Tia's Thread - Jungle mein Dangal!!! - Page 9

Originally posted by: mily_mathew

As usual amazing post Tia. Dev and ish still delusional. Krpkab is the only show where the leads itself share the feelings of the vamps. Kitne conveniently sona ke reasons ko ignore Kia.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

He definitely hasn't.Infact I feel that he has gone even more backward

Originally posted by: areeba_blossom

Overall highlight for me was when Ishwari's illuion bubble witnessed the second crack in it. She herself witnessed it was cherry on top although I don't think she heard about snake and endangering Golu's life.

All i want is for ex-GKB and her good for nothing son's actions to be out in the front.

Originally posted by: tia.o

Me: And guess what Sona? You will never get those rights. Because how would you believe that he wants you for you or to get access to his daughter? Just like you didn't know last time if he agreed to come back to you because his mother permitted or he would have come back to you because you are as necessary for him as breathing? Got your answer? Exactly.

that is why dev is a tragic character in my eyes...of course he went back to her because she was as necessary for him as breathing but the entire situation was such that it seemed dev went to her because his mom permitted...similarly of course he loves and wants her which is the reason why he broke his laptop in severe anger and frustration by the mere thot of jatin as her potential groom...however things may turn out in the manner that it will seem he will win her to get access to his daughter...

i dont want to go into that dev himself is responsible for such scenarios...it is just that these r the scenarios and dev is the victim of these...

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

I wish to share something which I had posted in another thread yesterday.

I saw a promo of a new show on YT.The ML was saying a shlok which describes the virtues of a good housewife.And I did a bit of surfing on Google and came across an article.That shlok is from the Tulsi Ramayana.

Here is an excerpt from that article--

Meaning of 'Karyeshu Dasi, Karaneshu Manthri; Bhojeshu Mata, Shayaneshu Rambha, Roopeshu lakshmi, Kshamayeshu Dharitri, Shat dharmayukta, Kuladharma Pathni'.

1) Karyeshu Dasi: works like a servant

2) Karaneshu Mantri : advises like a minister

3) Bhojeshu Mata: feeds like a mother

4) Shayaneshu Ramba : Pleases in bed like the heavenly beauty Rambha

5) Roopeshu Lakshmi : Beautiful like Goddess Lakshmi

6) Kshmayeshu Dharitri : Having patience like Earth

7) Shat dharma yuktah: woman who has this six virtues

8) Kula dharma Patni : good housewife (a married woman who is not employed outside the home)

In short, a good housewife should

• Be like a servant in doing the chores of the House
• give intelligent advice like a minister to her husband
• serve food to the husband as lovingly as a mother feeds her son
• like a courtesan in the Bedroom
• Beautiful like Maha Lakshmi and
• Have the forbearance of Mother Earth

As per the last line of the shloka, a woman should have all the above said qualities to be an ideal house wife. It also means that the absence of even one quality makes a woman a failure as a good wife. Anyone hearing these verses on Patni dharma (virtues of wife) would know that it is from a man. As per the writer, being a wife is like a round the clock service to the family. This age old concept of how the wife should be has entered the mind set of even modern men and woman because of such a shloka. I might be ignorant here but I don't think the writer thought of writing about 6 Noble virtues of an Ideal Husband necessary. Correct me if I am wrong. Is there a similar verse describing thequalities of an ideal husband? I doubt! However, the Hindu Dharma also has references about husband and wife relationship assaha dharma chariNam' which means sharing of dharma equally. It is also said that the results or fruits of the chores would be shared equally. As per Manu,where women are honored, the Gods are pleased; where they are not honored, all work becomes fruitless'

Credit goes to the writer.

My Views

That entire article is very thoughtful and well written.Actually I found myself agreeing with the writer.

Many things are expected of a woman.She should be the ideal daughter,wife,mom and homemaker.And she is expected to excel in those jobs.She cannot afford to make any mistake.Just one small mistake and all her good deeds will be forgotten.

I am not saying that everybody thinks the same but some people do have this mentality.She is expected to be a superhuman.

And why should a woman remain confined to her house?? Its a preconceived notion that working women cannot manage their homes properly.Why is it so??

A working woman can balance her family and her work properly.Yes she will falter at times because at the end of the day she is a human being too.But she will complete her all her duties and remain faithful to them.In return she deserves her independence and respect.

No offence meant to anyone's religious sentiments but personally I have found the Tulsidas Ramayana to be quite misogynistic.Some verses like the above one and another one which says that a woman's place is at her husband's feet is really demeaning.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

I wish to share something which I had posted in another thread yesterday.

I saw a promo of a new show on YT.The ML was saying a shlok which describes the virtues of a good housewife.And I did a bit of surfing on Google and came across an article.That shlok is from the Tulsi Ramayana.

Here is an excerpt from that article--

Meaning of 'Karyeshu Dasi, Karaneshu Manthri; Bhojeshu Mata, Shayaneshu Rambha, Roopeshu lakshmi, Kshamayeshu Dharitri, Shat dharmayukta, Kuladharma Pathni'.

1) Karyeshu Dasi: works like a servant

2) Karaneshu Mantri : advises like a minister

3) Bhojeshu Mata: feeds like a mother

4) Shayaneshu Ramba : Pleases in bed like the heavenly beauty Rambha

5) Roopeshu Lakshmi : Beautiful like Goddess Lakshmi

6) Kshmayeshu Dharitri : Having patience like Earth

7) Shat dharma yuktah: woman who has this six virtues

8) Kula dharma Patni : good housewife (a married woman who is not employed outside the home)

In short, a good housewife should

• Be like a servant in doing the chores of the House
• give intelligent advice like a minister to her husband
• serve food to the husband as lovingly as a mother feeds her son
• like a courtesan in the Bedroom
• Beautiful like Maha Lakshmi and
• Have the forbearance of Mother Earth

As per the last line of the shloka, a woman should have all the above said qualities to be an ideal house wife. It also means that the absence of even one quality makes a woman a failure as a good wife. Anyone hearing these verses on Patni dharma (virtues of wife) would know that it is from a man. As per the writer, being a wife is like a round the clock service to the family. This age old concept of how the wife should be has entered the mind set of even modern men and woman because of such a shloka. I might be ignorant here but I don't think the writer thought of writing about 6 Noble virtues of an Ideal Husband necessary. Correct me if I am wrong. Is there a similar verse describing the qualities of an ideal husband? I doubt! However, the Hindu Dharma also has references about husband and wife relationship as saha dharma chariNam' which means sharing of dharma equally. It is also said that the results or fruits of the chores would be shared equally. As per Manu, where women are honored, the Gods are pleased; where they are not honored, all work becomes fruitless'

Credit goes to the writer.

My Views

That entire article is very thoughtful and well written.Actually I found myself agreeing with the writer.

Many things are expected of a woman.She should be the ideal daughter,wife,mom and homemaker.And she is expected to excel in those jobs.She cannot afford to make any mistake.Just one small mistake and all her good deeds will be forgotten.

I am not saying that everybody thinks the same but some people do have this mentality.She is expected to be a superhuman.

And why should a woman remain confined to her house?? Its a preconceived notion that working women cannot manage their homes properly.Why is it so??

A working woman can balance her family and her work properly.Yes she will falter at times because at the end of the day she is a human being too.But she will complete her all her duties and remain faithful to them.In return she deserves her independence and respect.

No offence meant to anyone's religious sentiments but personally I have found the Tulsidas Ramayana to be quite misogynistic.Some verses like the above one and another one which says that a woman's place is at her husband's feet is really demeaning.