In the relationship between Dev and Sona, Dev always made it clear that she was the strongest of the two. same with bose family, they all had an expectation from Sona that she is a strong woman. sona has this nature that when people expect something out of her, she strives her best to not let them down. it was seen often that she tried to hide her hurt/ vulnerabilities in front of her parents and Dev as she did not want to disappoint them. in a way she had defenses drawn up in front of all of them .The was only a very few occasions where she shared her mind with her DADA.
Jatin looks like a guy, who accepts sona the way she is and does not have any expectations from her to start with. so she can be herself with him. talk to him freely, share her worries, and most importantly let down her guard and let him see her in her most vulnerable state.
With Ritwick the relationship was inclined to be a romantic one from the start. he was her prospective groom. In jatin's case, he is her friend first, will the relationship get the flavor of romance or not is yet to be seen.
In the initial days even Dev and Sona's bonding started off as friendship, a confidante and then slowly progressed into love.
As her relationship with Jatin progresses, it might be possible that Sona realizes the role she played in Dev's life. she was not just his lover/wife but the very anchor due to which he could live.
As of now she does not realize her importance in his life. she only thinks as wife and has expectations from him as his wife. the day she realizes her role, that day she will start to see beyond her hurt and humiliation and then understand why Dev was angry with her in the first place.
Dev already knows the importance of Sona in his life. its just that he could not make Ishwari realize the importance of sona. owing to blind faith towards his mom, he ended up shattering his bond with sona. Today Dev does not have this faith anymore. his anger and resentment to sona only stems up from the fact that he knows sona is his anchor and he is wayward without her.
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I agree with everything you said. Probably she felt she always had to be the strong one so never showed her insecurities. Unfortunately she does not know the power she has over dev. Since she's come back I feel his mouth says something & his eyes tell a very different story. I also noticed since she's back no more hotel rooms for mr.dixit!
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