My flawed Devakshi !

sappushivu

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: chucklebuddy
I am not expecting any redemption. I am so not interested in payback and misery. Most importantly, I am not interested in fights and abuses.

I don't want to analyze "what/who was at fault 7 years back/who contributed how much". I don't even remember the fights I had some 2-3 years back. That cannot be undone. If people are nice to you, you return the gesture. I want them to be nice to each other and stop shouting NOW. Being parents of a 6 year old kid and sharing the same roof for her sake, being nice to each other is the least they could do. Where is the maturity that was there 7 years back? I am sick and tired of the so-called tashan. Kaun kal mein jeeta hai? Aaj ka din jiyo!

offcourse you dont remember the fights u hd 2 yrs ago but arnt u talking abt the minor fights we have with friends or families..this isnt the same case ,is it? here r two people who loved one another immensly and dreamt of living their whole life together..so many dreams, hopes and aspirations shattered and the reason, still unknown to both..its practically impossible for two such people to live tog as if nothing ever happened..i know its not fun to watch them fighting all the time..it seriously gives me a migraine..but as far as i know, i dont thnk i can suddenly get along with a person whom i once loved beyond limits and who according to me broke the relationship n left me strnded..nope..the past wld keep coming back to u each time u see one another and talk..and here these two leave no chance of taunting one another..as much as i am tired of it..i thnk its needed to vent out their anger and move the story forward...but yeah fighting over the same thng gets monotonous..i am hoping to see some growth soon,,,

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Shaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Excellent Post

I totally agree both Dev and Sonakshi made mistakes both have faults

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Samra

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: sappushivu
offcourse you dont remember the fights u hd 2 yrs ago but arnt u talking abt the minor fights we have with friends or families..this isnt the same case ,is it? here r two people who loved one another immensly and dreamt of living their whole life together..so many dreams, hopes and aspirations shattered and the reason, still unknown to both..its practically impossible for two such people to live tog as if nothing ever happened..i know its not fun to watch them fighting all the time..it seriously gives me a migraine..but as far as i know, i dont thnk i can suddenly get along with a person whom i once loved beyond limits and who according to me broke the relationship n left me strnded..nope..the past wld keep coming back to u each time u see one another and talk..and here these two leave no chance of taunting one another..as much as i am tired of it..i thnk its needed to vent out their anger and move the story forward...but yeah fighting over the same thng gets monotonous..i am hoping to see some growth soon,,,

Minor fights are forgotten within a day or two. I was not referring to them. There had been worse situations and I am still in talking terms. I just can't be the same old person around them and I cannot completely revive the old equation. Having said this, I will not taunt them and I am mature enough to maintain the distance and ignore and walk away when needed.

Not only in love, people have people backstabbing/badmouthing/failing in fulfilling expectations/failing in returning the respect in friendships and some might even experience it from blood relations (Like what Vicky did to Dev. Dev gave him a solid career but has no clue about the betrayal.). I am not equating these situations to what happened with DeVakshi. Jo bhi hua, bura hua! They made thousands of promises and somewhere, went wrong in keeping them up. But what is the point of bringing up the bad past in every conversation? They should talk it out once and for all like the parents of a 6 year old before deciding to live together under the same roof. Why do they stop with just "Tum"? They should have signed an agreement to not scream/taunt. I saw better co-ordination and maturity in them during their first breakup (Dev ki deewangi was realistic and not OTT, given his situation) and many episodes pre-leap.

I totally understand the baggage they have and the pain it must have been causing them. But is the right way to handle it is by screaming on top of each other? Sometimes, they roll over each other and eye-lock like teenagers. Other times they fight like they are inside the boxing ring. Why isn't there a middle point? I am not saying no to romance but it can wait. If they have intentions of getting back together, then I will happily embrace the tashan/romance/redemption/misery/scream/taunt and them bringing up old issues. They seriously need to attend classes on co-parenting.

Just my POV. I agree with yours.😃 Each one behaves in a different way. There is no right or wrong in this. But with Soha in the frame, I feel that they need to get it together :)

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shruti.

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: sappushivu

haha... thats what most of us want dear ..😭but cv.s ko show chalana hain na..if they unite devakshi now , they wldnt have anythin more to show and waise bhi i don want devakshi to unite unless they learn to understrand and respect one another as you said..till then let them keep fighting...and also unless they decide on what to do with this ishwari mata..until she changes ,these two cannot lead a peaceful life ! tab tak we can jus sit n watch world war 3 ..i am jus imagining the situation once they move to dixit house..the real fight will begin then.this seems just like a trailer :D

Exactly. I too don't want reunion now.bt its torture for crazy DevAkshi fan like me..waiting for d day dev grows up.becoz m its d most important step.

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dhank

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Posted: 8 years ago

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exactly both r @ fault bashing 1 n glorifying other as perfect is wrong

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Posted: 8 years ago

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Minor fights are forgotten within a day or two. I was not referring to them. There had been worse situations and I am still in talking terms. I just can't be the same old person around them and I cannot completely revive the old equation. Having said this, I will not taunt them and I am mature enough to maintain the distance and ignore and walk away when needed.

Not only in love, people have people backstabbing/badmouthing/failing in fulfilling expectations/failing in returning the respect in friendships and some might even experience it from blood relations (Like what Vicky did to Dev. Dev gave him a solid career but has no clue about the betrayal.). I am not equating these situations to what happened with DeVakshi. Jo bhi hua, bura hua! They made thousands of promises and somewhere, went wrong in keeping them up. But what is the point of bringing up the bad past in every conversation? They should talk it out once and for all like the parents of a 6 year old before deciding to live together under the same roof. Why do they stop with just "Tum"? They should have signed an agreement to not scream/taunt. I saw better co-ordination and maturity in them during their first breakup (Dev ki deewangi was realistic and not OTT, given his situation) and many episodes pre-leap.

I totally understand the baggage they have and the pain it must have been causing them. But is the right way to handle it is by screaming on top of each other? Sometimes, they roll over each other and eye-lock like teenagers. Other times they fight like they are inside the boxing ring. Why isn't there a middle point? I am not saying no to romance but it can wait. If they have intentions of getting back together, then I will happily embrace the tashan/romance/redemption/misery/scream/taunt and them bringing up old issues. They seriously need to attend classes on co-parenting.

Just my POV. I agree with yours.😃 Each one behaves in a different way. There is no right or wrong in this. But with Soha in the frame, I feel that they need to get it together :)

BOLD: totally agree !! jus like you said u can still talk to people u had messy fights with , i personally cannot..i might end up arguing again😆 so i wld prefer to totally ignore them..so yeah there is no right or wrong..its upon each individual...but another point i wld like to bring is that unlike us and our arguments, these two did not separate coz they no longer loved one another..so the love is still intact somewhere deep down..beneath all the hatred and anger n dissapointments...thats exactly the reason they somehow do not totally want to ignore one another..they seek each others attention , be it for arguing but they do ..coz they just cannot ignore one another...i guess if it was someone they genuinly hated, they wldnt impact each others lives as much as they r doing now..the occasional eye locks and roll overs happen wen there facade drops for a milli second and they cannot control their real emotions but they are quick to wear ir back on and they argue and shout to make sure their real emotions arnt visible to one another at all ...but amidst all this we audience have to suffer..with this one sec love and 48 hrs arguments saga 😕

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