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Posted: 8 years ago
#81
I posted this in another thread but thought shall share it here as well s
saw epi288 once more to understand what transpired that day...dev said get out n maami, neha and vikky reiterated the get out ...still sona didnt leave she checked again with Dev but he repeated just go from here...i think in that situation Sona leaving from there is justified totally...
our society is totally ok with seeing a lachhaar woman who stands there crying at the mercy of in laws and for their acceptance but cant stand to see a woman picking up her respect and rising like a phoenix against the odds...

i am not married but living in a joint family and seeing marriage goals around me, i can strongly say that working on a marriage is not just a lady's prerogative, the man in the relationship too is an equal participant. in our country, we always expect the woman to bear with everything just to make things work but if making things work is going torment her emotionally and/or physically then such a relationship is not worth it cos no relationship is worth it if you in that relationship is sidelined...making sacrifices and compromises is one thing but when that becomes a routine and taken for granted then that has to be stopped irrespective of the gender in the relationship.

Knock on wood, all the ladies in my house are no weaklings and neither are the men.the man and the woman in the relationship are equal and we all know to respect each other as individuals and thanks to that we express our likes and dislikes openly and is reciprocated in the right manner. A household should be about harmonious co-existence,
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Posted: 8 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: Tia.0

Yep. I completely agree. Why is he busy working at Saurabh's Haldi? His purpose is Soha. Why doesn't he go and spend time with her? Now he is busy being interior decorator. But the moment he sees Jatin spending time with Soha, he will go and sulk. Seriously?

Forget humanity. Did he once ask how Sonakshi went through pregnancy alone, how she coped being someone with pre-existing difficult medical condition, who took care of her during pregnancy? Not once he asked this questions. These are a question a father asks who wants to know (as he claimed) his daughter's 0-6 years of life. But no. Sonakshi for him, just like she was for Ishwari, a carrier who carried the baby. Whether she had a great pregnancy or almost died or not, who cares?


He has totally lost it. He's acting like he's there for picnic. He has to poke his big nose in every matter, then cry 'Mein yaha beti ke liye hoon'

I really hope sonakshi shouldn't act like bhaiyya at his place. She should mind her own business, and when soha is not aroung, get out of that mad house. She shouldn't try to play ghar ghar there like bhaiyya is doing at her home. It looks ridiculous when you have been invite at that place for a purpose, and except that purpose you are taking part in all other activities uninvited.

Ronita was only hope for me to make sona realize that this weekly trips dont look good after divorce. But she's totally fida on jiju. Hopeless case. Post marriage she'll join Asha and start dev bhakti.

I shouldn't be suprised that people living in ishwari mension are born thankless, otherwise anyone else at dev's place would have felt guilty at least for few minutes, but reaction he gave was 'your house, your rules. My house, my rules'. Someone should tell him that he is not taking sonakshi there to be caged at his house, they are living together to fulfill illicit demand of soha, so when soha is not around, they are free to go anywhere.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#83
Tia...i can do nothing but clap...beautiful summation.
Dev gets away with blue murder with Bijoy but Sona can't even cook something for Dev which she considers healthy during her time at Ishwari's house.

He does all the Martyr act, gets all the sundry shot for his martyrdom, owns up just for the sake of improving his martyrdom image but never stands up for his ...and he is always considered as the martyr.

I salute you for writing about Jatin, yes, if such guys exist in the universe, i too want to know them!!

i guess the whole point of KRPKAB is Dev and Sona getting back together again. Maybe in the eyes of the CVs for Sona's redemption, she needs to kowtow to Dev, forget that she had a friend who was there during all her tough times, forget that her daughter had a father figure whom she adores, forget her own parents and family, the plight they went thru during Sona's tough time, just be a doormat to Dev's wishes...then you will have DevAkshi...

No wonder i can't stomach to watching the serial. I'm just depending on your write up. I really can't take this anymore.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#84
Every person has conscious and conscience. Bijoy has it . From the beginning he is very protective of his daughter. When Dev was a boss / boyfriend/ husband. He rightly asked Dev if only ladies should remain hungry not guys when Sona did that Navrathri fast.

Since Vicky reminded him of Dev's past actions any genuine father will be scared and worried.
Actually more than Dev Bijoy should be angry towards his family for permitting this man to go overboard.

Has Bijoy ever got to see one good face of Dev .. he has dumped and insulted his daughter and her family and any normal father would have by this time showed him his correct place.

Dev never has any guilt or consciousness at all ... in young age since he was deprived of money he was obsessed for it and got it . His mother and himself know only to protect that money because they were in terrible condition. The quest the mother n son had always was for a better living only . She herself made his son a carrier or money bag. These two have only I me myself principle.

