Originally posted by: gudima
That's why I don't understand what is the need of father
In my daily life whatever I have seen around me most of the father are away as bread earners or if they are even they are indulged so much in themselves that they never are involved in children
Same is the case of working woman
And if you are able to earn and take care of your child and provide the love of both and provide healthy environment and regarding male figure grandparent or maternal uncle and many more
AND TIA YOU HAVE ASKED IN PREVIOUS POST THAT HOW I ADOPTED WHICH I WAS NOT ABLE TO ANSWER IN PREVIOUS POST
I HAVE ADOPTED MY DAUGHTER WITH THE HELP OF MY FATHER AND MOTHER FIRST THEY WERE LEGAL PARENT AND THEN ONLY TWO YEARS AGO I GOT LEGAL RIGHTS FROM THEM
AFTER ADOPTION THEY COME TO CHECK ONLY 6 MONTHS AND I WAS PREGNANT WITH TWINS THAT TIME AND WAS ONLY 25 YEARS SO WAS NOT ELIGIBLE TO ADOPT 6 YEAR OLD CHILD BUT MY PARENT WERE
Anyway I have seen in forum that every children are saying that I applause my mother that for us she sacrificed her happiness I am not saying that mother was wrong or not strong and being her child you are happy that she for keeping you happy she sacrificed her happiness
I have no mind to bash anyone as I respect everyone as my mother was also one of them but I will never neglect the fact that she was not able to do what she wanted and I will never want my daughter to do the same
My mother has took so much that when I got job and was independent I got her check up she was suffering from schezophrenia depression and has gone through some major operation because she was internally very weak and d I will never want my daughter's to suffer from the same or is I'll not want myself to suffer from same
When I took that DESCISION my mother was totally against it but when I made her understand that what you have gone through you will want me to go through the same then she backed out and today she is very happy that I took the right DESCISION when she see me and my children happy