The cause of this Hatred?edited

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Before you read ahead, know that this is just a random ranting post😃😳
Sonakshi, Proud of how calmly you handled it all👏
Neither did you burn his documents nor plead for help.
Found your way out calmly..Neither did you complain about it.
This girl genuinely believes in settling the scores personally and not spilling the beans out of the personal space.

I am sure she has thought of a way to give it back to him but in her personal way. Not by getting him arrested.
Good going Sonakshi. This is called being graceful😳

About Dev, Yes we all did notice he was anxious to receive her call.
Anxious to know how she was managing. Curious to know if his plan to put her head down worked. If she would plead for being rescued. And what did he expect, run like a superman to her and rescue?
Better luck next time Dev..😆
And underneath all this, there was this worry as well. He was so sure he would know about her steps or atleast receive a call, which he didn't .. ended up making him wait with the phone in his hands.

But Dev Dixit disappointed when Vicky said all those bitter, disgustful words about Sonakshi and all he did was clench his teeth and kick the chair.
I expected him to slap vicky. 👎🏼
And he gave the excuse of golu.😕
Should I give him the benefit if doubt that his reaction wad subdued because he saw golu coming?

Edit: Okay, I rewatched the bit properly and had a different perspective later.
This very moment was a crack in his 'unaffected' mask..and vicky was testing it also.
Dev was very angry hence the kick, and he would have slapped him there but Golu's arrival brought him back to reality and he put the mask back on, deceiving himself and vicky.

Whatever be the reason, What is the point if this much hatred from Dev's side? What happened that he has to put up such an ugly facade?
He should have been hurt that Sonakshi left him, that is understandable. But loathing her this much?
And he could forgive Vicky, Mami who were evil on his face, his mother who he knew, did no good to him.
But why not Sonakshi?
Aisa kya kia Sonakshi ne?

Sonakshi right now has a million reasons to be away from him, infact despise his presence. But why is Dev so perturbed by her?
So bitter for her.. Sonakshi was always by his side until that day..


I am so irritated by the return of Besan ka Halwa...zyada din nahi bach sakte hum😡😆 She again sat down on the floor with all the taamjhaam!😕😆
P.S Was it only me or the pace was very slow today?
We already knew sona will be out of the office by putting fire... didn't we?
Edited by saumiee - 8 years ago

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Gayu_K thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I also want to.know why so much of hatred dev???????????
N ur ps no it was not just u saumie the epi was really a dragger
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Exactly..how come he is suddenly so normal with everyone including Vicki n Ishwari. He blamed them also for separation right...but has he already forgiven them. He is talking so nicely with Ish. No bitterness at all.
Am sure we wud see Dev wanting to go n chk on Sona but wud stay back for halwa

But wat annoyed me most was he was waiting for her call, he didn't like wat Vicki said, he atleast looked concerned in precap, then why he didn't do anything to get her out of thc office. How can he let her remain locked all alone for whole night. Wat was he expecting...he will go in the morning n enjoy watching her angry at him. 😕
Edited by randommusings - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Even i cant figure out the hatred. Its like he hates Sonakshi more than Ishwari, maami and Vicky.
Maybe with everyone else he kind of settled his scores but with Sonakshi the closure is still incomplete.
Or maybe Dev had most expectations from Sonakshi. He believed in Sonakshi more than neone and she leaving her left him most wounded.

Since Dev and Sonakshi got married, Dev was living in the fear that oneday Sona will leave her and go, he kept on reminding her this thing time and again, asking for a promise not to leave him ever.

But Sonakshi left for watever reasons and Dev is behaving like a kid whose fear of loosing his toy came true, he is blaming the toy now, y u get lost when i warned not to do so.

But one thing is clear Dev is in immense pain.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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the cause of this hatred is "waqt"
waqt ne kiya ye haseen sitam 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Same question was bothering me then I remembered the vicky fiasco and honeymoon matter where Dev was wrong but showing tantrums to Sonakshi. I think his expection from Sona is more than the other family members. In both situation Sona took first step to clear thing eventhough she knew that Dev was wrong, but this time situation is worst so Sona chose not to, and Dev being Dev is behaving same like a child who break his toy and throw his anger on his mother.
Just trying to justify his action becoz want them to together again.
Team Devakshi.
Love tiny miny khargosh(Ms. Suhana bosa)
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have no clue why he hates her so much , where as he is ok with all those who got them separated. Another thing is , why did they show Ishu with that Chulha again , was there any particular reason?? When I see that chulha , I get so irritated...I don't why she has to take chulha and cook...when the serial started she used cook using gas ...logic abhi tak missing hai...and that Basen halwa...OMG...I like all kind of Halwas but after seeing this serial every time I see halwa it reminds me of her and her tantrum... 😡

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Posted: 8 years ago
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hi

Episode was indeed slow one and probably it looked like so because of the spoilers we get..oh we knew Sonakshi will be out of office on her own without getting harmed so thats why it looked slow

Starting from Sonakshi well she was brave and fearless found her way out and came out of building YAY.. safely but apparently burning dustbin was a bit scary and could have been dangerous if firemen hadn't come on time ..their was too much smoke in the cabin and breathing their more then few minutes could have been fatal so yeah ..though she could have broken the door with some heavy object like flower pot or something and shouted for help..but none the less she came out safely on her own and thats good ..kudos !!