Had Bijoy been in the scene where Sona was told Get out ...at least he would have slapped any two to three members of that family.
This is the reason I want Dev and Ishwari to witness the same deeds they did to her on thier own family members... bullying ... cheating and insults .

When ur conscious don't prick you and make you squirm ... you will never know how disgraceful you have been and your actions and words have been .

Dev and Ishwari will never reform or repent till the witness a downfall in thier own kith and kin when that money will not at save anything .
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Posted: 8 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: imnowhere

My tiny brain tries to find at least something to rave about from each episode. Today's episode has put this brain under tremendous pressure. To be frank, I couldn't understand anything. All that is roaming in my head are 'What? Why? How? and When?' So no comments today. I will put my brain at rest and read through your posts.😕😊


Same here. I just went to sleep not giving anything a thought.

The person does not know who to cook...learnt murighonto and then he cooks yummy breakfast and best tea at one go..overnight masterchef...may be cooking is just in his genes. In btwn, I'm surprised why did he put that tea there for Sona to drink? Tea did not become cold?

@Tia -- thanks for the analysis on US embassy. I don't want to comment on super faltoo things.

I think CVs forgot Boses are rich too now. In btwn, why Sourabh went to DevD with his problem and not to Sona or Jatin? Sochte reh jaoge!!

Why is Ronita calling him jiju where as he is calling Asha Aunty? Again Sochte rehna!! As per DevD logic, naam mein kya rakha hai...so right.

I loved jatin...what a guy!! He is the actual Hero.

Loved Sona's outburst to DevD. Even more Bijoy's outburst to DevD. I was very happy seeing DevD get his due...long deserving.

I noticed Sona knows to cook now. I hope CVs remember this and don't show stupid scenes in IN.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#86
I am pretty sure DevD wont introspect or redeem.
So, I'm happy atleast he is getting to suffer what Sona went through in IN.

Sona loved DevD and in IN , outside his bedroom, he gave everyone else right and priority over his own wife.

Now, DevD stays in Boses for Soha. Quite naturally, she is giving more importance to Jatin unknowingly.

The pain you feel when the person bcoz of whom you left your own house does not give importance to you or spend time with you...DevD felt it. Its ok till he gets to feel it...I know he doesnot have the brains to introspect or think about it. So, I'm pretty satisfied with it alone.

Bijoy told truth and only the truth to DevD. He was again the Tulsi of the house. I'm glad Bijoy is not a hypocrite or has double standards. He still remains my favourite.

Can I hate or even dislike him for giving back what is due? Nah.

Golu is super cute.

No comments on Elina.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Let's fast forward the story.Dev's master plan succeeds.Soha comes to Ishwari Niwas.Sona too tags along.He is happy.Ishwari is happy.Now Dev spent his entire day worshipping his mother and pampering Soha.Sometimes he made use of his romantic plot device Sonakshi.



18 years later



24 year old Soha enters the house.DevIsh have tears of happiness in their eyes.Sona is standing in a corner with a smile.



Dev:Suhana!! My child!! Mere jigar ka tukda.



Ishwari:Suhana meri bacchi!! Meri waaris.My marble doll.



Soha:Mom,Dad,Dadi.I wish to introduce you all to someone.I am in love



Dev:Kya????



Ishwari:Kya?? Kab?? Kaise?? Kyun??



Soha:Chill guys!! Pyaar hi toh hua hai mujhe.Anyway meet the love of my life,Shivansh Khurana.Come in Shivansh!!



A 6 feet tall man entered the room.He had a handsome,chiselled face with light brown eyes.He looked no less than a Greek God.



Shivansh:Hello Uncle,Aunty,Granny!! My name is Shivansh.I am here to marry Suhana.We love each other.We have decided to spend the rest of our lives with each other.



Ishwari:Aise kaise tum Suhana se shaadi kar sakte ho??Say something Dev!!



Dev:Hhaan!! Suhana meri beti hai!! Mera ansh hai.Mera khoon hai!! Yeh mera ghar hai.My house.My rules.



Shivansh:Oye uncle!! Thand rakho.Maine kab kahaan ki yeh tumhara ghar nahi hai ya Suhana tumhari beti nahin hai.Mujhe uska pati banna hai bhai.Baap aap hi bane raho.



Ishwari:(Ho Ho Ho Ho Ho ho)



Dev:(looks as if he has been kicked in the ass)



Suhana:Guys I guess we should sit and talk.Then Shivansh can know you all properly and vice versa.



Dev (Chest inflated):So what do you do?? Tumhare parents kya karte hain??



Shivansh:Uncle pehle apni balloon jaisi chaati se hawa nikalo.Phir batata hoon.



