A father. - Page 3

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

You should have quote me. Why you didn't I would have made sure you see both sides.

Originally posted by: ranjitha

You still did try to show me his side, so me quoting or not quoting you is irrelevant.

I did you just chosing not to. Try to see this selfless flawed man like many does and then you will realize.

Just to add, when I started watching this show, Dev had caught my attention the most, for his was the most layered character. Today, if I do not support his way of dealing with things, it does not mean I wake up thinking of reasons to support Sona and put him down. Its not even about me supporting Sona because she is of a certain gender.

Sona is no perfect human being, but what she has done has matched the circumstance. The pre-nup is yet to come out. According to that, if Sona had a baby, she would be solely responsible to take care of it. If it was me, I would have surely considered the rights of Dixits over the baby, but then thats just me !

Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa

This clearly didn't happened so far when soha was around, she was far to play with her friends..

Originally posted by: purva

He has to become a good human being first then he can think about being a good father. How can a successful person who has so much life experience behave like such an a$$.. what is all this going to achieve for this idiot? Sonakshi is wholeheartedly letting him bond with his daughter.. he has gotten this golden opportunity to spend exclusive time with his precious daughter and he spends it like this? really??🤔😲

I think it was my fault that I trusted initial promos and expected some mature content from this show.. All these shows are same old crap.👎🏼

Originally posted by: mena_k

Wait so If Dev did all this behind Soha's back, that makes him a good father 😕 because I cannot pass him to be a good human being forget being a good father and he wanted to be better father than Bijoy Seriously does he even know Bijoy. Did he see Bijoy ever tying up Asha or anything he has done till date to Sona. This guy amazes me everytime and all he does is justified in the name of being naive or in love.. 😲[/QUOTE)

It was said happened infront of soha I said it didnt, my point was just up to that..that makes him a good father or not is an another debate...

You are free to think what you want about Dev and so am I . For me Dev was always a good human being, yes he lacks courage to stand for his wife at times.. I too have that complaint but I couldn't hate him for that ..a person who was brought up as robot, taught only to love his family first for good 28yrs , I cannot expect such a person to stand against his own mother whom he worships than needed . I am aware of the fact he didn't gave a second to break up for his mother ..he cannot change in just first 4-5 ( roughly) months of marriage... Sona knows that. .so i would like to give more time before concluding he is a bad husband..(but then its my Pov)but situations and crappie people around him who can't see his happiness went against him.. and marriage doomed..

Coming dev post leap ... I too have many issues with him..but cvs don't want dig his side of story.. I am confused that these are all the ways for him to stay connected with Sona or is he really mad? Most of the time I dont have clue about what's going on in his mind so I like to blame cvs here .

At the end it's just drama for me I like it I watch it or else in will stop watching it ...

Edited by ..BhUvaNa - 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa

Not standing up for his wife in front of his mother/mami/brother when they clearly were wrong was indeed his fault, but can be sidelined considering he is brainwashed by his mother after all he is only an 8 yr old bachha.

But it was clear in season 1 and after breakup, that he knew his mother and his family never treated Sona as part of family and they equally contributed to the breakup. However, after leap he is not angry with his family (except him sleeping with random women, dressing differently, carefree attitude to some extent), but he is blaming Sonakshi for everything when clearly his mother is responsible most of all. That's the problem. He is trying to take revenge, taunts, to Sonakshi, why does he do that. I cannot imagine locking up a loved one all night alone in a office as a gesture of love, its plain psycho behaviour. Tying someone outside a room, is another gesture of love, for Dev Dixit. What kind of love is that. "Aise dost hon to dushmano ki kya jaroorat hai kisiko".

He still is doing the same thing, being bold behind his mothers back but cannot think beyond his mother's happiness. He was ready to sneek out his daughter from her room for his mom, I can imagine what all he will do for her in the future.

Yes, and we have no one but cv's to blame for destroying the beautiful character called "Dev Dixit '.

Originally posted by: mena_k

He was mad at ishwari too initially post leap..., but don't know why cvs made him soft after Soha's truth ? It's one of my complaints...I am not sure he still knows what exactly Vicky did to Sona and her family...he can throw them but adjusts wother them for Golu and mama sake I guess...

@ bold , here also cvs left me confused , which Casanova gets pissed

seeing his ex wife after 7yeears to level that he throws the girl out of his room...how this casanova's focus shifted to ex wife instead of finding more girls .cvs themselves were not sure and consistent in showingredients him...

Coming to locking in office and tying to door ...we are gonna differ here, I don't support this acts for sure but they doesn't make me too mad either.. Dev locks sona in her own office where she feels safe and comfortable to work late nights I feel its just to irk and trouble her but not to risk her...if he want to risk her he wouldn't come to rescue from earthquake alert..see i am not biased here ..I put myself in sonas shoes what all I have to do , call one of my employees to open door or directly call cops...Dev ties sona to door in a way where she can free herself in 5 mins..so i dont get that Dev really hate her or just want to irk her..

. I want sona and dev talk to each other with some respect and maturity and find that lost love and live happily as clearly they cannot be happy with others ... May that's why I keep wishing dev correct his mistakes instead of dissing him ...