Tia's Thread - Tamasha!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

so true😡why can't they preach dev

Because our holier -than -thou bhaiya is no ordinary person ,he is devta😆
Dev is already perfect ,so no advice for him

Y do i feel its time for dixit to be on road.if ishwari has robbed a family for investment in dev company.if its true dev may give up everything he has earned till now and struggle once again to achieve it in right manner. Well my prediction always fall flat on my face 😆

Originally posted by: tellyjo

After checking on last two episode updates the only thing i was bit appreciative was that the khatri issue is really a big one and that CVs may hit a masterstroke with this one...inspite of all other crap. But woh to ekdom hi childish nikla. I was actually wondering how they will reveal the whole truth in the 7 day stay at IN .

Looks like a robbery similar to Mrs Mondal. But here marriage breaks.are they relating it to karma. Ishu's kids didn't have a normal successful marriage?

Lmao PP that t-shirt, 🤣 reminded me of that rape awareness video by kalki, it's all my fault

Originally posted by: JShukla

Tia- have weaned myself off this serial "finally" but I do loiter around this forum and thread for some good time.

Recently visited the analysis thread and posted this on Samanalyse's excellent take on some of the sesaon 1 happenings:

Sam: " In S1 the juxtaposition of Sona and Neha always spoke volumes. So here we have a disempowered woman, on the one hand, questioning the structure and on the other we have a woman who has all the tools of empowerment but chooses to reproduce nothing more than a slightly tweaked model of patriarchy. At the moment when Dev's privilege was negated by his need for her, Sona had the opportunity to demand a genuinely equal space for herself in his life, but like you said, she *chose* to earn that space instead of demanding it. That is totally internalised misogyny, and that is where I see the fallibility in Sona's character. She wanted something called equality, but she had no clear idea what equality meant to her."

JShukla: this is a lovely thought ..👍🏼👏

However, Sona banked a lot on Dev's love for her and thought Dev would do what she wants for her without her explicitly asking for it. And this is where I agree our internalized misogyny comes to play. We have this sub-conscious belief that a woman demanding and using her privilege is perhaps not as desirable. And I do not blame Sona here. However I really appreciate how you bring forth these very path breaking views in such a simple form.

Not sure if you recall, but I had a longish discussion with Payalj some days back on feminism when I narrated the story of my MIL. Now she is a feminist and a totally open minded woman even with a very basic minimum education and having lived a tough underprivileged life in village.

She'd visit my husband every year once and this year is no exception except that this time I am part of their household(we got married less than 1 year ago).

Mind you , though financially independent small scale entrepreneur, she is someone who stayed in strict purdah all this while

My husband has been very surprised by how she is adapting all the nuances of a city bred woman.😆.. borrowing and flaunting my jeans, capris, visiting our society gym, calling a cab and going around the town by herself while we are away at office.

I got to know how much she craved for such things but never had the courage to ask her own son for them. Even with me it took a lot of cajoling from my side to understand that she has some tiny little fantasies that she wants fulfilled ...

My husband is a totally open minded person but even for him it was a jolt that his 'traditional' mother is not so traditional and may want to break free from some habits thrust upon her...

nothing related to serial, but I guess Sonakshi's or even Ishwari;s thought process is that a demanding woman may not get the love and respect that a sacrificing one would garner.

That said, I don't think Dev would have agreed to set up separate house with Sona even if she demanded it before marriage. I feel this demand from Sona would have ultimately killed off his love for Sona.😕

Neha wanted privileges for having sacrificed her childhood. But she sacrificed childhood for Dixits and wanted privileges at Ranveer's place. And this is where Neha's ordinariness makes itself glaringly visible. She had a rich brother who was ready to get her taught the required money making and other skills. She never tried using the available tools to get the independence and luxuries she desired. And from what I understand she is still dependent on her rich merchant navy husband to 'provide' for her.

Then we have a Riya who never demanded a better position or may be was denied a higher position coz she was too hesitant as a woman?

I am not an advocate of patriarchy model. But isn't it borne out of 'men as providers ' rule. Until we make it mandatory for all men/women to earn their own living I don't think we can tear down this model.

This is the second serial where I had invested my heart and soul and story got utter crap. First baby was geet I felt cheated when geet forgives dev for his deeds. Now in this..sonakshi forgives dev without him being sorry for his deeds. Why it happens with me. Grrr...

Amazing analysis the way u explained about relationships being in 2 way road awesome ya
I can't get it why sona crying
I can't get it why dev is possessive when he said it was for soha
If soha wouldn't be there would he allow sona in his life I don't get it why he is in pain
Such a mcp why he is feeling betrayed when he was busy bedding other ladies how can sona forget that he cheated on her still she feeling bad and wants to clear his dirty mind it's like saying thank u to driver who bumped u .
What's wrong with the writer why they show sona repenting for what
Why Elena and mamaji preaching her instead of dev
Why women are preached always to adjust ( I remember my mom preaching always to compromise but when my brother was never preached is women entitled to be preached to let go things are women bhalli ka bakra always )
I hated it tia why ???
Why can't mamaji preach the chand with daag
Hopeless ppl

Bose family such a classy ppl were Asha made sure ronita joined in group hug and sona too such a classy ppl so sweet to see them
Trust me tia I am hating sona she is ready to be kicked out by dixits any time but this time losing soha along with her dignity
Why she needs to protect ishwari height of unreal act
From Monday ishwari and her sulking oh oh bg will return

I want sona to be kicked out this time too even bose family should throw her too

most strangest part is if ishwari stole jewellery and the family committed suicide then thier curse will be surrounding around her... And maybe that is y neha nor dev had a successful love marriage... Well this also shows this double standards and hypocrisy of her who accused boses thief and endup being one... And yes!! Issue worry comes up with a solution always... That is serve a chawal and develop it it can wipe off her sin... But unfortunately neither it could be erased nor be forgiven... And who actually educated girls in a chawal forgot that she didnt educate one of her daughter...???!!!??

Instead of this they could have shown bcoz of soha they get back together as many couples do. Gradually learning respecting and realising mistakes. This could have been so much better than sona forgiving him without his redemption.

Okay I am letting today's episode sink in first.