The Judgement Day!!! EDITED! - Page 23

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

This is for all the single women out there.

Things which KRPKAB has taught me.

1.If a guy ever tells you that he loves you as a man loves a woman then samajh lijiye ki woh dal hai jo jal jayegi par galegi nahin.

I say you cross question him that 'I've seen enough of how a man loves a woman 😛 but tell me will you love me as a woman loves a man ? If yes, then only come to me, else buzz off'. 😆

2.If he keeps on singing praises of his mother or father or any other person and it becomes excessive then run away ASAP.BlindBhaktAlert

Ask him for a change to sing praises about your parents and family members, let's see how much he knows or put an effort to know about YOUR family members and yes don't keep the discussions limited to 'saala' and 'saali's since boys DO find out lot of stuffs about their saala-saalis before marriage for their own benefit, nothing to do with valuing family etc 😆

3.If a guy stalks you,attacks your professional life,etc then make sure to keep a distance of 10000 m from him.

Yes. Keep a distance as much as possible, else inform elders and let them take necessary actions. Keep pepper spray handy. 😊

4.If a guy turns up at your engagement and collapses due to excessive drinking then ask the security guards to put him in a cab and send him home.

Do not mistake the tantrums of a spoilt child for Deewangi or passionate love.

Don't be so naive to call your ex in your lifetime events And I know you won't. We aint Sona, the emotional fool 😆.

Aapka jeevan sukhadmaya ho!!

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

This is for all the single women out there.

Things which KRPKAB has taught me.

1.If a guy ever tells you that he loves you as a man loves a woman then samajh lijiye ki woh dal hai jo jal jayegi par galegi nahin.

2.If he keeps on singing praises of his mother or father or any other person and it becomes excessive then run away ASAP.BlindBhaktAlert

3.If a guy stalks you,attacks your professional life,etc then make sure to keep a distance of 10000 m from him.

4.If a guy turns up at your engagement and collapses due to excessive drinking then ask the security guards to put him in a cab and send him home.

Do not mistake the tantrums of a spoilt child for Deewangi or passionate love.

Aapka jeevan sukhadmaya ho!!

Originally posted by: tia.o

The biggest tragedy for me is that the root of all evil will come out smelling like roses using Motherhood Eu de Perfume to cover up her stink while mothers like Asha and Sona's pain and struggles are overlooked.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

😛 Ashi - KRPKAB has truly become a learning school for us. ⭐️👏😆

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font size="3" color="#663366">All the best for your work Shonali. Hope it's going well. Yes, I have these groups of ladies who have lively discussion on my thread and it keeps on growing.😆But no complaints. I love reading their thoughts.</font>

<font size="3" color="#663366">You made a good point though. When Dev was born, Dev's parents were together (figures, or how else Ishwari would produce more kids). So while Dev's surname is Dixit as is the norm for married couples, but his middle name is his mother's name, not his father's name. Why? Usually, kids have their father's name as middle name.</font>

<font size="3" color="#663366">Well, one can argue since Ishwari singlehandedly raised him, it's fitting that he will take Ishwari's name as middle name.</font>

<font size="3" color="#663366">But for Sona, the same logic should apply. Sonakshi was not married with Dev anymore when she was born, hence Suhana Bose. And since Sonakshi raised her singlehandedly, she should be Suhaana Sonakshi Bose. And yes, I want Suhaana to refuse to change her name to Dixit and give up her mother's name.</font>

Originally posted by: tia.o

Here's the most important thing.

Before getting married, openly communicate your expectations and ask questions to find out his expectations and see if they match and/or there is sufficient room for compromise if they don't.

For example, if the man says that he loves physical activities like hiking, biking etc and you are a strictly indoor person most of the time resembling a couch potato, that's a problem.

However, if he is willing to go to his physical activities with a friend sometimes and you are willing to also go for light hiking, biking sometimes, that problem is sorted then and there. And that conversation should happen before and not after marriage.

While opposite attracts and too much similarities are boring, there is a happy medium. It's called complements.

The aim is to find Bread and cheese, not chalk and cheese. The first one is complementary, the second is complete opposites.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

@bold,and Bingo!! Their reality will be out when they are asked to perform these tasks.

And remember the worst situation which might arise in front of you.They might threaten to commit suicide if you don't accept them.

Girls,if a guy ever threatens to commit suicide if you don't agree then never ever bend before him and give in.

If he is so careless with his own life then he doesn't value it at all.Its not your fault.And if a person cannot value his own life then how on earth will he care for you??Stay firm to your decision.You don't want him and it's plain and clear.

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun

And for me the biggest tragedy is - they pass the behaviour of Dev as 'love' . One who never takes a stand for his love, one who NEVER thinks anything from her point of view, one who never acknowledges her struggles and one who never sees her anything more than a carrier of his child now - is equated as Love.

I hope like Ashi said - young unmarried girls learn from it and smell the coffee real hard. If men like these offer to marry you, hold on and wait for further proposals or simply live your life in a more meaningful way until someone who has better standards and is MORE suitable for you, turns up in your life 😃 Like Tia said earlier - Do not settle for less. 😛