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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: agreatperhaps
Hey.
The comparison itself is flawed in my opinion. The reason why Sonakshi walked out was because she was harassed so much in that house.
Second, she was the daughter in law of the family who did not give two hoots about her. Ishwari had gone on to say that the Bose family had extracted money from Dev and Dev had slapped Bijoy. If Sonakshi would have stayed, it would have taken away her self respect and all the ideals she stood for. The people in that house were supposed to be her family and if her family doesn't want her to be there, why should she be there. Third, true even Dev has been accused in this situation, but perhaps we cannot say anything because he did not try to defend himself. He let himself be called a thief. In Sonakshi's case, she was baselessly accused for standing up for her family. When Dev cannot hear anything against his mother, he doesn't have any right to shout at Bijoy. The things Dev said, I would have kicked him out.

These to situations are completely different. In the latter, Dev andSonakshi are not married. He is not a member of the family. He is there for very different reasons.

Do u really think that she is harassed there or dev slapped his father that's why she left...no she left because dev said to her left and also because of misunderstanding created by Vicky or gkb by bringing prenup and throwing her family

What soankshi most of time felt there because of ish or gkb in his absence... Is soankshi ever think to share it with dev ?and today dev only know half truth of his Mother then it's also mistake of soankshi too to not share anything with him

Dev only know about Ish is that she doesn't like sonakshi and about prenup but what happened in his back or what she used to say to soankshi dev even don't know about it

Yes they r not married now but that doesn't mean they have nothing any relationship left between them and it's not about relation

It's more about to give importance or priority to thier relationship that time

Btw, on u have different POV and I have other so maybe we can't agree on anything

Edited by rahulvats12 - 8 years ago

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: diyah_us
there is no comparison between dev staying back when sona asked her to leave
and sona leaving him when he asked her to. in devs case he is there just for soha
& he cares a damn for sona as he himself says so he wont bother about what sona says
as long as soha doesnt ask him to get out.

but in sonas case she was there due to her marriage with dev so dev himself asked
her to get out not just once but he had kicked her out of his life even before marriage
then what is sona expected to do?? oh ya the person u love the most keep asking you
to stay out of his life but then u should still be in his life in his house so that he can take
all ur frustrations on u 😡 then of course u r a good woman👏 bravo

i loved bijoys dialogues that those people who r like rats in their houses become tigers in
others houses. dev is such a rat. no damn person in his house cares for him so he is
a frustrated person & when u r frustrated u always take frustrations on good people.

i dont understand why cant dev just spend time with soha as he repeatedly says he is there
for her. why should he try to protect the boses against ronitas mom or save ronita saurav
relationship. let ronitas mom talk shit about sona. why does he care???🤢 let him just
mind his own business & njoy the problems in boses house & laugh at them. in fact why does
he become a hero by taking the blame that he stole the jewelery. people like him should
join hands in ronitas mom to ruin boses that way he can take soha away from boses
& take her to his hell abode. and then all dixits can rot in rotten mansion😆

It's not about giving or thinking about their relationship and that's what sonakshi never did...ab asha bhi use samjha nhi payi toh koi nhi samjha paayega it's good that makers r showing other POV too 👏

Yaa u r right dev didn't need to help Saurabh and Bose 😆

Acha hota agar raunita ki mom jab chahye Bose ko bewkoof bnate rhti hamesha or bose bewkoofo ki tarah unki baat mante rhte 😆

Wo dikh rha tha ki bijoy kitna good people h ab 😆

Btw, it's ur POV and that's my POV

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Cutiepie.sona
Very good post Rahul👏
Sona too was equally at fault for the failure of their marriage...
And I'm glad that the makers are highlighting her flaws too!😉😛

Yes that's good Makers r trying to show both pov and their reason to be angry on each other

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randomramblings

@randomramblings

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

#24

I really don't understand why people here want to defend sona saying she put up a lot with dev not standing up for her. Only one straight question didn't dev always say that his mother comes first in his life. He even proved it during the first breakup and the idiot that sona is she walked into all of it with her eyes open. Mist importantly she accepted to come in second in the priority list without even lifting an eyelid!

