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Posted: 8 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Asha wants Dev and Sonakshi to understand their mistakes that lead to the failure of their marriage.
You might wonder what is the use of them realizing their mistakes...I would stand by Asha...because Soha needs both parents...as husband and wife we will have diff of opinion while raising a child...now imagine these two ppl who are separated bringing up their child...this is just the beginning ...and there is a long way to parenting Soha...With relatives like Ishwari /GKB/Vicky/Bijoy ...Sonakshi and Dev's life could end up even worse in future...so its best that they realize the mistakes and their own flaws that lead to the break up...so that they don't repeat them in future to avoid Soha getting hurt...

If they have to be parents to Soha then the trust and acceptance should come ...they should clear their misunderstandings...or else again they will allow someone else to decide for them and they will loose Soha.

And she never asked her daughter to reconcile...all she did was gave an insight to her experience as woman...and told her that DEV IS HERE FOR HIS DAUGHTER...her stressing on this statement in itself says that she wants Sonakshi to understand that DEV IS NOT HERE FOR SONAKHI...and that she should concentrate on being a mom first and do what is best for her daughter...

I believe Asha was practical. She felt Sonakshi was falling again and hence just got her out of her trance with that statement..


Yes..asha wants her daughter understand and same gyaan why cannot she give it to Dev??

Here cvs are hypocrites. They want sona to confess her mistake and go back to that unrespectful life. They don't want to redeem Dev or eshwari. At the end it is only wife and dil duty to adjust. Mamta being a lady how she can justify those creepy action. This is the first serial which is encouraging girls to adjust and understand all the creepy actions.

Now perfect stage created for sona doormat 2. Now asha advice sona for soha sake adjust. Also new policy no other member on family visit each other house. IN stage set to double torture sona. So ladies get ready for all the torture.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12
Every marriage has pitfalls, and every marriage requires compromises and letting go of one's ego. I loved how Asha explained to Sona that being a great father and being a great husband are two very different things and yes even though she is happy now doesn't mean her marriage was always a happy one. It isn't difficult to see, I feel bad for Asha all the time. Her husband is always always trying to impose on what everyone should do, gets angry so quickly, is nosy and is always insulting Sourabh...he really doesn't see his two kids as equals. Anyways, I loved Asha and I do hope that Sona understands that marriages aren't perfect unless lot of work is put into it.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

She is the typical Mother who looks for convenience over difficulties/struggle. Fortunately she has raised her kids in a way that they dont need dependency on others to remain happy. Both Sona and Saurabh were shown as perfectly happy and healthy kids in S1. However, her words deflect something else. I call that hypocrisy, however, it's women like her that even today daughters are taught to adjust forever without ANY adjustment from the other party at their in-laws.

It takes a major blow like beaten black and blue or becoming depression patients for them to have the WAKE-UP call, till then they keep advising the daughters to accommodate and adjust. 👎🏼


Perfect description of asha, Brides get burnt bcoz of mothers like Asha who keep on advising their daughters to adjust. Aisi maan hee , beti ko bojh samajhti hai aur bete ko asset.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: mena_k

I have a different opinion, Asha wants Sona to accept that it was her fault only that her marriage did not work. she wants Sona to go back to her ex-house to live their forever.

I think yes. Also she may have certain resentment against Bijoy too. Now she got a chance to vent..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Asha is a sensible mother
And like evry mother she too wants her kids to follow the right path and wants them to realise their mistakes
Yes she made Sona to think about the complex relationship & the problems that come thru with it...but that doesn't mean that she is forcing something on her.
All she wanted was that Sona should look to the problem from all the sides...and there is not always one person fault...and though it's not easy to deal with relationships but if someone wishes for it they can make evrything possible
I wish Sona looks into her perspective not because that She wants to get back to Dev but because of understanding his view point and not blaming him for his every action

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Asha is typical Indian middle aged mother... Doesn't want her daughter to b alone and granddaughter should get both mom and dads love, affection...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17
I think the reason why Asha is given such dialogues is because of the fact that the matter is not just between Devakshi but there is Soha involved as well. She might be hinting towards maintaining a proper Co parenting relationship for the Sake of Soha. Because children do get affected of such things.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am not supporting Asha but she has been the one who has remained relatively calm with everything that has happened.
She just wishes they get back together and realise their mistakes. She knows that both Sona and Dev have to adjust and change for this marriage to work. She wishes well for both of them whereas Ishwari and Bijoy only care about their respective children.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

Not sure, specially after today's episode when after lamenting for whole 250+ episodes about 'Why Bijoy and Maa are so good to me? I dont find any difficult plot for my story boohoo', all of a sudden she is like I had to adjust a lot 🤣

Anything to justify the disgusting couple Dev and Ishwari 😆

So funny isnt it? Do the CVs bhulakkad or do they think us ?
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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
Asha tells Sona about Bijoy being short tempered right from the beginning of their married life and that she put up with it stoically. But what she didn't say was that she had a gem of a mother in law to help her cope up with a bad tempered husband. For Sona it was putting up with a unsupportive husband as wall as a highly suspicious and an insecure mother in law. This is Asha 's hypocrisy

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