What is wrong in being a mama's boy

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Let me clarify this is not anyway related to the toxic relationship that dev and ishwari share. But in general what is wrong in being a mama's boy? I just read here someone wrote "once a mama's boy always one". Aren't we girls happy when we are named papa ki beti? Then why this discrimination with boys? This phrase is used in this forum as if it is a stigma... Again I am not justifying the actions of Dev and Ishwari...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Papa ki beti or daddys girl - this means daddy would do anything for the daughter. Doesnt mean the girl listens to the daddy all the time or a puppet of her father. Basically in such relationship the daughter controls the father

Sona is bijoys little girl - he would do anything for her . He can kill someone if he needs to to protect her. But sona doesnt always listen to bijoy. She does what she wants. Even in todays episode, when bijoy said we should go back to kolkatta taking soha .. she overrides him saying running away is not a solution. Also movig to delhi .. bijoy said no...did sona listen?? She would do what she thibks is right and doesnt really have to do what bijoy wants her to do..Also the patch up, bijoy agreed to what sona wants .. it did not happen the other way


Mammas boy - this is the opposite... where the mother has absolute control over the son. She would ask him to jump in the well .. he would do it for her. He is basically a puppet of his mom


This is ishwari - dev relationship... dev would not do anything against his moms wishes.. he did not even decide that he wants sona back in his life after breakup inspite of doing all the dev ki deewangi and waited till his mom gave an ok to run to sona and tell her the good news...

So u see the difference !!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya

Papa ki beti or daddys girl - this means daddy would do anything for the daughter. Doesnt mean the girl listens to the daddy all the time or a puppet of her father. Badically in such relationship the daughter controls the father

Mammas boy - this is the opposite... where the mother has absolute control over the son. She would ask him to jump in the well .. he would do it for her. He is basically a puppet of his mom


Where did you find this definition...honestly before making this topic I googled for the definition and the meaning is same being influenced or attached to that particular parent.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: awahnee


Where did you find this definition...honestly before making this topic I googled for the definition and the meaning is same being influenced or attached to that particular parent.


I googled too but i know how it works as well
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya

Papa ki beti or daddys girl - this means daddy would do anything for the daughter. Doesnt mean the girl listens to the daddy all the time or a puppet of her father. Basically in such relationship the daughter controls the father

Sona is bijoys little girl - he would do anything for her . He can kill someone if he needs to to protect her. But sona doesnt always listen to bijoy. She does what she wants. Even in todays episode, when bijoy said we should go back to kolkatta taking soha .. she overrides him saying running away is not a solution. Also movig to delhi .. bijoy said no...did sona listen?? She would do what she thibks is right and doesnt really have to do what bijoy wants her to do..Also the patch up, bijoy agreed to what sona wants .. it did not happen the other way


Mammas boy - this is the opposite... where the mother has absolute control over the son. She would ask him to jump in the well .. he would do it for her. He is basically a puppet of his mom


This is ishwari - dev relationship... dev would not do anything against his moms wishes.. he did not even decide that he wants sona back in his life after breakup inspite of doing all the dev ki deewangi and waited till his mom gave an ok to run to sona and tell her the good news...

So u see the difference !!


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ok again let first tell that I am team Sonakshi...whatever dev and his family esp Ishwari have behaved with her ...I never ever want her to go back to Dev. And if the cvs show this in their serial then it will be a first on Indian television.
If the roles were reversed Sonakshi and her father were like dev and Ishwari and Sonakshi had destroyed dev's family will being Daddy's girl a matter of pride.
So coming back to my question it is the general statement that I am against...and not Sonakshi. So I feel we should stop insulting the relation of a mother and son. As it is the cvs are really doing a very good job in doing that.

If there are real life interfering mothers like Ishwari then there are fathers who control the life of their daughters and those daughters let them do it happily.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: awahnee

Ok again let first tell that I am team Sonakshi...whatever dev and his family esp Ishwari have behaved with her ...I never ever want her to go back to Dev. And if the cvs show this in their serial then it will be a first on Indian television.

If the roles were reversed Sonakshi and her father were like dev and Ishwari and Sonakshi had destroyed dev's family will being Daddy's girl a matter of pride.
So coming back to my question it is the general statement that I am against...and not Sonakshi. So I feel we should stop insulting the relation of a mother and son. As it is the cvs are really doing a very good job in doing that.

If there are real life interfering mothers like Ishwari then there are fathers who control the life of their daughters and those daughters let them do it happily.


Lets nit forget what really happened... sona just returned the money that dev invested as his mom a family called bijoy and boses thieves and planners and gold diggers and dev rewarding bijoy with a slap yo top it off... how is it the reason for the breakup? Sona came back home and she was not even thinking of leaving dev at that time.. then dev pushed her again accidentally (he shud really watch out. Aciidental slaps and pushes keep happening around him). Sona fell on ishwari (this was btw intentional fall according to our hero). He says get out and saying loving and marrying her is a mistake and asks her to get out.. she asks again to bith mom and son if that is really what they want .. and they dont sprak and gkb and vicky ask her to get out .. no word from anyone... so according to sona that is the end of it...icing on the cake is the news that dev evited them and when she went to confront he accepted that he did it and is sorry .. and he will pay their loan etc .. really after all this she should have just agreed and laid low on dixits front door like a doormat... I really dont see how ppl forget what all dev has done

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