Same Same, but different!!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: dlavanya

Nice post tia..
Ishwar's last words were confusing

She said "kya mujhe apni zindagi se nikaldoge ya sonakshi ko apne zindagi mein wapas laoge?"

She said "ya" and not "aur"

IS she asking him to bring sona back?

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Guys I wish to share something.Earlier I used to think that mom's like Ishwari and sons like Dev who are obsessed with their mothers do not exist in real life.But a few days ago an incident occurred with someone whom I know which changed my views.

One of my mom's friends' daughter got married a couple of years ago.The guy was based in Australia,was well settled and they thought that everything was fine.Even the boy's family seemed to be so sweet when they had met them.

But recently the girl returned home and she was on the verge of depression.Her husband was not who he seemed to be.After a couple of months of the wedding,the guy's mom and his sister came to stay with them.Then he started showing his true colors.He wouldn't do anything without asking his mom and sis.The girl had to ask his mother's permission even for buying a toothpaste.Moreover the guy used to sleep with his mom at night because he wasn't used to sleeping without his mom.His wife was completely isolated.The guy's mom and sis used to taunt her on a regular basis.They even told her that she was worthless and had no value.They guy did not utter a word against them.She could not even go out without their permission.

Finally the girl couldn't take it anymore and returned.Her parents have decided to end the marriage once and for all and she is attending counselling sessions.She is not the same anymore.Earlier she used to be happy,confident and vibrant.But now she is almost unrecognizable.

Atleast Dev had genuinely cared for Sona but this guy did not even bother to speak a couple of words with his wife.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Guys I wish to share something.Earlier I used to think that moms like Ishwari and sons like Dev who are obsessed with their mothers do not exist in real life.But a few days ago an incident occurred with someone whom I know which changed my views.

One of my mom's friends' daughter got married a couple of years ago.The guy was based in Australia,was well settled and they thought that everything was fine.Even the boy's family seemed to be so sweet when they had met them.

But recently the girl returned home and she was on the verge of depression.Her husband was not who he seemed to be.After a couple of months of the wedding,the guy's mom and his sister came to stay with them.Then he started showing his true colors.He wouldn't do anything without asking his mom and sis.The girl had to ask his mother's permission even for buying a toothpaste.Moreover the guy used to sleep with his mom at night because he wasn't used to sleeping without his mom.His wife was completely isolated.The guy's mom and sis used to taunt her on a regular basis.They even told her that she was worthless and had no value.They guy did not utter a word against them.She could not even go out without their permission.

Finally the girl couldn't take it anymore and returned.Her parents have decided to end the marriage once and for all and she is attending counselling sessions.She is not the same anymore.Earlier she used to be happy,confident and vibrant.But now she is almost unrecognizable.

Atleast Dev had genuinely cared for Sona but this guy did not even bother to speak a couple of words with his wife.

Originally posted by: rockstar.sj

so sad yar hope she gets back to her self strong as sona ...

ghar ghar ki khani i will tell the story of my best friend my best friend sister was engineer working also never wanted to marry but parents convinced her so she married a guy who was nothing but momma's boy after 6 months returned back parents home (i used to call her big sister akka)but she was leading her life working even though she was pregnant and had nice baby boy (i went and saw such a cute kid)irony is that idiot hubby of hers never even bother to come and visit the kid and when his mom died couple united living happy ever after omg that mother in law till death she didn't allow couple to meet ...momma's boy are useless and i have seen one more case were hubby listens to his sister and ruined his married life ...ppl should be like sona daring ...but ppl like ishwari still exist 80%m-i-l are like her only exceptions we find very rarely

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Finally the girl couldn't take it anymore and returned.Her parents have decided to end the marriage once and for all and she is attending counselling sessions.She is not the same anymore.Earlier she used to be happy,confident and vibrant.But now she is almost unrecognizable.

Originally posted by: ---Andromeda---

Exactly.For Dev,Sonakshi is not only the woman he loves but she is also his necessity.Because whatever happiness he had got in his entire life it was because of her only.

Sonakshi's case is different.She has grown more matured over the years.She wishes to resume her life as it was going on.For the chains of Dev's love no longer bind her.During the first break up,the feelings existed and so did Sonakshi's respect and empathy for Dev.That's why she was drawn to him.But now she has overcome everything.She is not obliged to him anymore.

This post of yours remind me of a book named Sita by Devdutt Pattnaik.It was his reinterpretation of the Ramayana.

There it was said that though Ram had freed Sita from all the obligations and duties when he sent her on the second Vanvas,he could never free himself.

Sita was not bound to anyone when she returned to Mother Earth.But Ram was always bound to Sita.He might have freed her from being Ram's wife but he would always remain Sita's husband.

Dev and Sona's current scenario reminded me of that paragraph in the book.

Originally posted by: aadk

Sigh! Women being so inhuman to another woman. And why do men like the one you have mentioned ever get married? And then there is this whole set up o arranged marriage in our society where the two people getting married are not even given sufficient time to know each other. It's like as if parents just want to get done with their responsibilities as early as possible, no matter whether their child suffers for life because of that.