When she already knew that she always comes in second should she have focussed her energies in winning over dev instead of his family I don't understand what is the advantage of entire family pinning for u when ur own spouse doesn't really care a damn abt u when pitted against his momthere is a wonderful post family matters on the same forum that makes sense

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Lovely post Rahul...this is something that Dev was telling her from the Day 1...remember the time when he stood waiting for her for nearly 2 hours in the rain...even on that day he said...when there is problem don't just walk out lets us discuss and sort it out ...

From Sonakshi's POV ..he asked her to get out of his life...its that statement which hurt her the most...this is something she had told him that what ever problems are there we will sort it out but you need to be there with me...

Even when her leg got hurt during the Diwali time ...while he was feeding her food next morning she said...I don't want you to be the knight in shining amour...I will fight the battles but you just be there next to me ...feeding me like this...

Honestly this is the essence of marriage...during a fight among couples don't ask your spouse to get out of the house or relationship...and no one should walk out of a relationship because of a problem...
that is IF YOU THINK YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS IMPORTANT.

A very simple thought ...( I AM SURE I AM GOING TO GET BASHED FOR THIS) when he said you get out of the house...if she responded..."why should I get out ...from the day I married you this house belongs to me...so how can you ask me to go out...if you have no value for our relationship...you can walk out ...but I do value our relationship and I am going to stay here whether you like it or not .

Do you think she can be thrown out ?? Even legally she cant be thrown out ...in fact GKB and Vicky can be thrown if she goes the legal way ...because they were husband wife then.

But she didn't ...because she had not completely accepted IN as hers ..she always felt alienated there ..the only person that she thought was hers was Dev...nothing else in that house was hers...and when that person asked her to get out...her ego was hurt because all she wanted was just him and his support...

So that's that...let us see how they are going to take this story further...

PS : One thing I don't understand is Dev's attitude to his mom . I thought he had a rebellious approach to his mom ...but now its taken a U turn...that is one thing which is very confusing ...cant understand why...if the CV team had kept that in place everything would have been fine...I mean he needn't accept it in front of every one...but they should have shown the indifference .

Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago

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luckyvicky2801

@luckyvicky2801

Beginner

Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Good post. Actually you have highlighted a good point which all the Dev bashers shld understand why Dev is angry on Sonakshi.

The parallel track played yesterday actually answers that question all the fandom had that Sona moved out of his life when he asked her to get out but Dev did not as he gives utmost importance to relationship and maintains them.

Loved yesterday's episode as it cleared most of the doubts.

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AnanyaGhosh

@AnanyaGhosh

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Pta nhi rahul aise socha nhi.. Dev ka get out and sona ka.. Haa.. Sona chali gyi thi and dev nhi gya due to soha.. Par sona k liye uski shaadi imp thi..

I actually dont have any ans to ur post.. As mujhe samajh nhi aa rha hai kaise likhu... All i can say is ur pov is good.. Par mujhe nhi lagta yeh koi parallel scene hai.. Yeh mera pov hai.. I respect urs too...

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Lovely post Rahul...this is something that Dev was telling her from the Day 1...remember the time when he stood waiting for her for nearly 2 hours in the rain...even on that day he said...when there is problem don't just walk out lets us discuss and sort it out ...

From Sonakshi's POV ..he asked her to get out of his life...its that statement which hurt her the most...this is something she had told him that what ever problems are there we will sort it out but you need to be there with me...

Even when her leg got hurt during the Diwali time ...while he was feeding her food next morning she said...I don't want you to be the knight in shining amour...I will fight the battles but you just be there next to me ...feeding me like this...

Honestly this is the essence of marriage...during a fight among couples don't ask your spouse to get out of the house or relationship...and no one should walk out of a relationship because of a problem...
that is IF YOU THINK YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS IMPORTANT.

A very simple thought ...( I AM SURE I AM GOING TO GET BASHED FOR THIS) when he said you get out of the house...if she responded..."why should I get out ...from the day I married you this house belongs to me...so how can you ask me to go out...if you have no value for our relationship...you can walk out ...but I do value our relationship and I am going to stay here whether you like it or not .

Do you think she can be thrown out ?? Even legally she cant be thrown out ...in fact GKB and Vicky can be thrown if she goes the legal way ...because they were husband wife then.

But she didn't ...because she had not completely accepted IN as hers ..she always felt alienated there ..the only person that she thought was hers was Dev...nothing else in that house was hers...and when that person asked her to get out...her ego was hurt because all she wanted was just him and his support...