Well dev kinda waited for call coz he had no clue at all that Sona could do something like this..he was expecting her call atleast to shout on him LOL oh failed their coz she didn't to me he looked anxious and restless too though he covers everything so nicely its hard to read him

Next Dev vicky moment I wasnt expecting much expressive reaction from Dev so what he did stumped me LOL..well clearly Vicky was provoking him testing him and he passed that test..Him coming out in open with his anger by slapping or beating vicky would have disclosed his real self..Hence he very smartly showed his anger yet his fake ignorance to it and by luck Golu too appeared their at the same time..I dont think golu was the reason for his actions..well emotions surfaced in him momentarily but no wonder he hides and masks them like a pro..Also we cant forget this dev is NOT in love with Sonkashi anymore she is his enemy..though I feel bad for chair LOL vicky ki jagah usko laat pad gayi HAHA

Why you felt he loath her ?? what did I miss?? just because he didnt hit vicky ..u felt he hates her like from with in?? like for real??..

Well his hate for Sonakshi has only one reason for now that she left him and over a period of time its becoming bitter and bitter..now when she is right their in front of him..their are lot of factors related to her which disturb him..his pasts comes back and haunts him her unaffected behavior irritates him, and her coldness annoys..now when he is happily settled in his life she came from no where to disturb it completely..its very frustratingly disturbing when you madly want to get away from something which has so much connection with you which holds so much power on you..and here in this case its not any non living object to trouble but living breathing human being..it reminds me of the tag line of promo..jinke pyaar ke rang itney khoobsurat the unke dushmani ke rang kitne gehrey hongey ..Honestly they are in such high rebellious revenging mode its no point to judge their actions... I atleast dont want to..they will repent Dev may be more but everything is buried quite deep with in so these layers covering their real self will not go so easily and are going to be much dangerous in future

Though as a viewer I enjoy and as a fan I feel sad too at times the intensity of hatred I see from both sides is hurting..but I being a completely emotionally driven person always wants to understand things from emotional POV..

Sonkashi had many reasons because she was insulted and all in Dixit house ..you know what all they are ..and I agree she has reasons to be away from him

And about forgiving family well in 7 years he has gotten in terms with them and also blood relationships can never be broken ever , all your life precisely.. he has to carry on with them life long .. about forgiving I cant say if he has forgiven them or not..his attitude is confusing at times..but it looks like he holds grudges against them ..my POV

Halwa was damn irritating and Ishwari sitting on floor cooking was even worse OH brutal it was


This is my POV..waise aaj tumhara topic hit hai Doctor HAHA..expect 10-11 pages LOL



Edited by sjain - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev was definitely affected when Vicky was talking nonsense about Sona. What I didn't get is; whether that "effect" was in favour of Sona or against? I mean did he feel angry at Vicky for pointing fingers at Sona and demeaning her? Or did he get jealous imagining Sona with someone else? Or both?😆 If he felt jealous, did he believe it may have happened? After all, he himself has had numerous affairs for last seven years.

Totally confused! 🤪😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You made some good points.
Why Dev hates Sonakshi? The same reason he blames Sonakshi.
It's human nature to pass on the blame. Which one of us wants to accept that we are the reason for our own misfortune? That we lost the love of our life, not once but twice because we weren't supportive enough, strong enough and understanding enough to stand between them and anyone who'd have hurt them?

Only the people who have the courage to face the truth and move on, can acknowledge their mistakes. Because you can't move on if you are still carrying vendetta in your heart.

Dev can't live alone. He is not self-sufficient and he is emotionally needy. First his need was his mother, then Sonakshi.

If Bijoy and Asha die tomorrow, Sonakshi will live because she can make friends and can build relationship even with her employees. She proved that she can survive (even though she gets hurt), after their first break up. She didn't fall apart or called Dev until he interfered in her life.

If Dev's family die tomorrow, he will get even more destroyed. He craves Sonakshi like vampire craves blood, heroine addict craves cocaine and alcoholic craves booze.

He was kind of doing fine living in limbo when Sonakshi left him like addicted people come out of rehab all ready to leave their addiction behind. But one mention of her name, the craving comes back.

Sonakshi loved Dev, wanted Dev, but didn't need Dev to survive. Dev needed Sonakshi more.

Now, if he acknowledges that it was not Sonakshi's fault, then he will also have to acknowledge that it was his mother and his fault. Now he can only mistreat his mother so much, but someone else's daughter somehow becomes fair game.

It's always easier to blame and hate someone away from you than someone you are seeing everyday. But his facade is slipping.

The more he is losing control and Sonakshi isn't, the more he is striking back with cruelty. But what it will end up doing is burn everyone of good memories from Sonakshi's mind which he is now replacing with bad memories like re-writing a hard drive on a computer.

Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago

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