Why is Saurav being blamed?

I have read on blogs and posts where everyone is angry that how dare Saurav said " ye aadmi chahta kya hai". Everyone is saying how can he forget that it was because of financial help he had taken from Dev lead to all choas.

I have a counter agruement. How come it was Saurav's fault at that time. Saurav was searching for investor as any startup will search. He never approached Dev for financial help, it was Dev who had approached him. He had clearly stated that he had refused Dev but Dev convinced him that it was not a help but a business investment he was doing. It was Dev who had hidden this fact from his family ( i m not saying what Dev did was wrong). Saurav din share this thing with his parents because Dev told him to do so. Saurav was equally hurt and shocked when this financial investment turned into such a ugly situation and became the final blow in Dev and Sona's seperation.

I don blame Dev, beacuse for me he is a businessman and has alright to take decision where and how much to invest but if any one who is at a little fault was Dev because he shld have known that how upset his mother will if he hide anything from her. He had already faced her discomfort, anger and tantrums when he had hid about his and Sonakshi's relation and about Sonakshi's pregnancy issue. Still he chose bot to tell Ishwari anything.

Isn't Saurav's anger justified. Dev first forced Saurav to take help from him and then left his sister and kicked his family out of their house.

Someone wrote his was never a big brother, he never fulfilled his responsibilities and now he has audacity to say such things about Dev.

I agree he was never a big brother but whatever he was he loved his sister. He has been part of Sona's struggle for last 7years. He has always been a brother who has supported his sister in every situation. Do we all remember when Dev had fainted in Sonakshi's engagement. Sonakshi shouted out for saurav only for help. He at that moment didnt analyse anything or thought anything but ran to help his sister.
So, why is he wrong when he retains anger for a man who left his sister for his mother, behaved so spineless. His sister has gone thru a lot, she has moved on now and by making such statements about his sister will boil any brother's blood.

Just my POV.

its ok chill.. some ppl in this forum just cant take anything against Dev.
They only want other characters to remember all the good intentions Dev had but not the actual wrong doings... but the thing is we as viewers know the entire story but the characters dont know that Dev did not ask vicky to throw bose family out etc.

FOr saurav ... Dev loved Sona , then dumped her because of his mother, lied to sona on multiple instances, invested in their business but couldnt stand and say that it is a business decision and no one needs to interfere when his family was insulting Boses... thought it is an insult to his mom when sona went to return the money only because dixits said that Boses are gold diggers ... dev slapped Bijoy..Dev asked his sister to get out of the house ... and said that loving and marrying her is a big mistake... Dev threw them out of their house...dev signed the prenup ... so see there are way too many wrong doings when compared to one good intention of investing in his business when he actually did not ask him for help.

So Saurav saying " Ye aadmi aakir chahta kya hai" is just being too polite in my opinion

Agree with your view. Just not able to understand why Sourav is getting so much hatred. He never had any bad intentions. He always supported Dev. How can you expect him to sing praises of Dev after being thrown frm their house, after Dev's get out to Sona, prenup and he himself considered a thief. First mistake he did was to accept Dev's investment specially when Bijoy told him not to ask Dev coz it wud complicate relationship between both families. Second he shud hv told Sona abt Dev's investment...agree Dev told him not to but knowing the Dixits he shud hv shown some caution. BUT in Sourav's defence Dev knew abt business n himself wanted to invest..so maybe Sourav never thought things could become so ugly. How wud he know Ishwari n others wud consider it deliberate act of Bose to take money from Dev.

Agree with you to some extent but not completely. If I am not mistaken when he was in financial crisis and he thought of taking financial help from Dev on advice of his mother, his father advised against it giving his reasons. Now again later, when he was looking for investors and Dev approached him, he could have insisted that Dev inform Sona, Saurav was not a small kid, not to realise the dynamics of relationships. But he thought it was a very easy way out, that was the very reason he did not inform his parents too. We have a saying in our language that money has the ability to break closet of relations. Secondly, for people who say that it was purely business, we should not forget families are involved and doing things behind back always build mistrust among the families.

Even I felt saurabh unnecessarily blamed by dev ardent fans .

Few points.

Why is Saurabh being blamed? Why to deflect where the actual fault lies.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

its ok chill.. some ppl in this forum just cant take anything against Dev.
They only want other characters to remember all the good intentions Dev had but not the actual wrong doings... but the thing is we as viewers know the entire story but the characters dont know that Dev did not ask vicky to throw bose family out etc.

FOr saurav ... Dev loved Sona , then dumped her because of his mother, lied to sona on multiple instances, invested in their business but couldnt stand and say that it is a business decision and no one needs to interfere when his family was insulting Boses... thought it is an insult to his mom when sona went to return the money only because dixits said that Boses are gold diggers ... dev slapped Bijoy..Dev asked his sister to get out of the house ... and said that loving and marrying her is a big mistake... Dev threw them out of their house...dev signed the prenup ... so see there are way too many wrong doings when compared to one good intention of investing in his business when he actually did not ask him for help.

So Saurav saying " Ye aadmi aakir chahta kya hai" is just being too polite in my opinion

But i am not blaming Dev, he was also a victim. Whatever happened lead to lot bitterness between two families. If Saurav is also a part of that bitterness, what is wrong in that? Just because he is not professionally efficient, doesnt take his right to care bout his sister and be angry on a man who left her.

Originally posted by: randommusings

Agree with your view. Just not able to understand why Sourav is getting so much hatred. He never had any bad intentions. He always supported Dev. How can you expect him to sing praises of Dev after being thrown frm their house, after Dev's get out to Sona, prenup and he himself considered a thief.First mistake he did was to accept Dev's investment specially when Bijoy told him not to ask Dev coz it wud complicate relationship between both families. Second he shud hv told Sona abt Dev's investment...agree Dev told him not to but knowing the Dixits he shud hv shown some caution. BUT in Sourav's defence Dev knew abt business n himself wanted to invest..so maybe Sourav never thought things could become so ugly. How wud he know Ishwari n others wud consider it deliberate act of Bose to take money from Dev.

Sourav may not be able to provide financial support to his family on his own but he is a genuinely good guy. People argue tht instead of Sona he shud hv returned 5crs like he returned the car. But again...Sourav n Sona wud never hav thought that after calling Bose fam thief...Dixits wud refuse to accept the money n consider it as an insult.

Thinking about these complications of Dixit clan only Saurav would have refused to take money from Dev. But we all know Dev's convincing power and more then that Saurav was in need of finance and he grabbed the opportunity that walked to him.

How will Saurav know that Dev will hide the truth from Ishwari?

Thank you! You have really given it a different but good angle to look at. And fully agree and support this version. This is why I like this forum so much . Every one has different point of view and every one is polite and good when they express it. No bad blood ever.