The Judgement Day!!! EDITED! - Page 20

Originally posted by: gaurimisha

May be bcoz Sonakshi's way of parenting is respecting her kids decision. it was always like that. She has taught Soha to take her own decisions without feeling the pressure of anything.

None in the Bose family forced themselves on her. Even Sona did not. She only tried to cheer her up. No force or prodding. Soha might have felt more guilty had Sona revealed she knew it all...the outcome will be she will stop sharing with her Dida as well.

Soha is mature for her age...she will open up when she feels so. Sometimes with kids we should just let them be. Sadly, Soha is her father's daughter and so, she is feeling guilty. It is matter of time before Sona comes to know what she is thinking.

Originally posted by: deepsel

Arey Wah, credit for Deepa inside Tia's post..who would have thought? 😆 Though I was sure about your angry angry bird mode somehow I thought you will subtle down after seeing the episode and my guess is correct after reading your post😳 Even I couldn't blame Dev fully after seeing his heartbreak today. Since our views matched regarding today's episode, I have nothing else to add😆

Just want to say I am liking your recent style of post making with loads of humor (I am a sucker for romance and humor😛), sometimes a medicine is better handled by patient if given with tasty edible flavors😳. Keep up your conviction which I admire the most from you!

Wish you a happy vacation 😊!

Originally posted by: .Avengers.

My main issue is how it was never about sona as a person. dev fell in love with her and it was all about him-his happiness, his possessiveness. They broke up-cause maa. They married- maa. They decided to conceive -cause maa. They broke up cz maa. Now they have cleared out some MU (I have given up hope as how sona was dying bit by bit in the marriage, dev's zero response to his family's abuse and how ishwari manipulated eveyrhting) it's about the kid. Meri beti meri khushi main baap ban gaya. Where is sonakshi who beared everything just to bring this kid in world? Where is her life, her happiness. Is this how the show treats her, a redemption story for a faltoo ka angsty hero who had no reason to be idiot (poverty is rampant, he was lukcy to have wondeful family and money), now a woman who has finally become true blue woman cause she has a kid now? Is this how women are perceieved, first live and die for husband and then live and die for kid.?

😡🤢

Originally posted by: .Neela.

Have a great time in Cancun Tia, am sure you'll love the scenic beauty there!!

I am still building the courage to watch today's episode 😕

I should be spending my time finding a bhaang selling place / house in NYC instead 😆 At least I will sleep peacefully thinking I did what should be done on Maha Shivratri and made use of my 2 days vacation!

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Dev ki aisi ki taisi. Kya bakwas aadmi hai. Poor Sona!

Have a superb vacation tia, you and your posts will be greatly missed :)

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Hey Tia, yet another lovely Analysis. Its a pity that I don't get the time to comment on your post often.

Ishwari is the kind of MIL who is Passive Aggressive. When Sona was Married to Dev, she never gave them the privacy and understood the concept of boundaries. She thinks interfering in their personal life was a gesture of love. Dev the quintessential dutiful son (or so he thought) could not find a balance between keeping his wife and mother happy. He conveniently forgot that he had an obligation towards his wife too. This resulted him lying to the two ladies he loved most.

Sona too tried her best to maintain the balance to prevent the relationship from disintegrating but failed because she found the control that the mother had over the son was immense. I would not call Ishwaris relationship with her son a bond between a mother and a son because in a bond both parties are free and act per rules of the relationship. But here Dev is a captive of his mother's love. Her love is not the nurturing kind. Its more a destroying kind.

I don't blame Sona either even though she was too docile for my liking. I understand that a woman who puts up with all the nonsense is her marital home is also considered to be strong . But do they realise the emotional trauma that they put their children through? Outward the child may seem normal but as the grow, the scars become visible. Those scars come to the fore only when as adult they get into relationships.

Dev failed miserably as a husband and as a son. He may have given his mother the luxuries of life, a name and status in the society. But many a times, he hid things from her. Not because he was doing the incorrect things but because he knew that her over possessiveness would never allow him to give prominence to another relationship. Thus he hid the truth about her fertility and many other situations that followed.

What's worse was Ishwari disrespect to Sona's family. GKB would go on bad mouthing the Bijoys and Ishwari in turn would say that even though she does not agree with what GKB says, GKB is right with her statements. Tell me, why should Sona put up with such nonsense. But the stupid girl did. The slap was the final straw that broke the camels back and it was about time.

All along Ishwari has been waging verbal and emotional attacks on Sona, Dev and her family. Dev did nothing to stop them. No one knows his family better than him. He has a history with them. He knows their whims and triggers and it was his responsibility to protect Sona. But what he did was atrocious. Forcing her to have IVF without her consent and many other things he tried to do could be challenged in a court of law. His actions were deplorable.

Once again I see history repeating. Ishwari will lure the granddaughter and try to keep her away from her mother. And our mute Dev will be a bystander caught once again not between 2 but 3 females. I am not even sure if Sona will be aware of Soha's visits to the Dixit household. I wonder if Soha too will be subjected to her emotional blackmails.

People claim that the Sona and Dev are still in love. Are we mistaking care for love? I doubt she would have the same feelings of love for him after what has transpired. How can one expect her to love him when all she gets in return is taunts, insults and accusations.

If the woman is the home builder she is also the home breaker. In this instance, both Ishwari and GKB are alike. Both woman know how to control the other and manipulate the situation to their benefit.

I am an Indian born and brought up in the west. I can never understand why a woman is told to tow the line when there are no lines in sight for the men. That is beyond me.

There you go. I have finished my rant and now I feel better.

Originally posted by: dipali13

thanks Tia 😃 I face them. Instead of Mother in law I have sister in law & brother in law 😡 only I know how I saved mysson's life after 15 years it's still hurts me 😭 here's people & my son also called me lioness but I don't go India for 13 years because I was afraid what if my in laws find out & kill my son 😭

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

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Ishwari Halwa Kachori Organisation(IHKO) was established in 23.b.c.

It is one of the most ancient and powerful orders of the world.Over centuries it has produced brilliant psychos who created havoc wherever they went.It was established by Mrs Ishwari Dixit who brought the entire world under her feet with her magical besan ka halwa.Infact the secret recipe of her halwa is the most sought out recipe in the world followed by the recipe of Coke.Her only son Dev Dixit is the future torch bearer of this organization.

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6.Psychpathy and Horrific Douchebag activities (PH.D)

Some of the notable IHKO members are-

1.Allaudin Khilji

2.Ivan The Terrible

3.Adolf Hitler

4.Marie Antoinnettte

One of the recent IHKO members who brought laurels to our prestigious organization is Donald Trump who went on to become the President of the USA.

Trump was trained by Rajmaata Ishwari Devi Herself.

Founder and chairperson-Ishwari Dixit

Financer and CEO-Dev Dixit

Manager-Mamaji

Directors-Vicky and Radha Tripathi

MOTTO:Ishwari Zindabaad!!! Sonakshi Murdaabaad!!!

Originally posted by: tia.o

Thank you. I felt bad for Dev (mostly due to Shaheer's mind blowing acting) until he went from Cheetah to Chuha in front of his mom. After that even Shaheer's acting could not bring back my sympathy. 😡