So that's that...let us see how they are going to take this story further...

PS : One thing I don't understand is Dev's attitude to his mom . I thought he had a rebellious approach to his mom ...but now its taken a U turn...that is one thing which is very confusing ...cant understand why...if the CV team had kept that in place everything would have been fine...I mean he needn't accept it in front of every one...but they should have shown the indifference .

Yaa agree with u and about dev towards ish maybe he was getting irritated because sonakshi always Bring his family between them as he think more than Ish, they r more responsible for their fail marriage also I think dev doesn't know whole truth of Ish Because he only knows that ish doesn't like her or she is behind prenup but it doesn't mean only because of that they got separated as there r many other issues too which created difference between them also don't know why soankshi never shared with dev that what happened or what they used to said her in dev's absence

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Enlightened21

@Enlightened21

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld
Lovely post Rahul...this is something that Dev was telling her from the Day 1...remember the time when he stood waiting for her for nearly 2 hours in the rain...even on that day he said...when there is problem don't just walk out lets us discuss and sort it out ...

From Sonakshi's POV ..he asked her to get out of his life...its that statement which hurt her the most...this is something she had told him that what ever problems are there we will sort it out but you need to be there with me...

Even when her leg got hurt during the Diwali time ...while he was feeding her food next morning she said...I don't want you to be the knight in shining amour...I will fight the battles but you just be there next to me ...feeding me like this...

Honestly this is the essence of marriage...during a fight among couples don't ask your spouse to get out of the house or relationship...and no one should walk out of a relationship because of a problem...
that is IF YOU THINK YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS IMPORTANT.

A very simple thought ...( I AM SURE I AM GOING TO GET BASHED FOR THIS) when he said you get out of the house...if she responded..."why should I get out ...from the day I married you this house belongs to me...so how can you ask me to go out...if you have no value for our relationship...you can walk out ...but I do value our relationship and I am going to stay here whether you like it or not .

Do you think she can be thrown out ?? Even legally she cant be thrown out ...in fact GKB and Vicky can be thrown if she goes the legal way ...because they were husband wife then.

But she didn't ...because she had not completely accepted IN as hers ..she always felt alienated there ..the only person that she thought was hers was Dev...nothing else in that house was hers...and when that person asked her to get out...her ego was hurt because all she wanted was just him and his support...

So that's that...let us see how they are going to take this story further...

PS : One thing I don't understand is Dev's attitude to his mom . I thought he had a rebellious approach to his mom ...but now its taken a U turn...that is one thing which is very confusing ...cant understand why...if the CV team had kept that in place everything would have been fine...I mean he needn't accept it in front of every one...but they should have shown the indifference .

Bolded - Ashwathy, you said it...During the first break-up, she even tried to question him...But, the second time, when she had the complete authority & right to question him and shut him up, she left, just like that...She didn't even think that how shutting him off for the previous 3-4days after the slapgate incident would have forced him to use those words. Thanks to some threads in the forum, were it was pointed out that, Dev's get out was not just because of hurting his mother; his get out was more of the like, "If you can't trust me & believe me and can shut me off all these days, then better you leave. And still at the farmhouse, Dev again gave her the option to have their own life. But, unfortunately, in both these instances, Sona was carried away by her pride & ego, that she made her weak enough to fall in Vicky's trap. And that's the reason, why Dev can't forgive Sona. He would have even come to know that Vicky was behind all these. But, when Sona, whom he believed had understood him fully, left him without looking back, then nothing else matters to him. Now that Soha has come into picture, let's see how things are going to turn out between Dev & Vicky, if the latter tries any foul play.

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Kamala

@Kamala05

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 8 years ago

#30

If makers are showing similar scene just to make Sonakshi realize that she did wrong by leaving her husband's home when he shouted her to leave , then the Cv's are doing a pathetic job.Because the scenario is different , Dev stayed back for his own daughter ,he wanted to prove that he is a good father and will tolerate all insult for his daughter , but with Sonakshi the case was different , the person who was supposed to support her asked her to leave , and that incident was just the immediate cause , even before that incident there were several events which could have resulted in separation. Moreover , in Bose house the female head of the family constantly supports Dev whereas in Ishwari nivas no one was there to support Sonakshi , it was like sonakshi one side and all other members on other side.

Edited by Kamala05 - 8 years ago

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