A person either succumbs to his feelings and ruins his life by seeking temporary benefits (like Dev) or builds a fort over it (like Sonakshi) and that is why I have always connected with Sonakshi's values and decisions in S1, early S2 and very rarely now.

I wasn't trivializing the issue because others said but I felt so. Back then, I used to think that I should have looked at things from a different perspective. I meant the incident which I had described in my earlier post might be trivial when in comparison with few others. I wouldn't be half the person I am today if not for taking a couple of hits. Again, sorry for rambling on and I will shut up now😆 Btw, your traits are not annoying but amazing!😃 Thank you for sheltering all our thoughts😃🤗I am Ambika, you can call me Ambi or Amb.😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@Ambi,@Tia, @Pramila
Thanks for sharing incidents from your personal lives.

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