Originally posted by: astrix90
Thats an interesting way to look at things. Dev is the kind of person who would never walk out on relationships come what may. He is more of a doormat that way if I may say so. Which explains why he never could walk out on his mom despite everything. Or ask GKB and his family to leave. I mean the guy knows his mom screwed up his life. He knows Vicky is a loser yet he has never really asked them to leave the house/ his company. Unfortunately, this can also be toxic and encourage people to screw you more. He had the same expectation from Sona. That come what may, she shouldn't give up or leave. And Sonakshi by then was so tired of fighting that she really dint give him an opportunity to speak or clear whatever misunderstandings they had. I mentioned it eariler. If Dev was a girl, he would have been one of those SP bahus who would bear all the taunts and never give up even if the hubby is abusive. The only time where he protests is when his mom is involved 😆 He had the same unreasonable expectation from Sonakshi. Sonakshi on the other hand, thanks to her own fears and Asha's inteferencec never voiced out any of her issues to Dev. And though she loved Dev, she could never really get herself to trust him post their first break-up (the newspaper fiasco, prenup, eviction and the theft incident for instance). So it all blew up one fine day. Am still okay with this so long as they reduce the drama and show something logical and mature for a change. Dev and Sonakshi act like those fish market/chawl wale aunties when they fight these days. Show some maturity ppl 😆
@bold - lol😆
You have pin-pointed it really well! Dev is not someone who who ever walk out, look at Soha's situation. This man is being asked to get out everyday, being mocked and he is not ready to move! Someone may call him shameless, but he is very firm to whatever relationship he holds on to. Having similar expectations with Sonakshi was unreasonable though.
Also, like you said Sonakshi always had trust issues after the breakup and more because she thought Dev's thought process is controlled by Ishwari directly.
Originally posted by: Sharica
Its a perfect post...
You have beautifully explained what Dev and Sona expected and what they got..
Their anger, hatred of breaking that one promises they made is killing them every day...and when they see that he or she is not getting impacted by their words, they get more annoyed..
At the moment they both can only help themselves...they both need each other very badky as they can only sort their issues and they need to speak up...
That confrontation is not near...tday they will make peace for Soha..
Real test will start in IN...
Thanks a lot😳
Yes, as expected they just kept their past aside for now.
Originally posted by: krish8090
yeh post hai ya positivity hai,
yeh post hai ya poem hai,
jo bhi hai yeh khuda ki kasam lajawaab hai
saumiee, ur thinking is second to none, ur lines r parallel to the bestest.
all the best.
Aww thank you so much! I am elated reading this😳😳
Really tysm😃
Originally posted by: shruti.
Partially agree to u dear.becoz dev supported sona bt when it went to his mother he took back seat.like vikky's job,calling asha asha as aunty, forcing sona for infertility treatment .sona even shared wid him tht she feels like an outsider etc and dev tried to sort out dis problem also bt again took back seat becoz of his mother.
Thts d reason sona always says he only understand his mother's words.and worships her.
Aftr painful break up hving experience of ishwari's dislike towards and what dev could do for his mother,sona rushed for marriage.Ishwari and bijoy were right sona rushed for marriage.i know ishwari went begging to sona for dev,still her line was correct. Sona should hv given time to her relation wid dev and ishwari.
I feel dis where sona went in wrong.jus my POV.
I understand what you are saying dear and I also agree Dev has made some big mistakes in the past but the truth remains he never intended to prioritize or choose between Sonakshi and Ish. Unfortunately he had to and always chose Ish. In all the incidences you mentioned, Dev always valued Sonakshi's opinions like he did give job to Vicky because Sona asked him to otherwise he did not want to do it, He impulsively promised Aunty thing to Ish, corrected his mistake later..so yes He failed but he always tried.
About sona not feeling at home, I think Dev never could see what importance the little things held for Sona..he looked at it from material point of view but it was v v important for Sona.
I absolutely agree, they rushed for marriage. There won't be so many problems if they had given some more time to understand the problems.
Originally posted by: -Tom-Jerry-
Saumiee...You always amaze me with your beautiful posts...your brilliant analysis 👏
As many people have rightly said before, you are too mature for your age! Hats off to your beautiful way of thinking and your mature outlook towards life... which is what makes you analyse these situations so beautifully 👍🏼
Regarding your post, cant agree more with everything that you have quoted. Dev and Sona had very different expectations from each other & their relationship and they were both hurt that the other person did not live upto their expectation. All they need to do is to talk their heart out to each other and express themselves and I believe that Asha has taken the right first step towards that as shown in the precap.
Shreya 😊
Thank you so so much Shreya🤗
Can't express how much these comments mean to me😊 glad that Asha took everything under her direct control today..
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