Dev:(face looks like stale black currant icecream)



Ishwari:(Ho Ho Ho Ho Ho)



Shivansh:Anyway we have businesses in real estate,hotels and constructions.My grandfather started this business,my father consolidated it and I am taking it to greater heights.



Dev(smirking):Hmph!!! Ameer baap ki bigdi hui aulaad!! Mehnat kya hoti hai,struggle kya hota hai,isko kya pata??



Shivansh:Yup!! I am not a self made man.My father has given me a base.But let me tell you one thing Mr Dixit.Achieving success is difficult but maintaining it is even more difficult.Our family has stood as a unit.Thats why we have been able to maintain this success.

Today we own three bungalows in the Lutyens Bungalow Zone in Delhi which is definitely better than your jhompar patti Ishwari Niwas.



Dev:(getting red like a tomato)



Ishwari:Umm beta kya khaoge?? Maine besan halwa banaya hai.



Shivansh:Butter chicken,butter naan with beer to go.



DevIsh:KYA!!!!!!(Ho Ho Ho Ho remixed version)



Suhana:Of course Dad and Dadi.He is Punjabi.Inke yahaan toh chicken aur Daaru har koi leta hai.



Dev:Suhana!!!! Tum iss ladke se phir kabhi nahi milogi!!! Bhool jaao isse!!!



Shivansh:O Mr Dixit!! Aapki baat sunn kaun raha hai?? This was a mere formality.Waise bhi main Sonakshi Maa se aashirwaad le chuka hoon.Soha told me how her mother raised her all alone.I salute such women.Mere liye inki blessings kaafi hai.Moreover I love Suhana.I will marry her and I dare you to stop me from doing so.



Ishwari:Maine kaha tha na Dev!! Yeh sab Sonakshi ki wajah se hua hai.Kyun laage tum isko waapas??



Dev:SONAKSHI!!! How dare you put your independent,feminist thoughts in my daughter's mind??? How dare you turn a daughter against her own father??Tum jaisi feminist auraton ki yahi problem hai.Na acchi bahu ban paayi,na acchi biwi aur na acchi maa.



Shivansh (walks up to Dev) and faces him.



SLAP!!!



Shivansh:This is for insulting a woman.



SLAP!!!



Shivansh:This is for insulting my future wife's mother.



SLAP!!!



Shivansh:And this is for uttering a word like feminist from your dirty mouth.



Suhana:Dad!! Shivansh is right.This is all your fault.Lets go Shivansh.Mom,you come with us too.



Sonakshi:I am happy for you Soha.You have selected the right guy.


Shivansh:And we are happy that you are happy mom.Lets go.

(Looking at DevIsh)

And you two!! Agar aaj ke baad meri Soha ya meri MIL ke aas paas bhi mandraye toh I swear Gadhe par bitha kar moo kaala karwake Delhi tour karwaunga.


Sonakshi leaves with Soha and Shivansh.



Dev(crying):Maa!!! Hum lut gaye!!! Barbaad hogaye!!



Ishwari:(Ho,Ho,Ho,Ho,Ho,Ho slow version)



Awesome Ashi. 🤣
You really are angry on DevD...two slaps...wow!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

Guari kaha ho tum. Missing a lot of fun


I was so fed up that I went to sleep over it.

Not that it was BP rising epi...but it was so faltoo epi..except Sona-Dev,Bijoy-Dev and Jatin as a whole.

How can you say garbage in a dust bin is smelling like roses? CVs are trying paint DevD saintly in a very irrational way...I'm not able to digest.

I missed a lot of fun here...yeah 😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have reached a level where I feel like ignoring DevD ...feels like its a waste to even watch him onscreen. Sona told him her difficulties in those 7 yrs, and he threatens her. I don't know if I can ever bring myself to like this character.

I'm liking Jatin more. I would prefer to keep my comments on Bijoy,Jatin and the rest.

DevIsh can rest in peace. I wont say a word about them.

TRPs are good so I guess Dev Puran will continue like this only.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: gaurimisha

I have reached a level where I feel like ignoring DevD ...feels like its a waste to even watch him onscreen. Sona told him her difficulties in those 7 yrs, and he threatens her. I don't know if I can ever bring myself to like this character.

I'm liking Jatin more. I would prefer to keep my comments on Bijoy,Jatin and the rest.

DevIsh can rest in peace. I wont say a word about them.

TRPs are good so I guess Dev Puran will continue like this only.


You are totally right...we can keep banging our heads but Dev Puran will go on. TRP is good but I wonder what does the viewers want? Are they supporting Dev's behaviour? Most of the viewers are mothers or grandmothers...are they accepting this kind of treatment towards ladies...???

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