CVs one doubt about Golu

I know a lot you might think this as a stupid idea...but I feel there is a need to it...

My question is ...how come CVs are not showing Golu wanting to meet his mom's side of family. I understand the Story is about Dev and Sonakshi...but even then it would be nice if Golu had insisted on meeting his Dhadhu and Dhidha...mom's side of the family is also important for child ...let us not go all patriarchal ...that for a child ONLY dad's family is important and hence the need for Soha to meet her Dhadhi...were as for Golu , Bose family is his mom said so not imp??

If Ishwari has not met Suhana, then Bijoy has not met Golu. Ishwari doesn't like the Bose family...and Bijoy doesn't like the Dixit family...

would love to see the contrast in the way both families welcome the kids who belongs to their family but have never met in the past seven years...

Originally posted by: Cutiepie.sona

Gr8 idea!

But Boses are Elena's extended family

She hasn't talked about her Parents..

Niether shown the desire to meet them...

Golu can meet his Nana-Nani in Kolkata

I don't think there is any rift in Dixits & Ele's Parents

We have never seen her real parents even after her eloping with Vicky...and after she eloped with Vicky , I remember Bijoy's emotional letter to Elina ...so for me I would look at Bijoy and Asha has her parents ...hence suggested the idea...

That is very true! Well spotted. Elena has never really cared about her real parents. Even when she married Vicky they werent informed. What type of parents are they not even concerned where their daughter is settled? They probably dont even know about Golu. Plus Elena may have never mentioned any of her family. Afterall she cut ties from them for the Dixits.

Golu has only one person in his life that is his bigcha he didn't care abt dadi nani nd mummy daddy. So why wid he ask for

Originally posted by: Tacker_Holic

That is very true! Well spotted. Elena has never really cared about her real parents. Even when she married Vicky they werent informed. What type of parents are they not even concerned where their daughter is settled? They probably dont even know about Golu. Plus Elena may have never mentioned any of her family. Afterall she cut ties from them for the Dixits.

Coming to the Bose family and Golu it would be interesting to see how they welcome him. They would probably make him more disciplined than he already is in comparison to Soha. But I am sure they would welcome him with open arms.

I would like to see what Bijoy will have to say about Golu's upbringing ...the way Ishwari said about Soha... 😆

These two kids need to have a balance in life...one is too disciplined and the other is let loose ...being a parent , I know there is nothing called as perfect parenting ...and its easy to comment standing away ...but even then I believe there needs to be a lil bit of both required for kids...discipline and fun...of the two I feel Soha is more blessed than Golu...just POV...that naughty fellow needs to be loved and cared...I think he lacks that in the Dixit house...he is like a bird in the golden cage...and Soha is like a princess waiting for adventure ...

Originally posted by: Sargesh

Golu has only one person in his life that is his bigcha he didn't care abt dadi nani nd mummy daddy. So why wid he ask for

Well you do have a very interesting and logical point here...he doesn't care about his mom and dad...probably that is the reason about his lack of interest to meet his mom's side of the family...even though he was curious to know abt his BigCha's affection for Big chichi...

But I think the CVs should explore Golu and his feelings too...If he can see pain and sadness in his BigChas eyes and ready to accept Suhana because she is BigCha's daughter I am sure this lil fellow will also have his pain points that he wants to solve in his life...

They have always shown how Suhana misses her father and the need for balance in her life...
In Golu's case he has every one and everything that a child would need...but he doesn't get that affection which every child SHOULD get ...his parents affection...at least ONE Of them showing affections towards him other than DEV...

Pehle Elena toh mil le apne mummy-papa se.. phir hi toh wo Golu ko milayegi 😆

Dixits teach their child to respect and think about only them...

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

My question is ...how come CVs are not showing Golu wanting to meet his mom's side of family. I understand the Story is about Dev and Sonakshi...but even then it would be nice if Golu had insisted on meeting his Dhadhu and Dhidha...mom's side of the family is also important for child ...let us not go all patriarchal ...that for a child ONLY dad's family is important and hence the need for Soha to meet her Dhadhi...were as for Golu , Bose family is his mom said so not imp??

When Elena didn't meet the Boses for seven years, it's obvious that Golu is unaware of their existence. So, why should he bother about it!!! For a six year old, these things really don't matter. 😃



-Rekha