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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

No, this is not Love, its verbal abuse at its worst!

Its also the lowest depths of Hypocrisy when the male lead has been sleeping around with random girls for 7 yrs 🤢 and now hes questioning the character of female lead just because shes meeting her best friend outside the house as Mr Bully has forbidden her from bringing her friend into the house.

If Sona has any self respect she would leave that house and take Soha with her.

But shes shown as a willing pairon ki jooti who puts up with all his abuses and manhandling 🤢

She even gets intimidated by him and often looks scared when he yells abuses at her

Why are CVs showing Sona as so spineless and fearful of Dev?

This kind of scenes are shown very often in Hindi TV serials nowadays, most of the writers are male I think and they want female viewers to be mentally conditioned into accepting such verbal and physical abuse as the vagaries of Louwe 🤢

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shailu

@rs-shailu29

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

sona should file a case on him for manhandling her and secondly he has no rights on her thirdly love was never there the day dev accused sona of marrying him for money that day itself love died the last breathe ..

cv's are showing nonsense no ex wife will allow her ex to question her or touch her

Edited by rockstar.sj - 8 years ago

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Is this love ? No. This is nonsense.

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mena_k

@mena_k

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

No this is not love, it is true love 😉 😆

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surenkal

@surenkal

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Posted: 8 years ago

#15

No this is not love.

The point is not that he was sleeping with other women and hence has no right to say these things.

The point is how can he profess to love someone when he believes she is the worst kind of person around - characterless, gold digger, cheap, I can't remember what else he called her.

And from her side I don't know how she can continue to feel for a man who abuses her like this, who lies to her, who does not stand up for her, who grabs her.

True love is not like this. Please all the young girls and boys in the forum love is about trust, respect and having different opinions and yet supporting each other. Try being in a relationship where someone says they love you and they they throw these kinds of accusations on you. It will hurt and eat you up and destroy you.

Love job is to make you stronger not weaker. Anytime being in love with someone makes you weak, it is not love.

Edited by surenkal - 8 years ago

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tellyjo

@tellyjo

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Well, the story is not about normal people falling in love. So all our definitions don't apply. It's about two psychos l9ving each other... you see.. so look at it from that perspective ..and everything looks good 😆

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randommusings

@randommusings

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy
I know what ,it is called "abusive lou"
Soha ke samne bhi jara bata deta ke woh uski maa ko characterless bol raha hain. Asha ,elena ko bhi sunna chayee tha.🤢🤢

Asha n Elena wud even then ignore it saying its just husband wife fight coz they r so much in love

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diksha710

@diksha710

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: SummerRain7
If it's a general question then it would depend on the character of the woman in question. If she happens to be a cheater then she deserves to be called as such. But I take it you are talking about our fav couple here.😃
Well, some people have trouble accepting certain realities in life, especially when those realities are not in their favor and make them feel like a loser. So when faced with such realities they often react against those people who they think are responsible for such a situation. The reactions are mostly in the form of verbal or emotional abuse and even physical abuse and hate crimes at its extreme. The intention is mostly to hurt them either emotionally or physically to the point that they actually start feeling guilty or feel regret for having caused any hurt to the said person even if they haven't done so in reality. While a one-off outburst or name calling in anger cannot be termed as abuse, our Dev Bhaiyya here has given us enough repeat performances to convince the viewers that his behavior is nothing but abusive. I don't think that Dev actually believes Sona to be characterless. He is venting his frustration here and doing all this to deliberately hurt humiliate, insult and intimidate with the sole purpose of making her regret her actions. And maybe some part of him actually wants her to deny those allegations and give him the satisfaction that she is still loyal to him and feels answerable to him.
So to answer your question, NO this anything BUT love. This simply the need to possess what one has not rightly earned.

👏👏👏 Could not have agreed more. Though I do not agree with certain things Dev does, I actually can relate to Sona and Dev from a personal point of view. And no I am not one of those people who will tolerate nonsense.

Edited by Dkbansal - 8 years ago

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delena90

@delena90

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: Multifandom_Tee
Is calling the woman you once loved a cheater LOVE?
Is calling the woman you once loved characterless LOVE?
Is calling the woman you once loved someone who traps guys LOVE?

I really want some answers

Nope it's not love. It's abuse and tv shows need to be more responsible with the way they portray romantic love.