Originally posted by: nabni
Hello Tia n everyone,
I am Nabni, a silent reader of ur daily posts. Like u guys,even i am not in the favour of Devakshi reunion. I just cant stand with Dev's behaviour. But i wanna share a real story with u all. Its about my sister.
V r 3 sisters n one brother. My elder sis had a love cum arranged marriage with a bengali guy.(my jiju who was her classmate in MBA college).Though it was an inter caste marriage,my parents never had any probs. They both were well settled in careers. Life was smooth for them n they were blessed with a son. But after my nephew was born,my sis got busy with d kid n job. During that period my BIL had an affair with the HR of his company. My sis never had any clue of this ,till one day one of her friend of my jiju's company told her. instead of staying in the same house she was totally clueless about my jiju's activities( like his foreign trips,long hour client calls n all).But after that she started questioning him. As a result house was become a war zone with never ending arguments.one day my BIL left home leaving my sis n his 3 yrs old son.
I was staying in a hostel at that time. So i used to visit my sis place every weekend. My sis never told me anything about it. But one day i realized jiju had taken all his things including his documents,his car n all. so i asked my sis n she broke down infront of me.
That was a horrible time for both of us,as v decided not to tell to our parents. But i will never forget those days seeing my sis going thr mental as well as financial probs.She used to make charts of her n my nephew's daily expenses,calculating each penny of her salary,coz my jiju had stopped giving her money. 3-4 months later Jiju filed for divorce with immediate effect.He also gave all the stupid reasons like my sis was behind his money,never respect his parents,characterless n blah blah... But he never said anything wrong about my family members in his petition.
So my sister had to reply back as fighting against him,also hired a lawyer. As she was not prepared for this mentally n financially,thought of taking our parents help. so we called our parents n told them everything. As expected they got upset,but they tried to find a middle path. They called my sister's in-laws also,but they cut the call saying these 2 r grown up kids n they dont wanna interfere in this matter. My parents felt really bad,coz till then v had maintain a very good relationship with them.
Luckily my parents supported my sis n said we will also fight. As my jiju wanted to get rid of all this n wanted to close the divorce procedure as soon as poss,he started harassing my sis like he will take my nephew n all. but my sis lawyer was very cool n big support for us. she said we will stretch this case aaram se as long as we want(coz v didnt want divorce so soon). so this court drama continued for one n half years. In between my jiju stopped all kind of financial support even though the court had ordered him to pay for my nephew.
I remember how my sis used to bunk her office to go to family court n sat alone there for hours n hours. In between my sis got a better job,my 2nd had a baby n me also got a job. But after some time everything got changed. Suddenly what happened to my Jiju i dont know(may be his GF dumped him or god knows)he withdrew the case. and also he wanted back to his family. He called my sis n had an discussion for a whole day. I dont know what they discussed,but after that my sis thought of giving her marriage a second chance. I know main reason was my nephew who was verymuch effected during that period.
My sis had discussed with everyone(starting from my parents,to my sis,her friends ,colleagues).They all had suggested her to give her marriage a 2nd chance just for the kid. So my sis took d decision to go back to jiju. Now they hv been staying together for last 4 years. looks like they r quite happy with each others or they hv made compromised to be happy for my nephew. I really dont know.
You know the funniest part is my parents hv accepted him whole heartily. and he is once again verymuch welcome in our house. even he came to my brother's marriage n mingled with everyone like he used to do it before. also my parents never told that divorce thing to anyone in our family. So everyone was so happy to see him at the functions. Now he is just like a family member to us.
That's why when ever i watch KRPKAB these days,( dev's interference in sona's bro's marriage)all my emotions came out. I think even my mom must have told my sis the same thing what Asha told to Sona that day.
You know the funniest thing is in all these i feel like one odd member out type. Coz i knew my jiju before his marriage. as he is the only child he treats me like his kid sis. I was very close to him. But after that incident i hv maintained a balanced with him,though he is trying hard to break the ice. i got scolded from my mom, 2nd sis to change my behaviour towards him. They told me that in life v hv to compromise alot for our family happiness. But unfortunately it hasnt yet got into my head,or may be i am too stubborn
That's why i like ur posts,ur thought process(which matches to mine).It feels great to see somany people out here who think exactly like me.
Sorry for the long post. But after watching last few episodes,i couldnt control myself to write it down. coz the same things had already happened in my house.
Sorry for all the spelling mistakes n grammatical mistakes. as this is a very sensitive topic for me,i just couldnt control myself.
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