The cause of this Hatred?edited - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am extremely upset and disappointed that you all are trying to justify and rationalize Dev's actions in this episode. Trying to belittle is never acceptable. It leaves very long lasting emotional scars which are extremely hard to heal.
My grandmother is like Ishwari and my dad like Dev. They always felt free to insult my mother and belittle her at every turn. Everything that went wrong in thier house was blamed on her and my dad just kept silent when all this was happening. (Just like Dev)
She feel into a pretty serious depression and try to attempt suicide when I was young.

Seeing her be insulted so many times has left me with lots of trust issues. Untill this day I do not let any one get too close to me with the fear that they will hurt me.

So, I would like all people ot reconsider when they ask for a reunion of Dev and Sonakshi. I would want everyone in the Diixit house to apologize and reform themselves before Sona even sets foot on them.
It is better to live happily wiht one parent rather than wiht an abusive dad. (Because that who Dev is)

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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: saumiee

Before you read ahead, know that this is just a random ranting post😃😳
Sonakshi, Proud of how calmly you handled it allšŸ‘
Neither did you burn his documents nor plead for help.
Found your way out calmly..Neither did you complain about it.
This girl genuinely believes in settling the scores personally and not spilling the beans out of the personal space.

I am sure she has thought of a way to give it back to him but in her personal way. Not by getting him arrested.
Good going Sonakshi. This is called being graceful😳

About Dev, Yes we all did notice he was anxious to receive her call.
Anxious to know how she was managing. Curious to know if his plan to put her head down worked. If she would plead for being rescued. And what did he expect, run like a superman to her and rescue?
Better luck next time Dev..šŸ˜†
And underneath all this, there was this worry as well. He was so sure he would know about her steps or atleast receive a call, which he didn't .. ended up making him wait with the phone in his hands.

But Dev Dixit disappointed when Vicky said all those bitter, disgustful words about Sonakshi and all he did was clench his teeth and kick the chair.
I expected him to slap vicky. šŸ‘ŽšŸ¼
And he gave the excuse of golu.šŸ˜•
Should I give him the benefit if doubt that his reaction wad subdued because he saw golu coming?

Edit: Okay, I rewatched the bit properly and had a different perspective later.
This very moment was a crack in his 'unaffected' mask..and vicky was testing it also.
Dev was very angry hence the kick, and he would have slapped him there but Golu's arrival brought him back to reality and he put the mask back on, deceiving himself and vicky.

Whatever be the reason, What is the point if this much hatred from Dev's side? What happened that he has to put up such an ugly facade?
He should have been hurt that Sonakshi left him, that is understandable. But loathing her this much?
And he could forgive Vicky, Mami who were evil on his face, his mother who he knew, did no good to him.
But why not Sonakshi?
Aisa kya kia Sonakshi ne?

Sonakshi right now has a million reasons to be away from him, in fact despise his presence. But why is Dev so perturbed by her?
So bitter for her.. Sonakshi was always by his side until that day.


I am so irritated by the return of Besan ka Halwa...zyada din nahi bach sakte humšŸ˜”šŸ˜† She again sat down on the floor with all the taamjhaam!šŸ˜•šŸ˜†
P.S Was it only me or the pace was very slow today?
We already knew sona will be out of the office by putting fire... didn't we?


Saumiee, Most of the time I agree with your POV, but this time I have to slightly differ on Dev's part...u said Dev could forgive mamiji and Vicky and not Sona,but if u remember correctly only we the viewers knew how Vicky and mamiji cheated Dev and Sona that night before they got separated...Dev doesn't know what and how all that happened. He has no clue that Vicky and Mamiji were the ones who lied and cheated Dev and Sona that night.and that's why he's normal with them NOW. But let me tell u, once the truth comes out, u think Dev will be normal with them? One can't imagine how he will punish them! We will have to wait and watch that scene! Now about Ishwari, yes Dev understood her intensions about the prenup but he's still her son and Ishwari gave birth to him and plus she's widow. Do u think it's right to throw her out of the house? Not only him but any son can do that? Is that a right thing to throw parents just because they committed mistake?
Ishwari is facing the punishment as Dev stopped treating her like god and not giving any importance to her. Ishwari is still in a denial mode. That's a different story but at least Dev is not affected by her anymore.
About Sona, yes, she calmed down a lot after 7 years and I don't see her over reacting too much like before at least for now.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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It felt like a complete useless filler episode today. I am so irritated right now.

Ek toh story ki baji padi hai, upar se useless family drama. Honestly I absolutely loathe the Dixit household, in fact the very sight of the drawing room or anything related to that mansion irks me like anything. 🤢 On top of that seeing them chit-chatting, enjoying, playing and nonsense - Gosh ! And in parallel they were showing Sonakshi struggling to survive, without food, without water, and even with smoke, she choked.


Such a sad state of the show 🤢 CVs are SICK SICK mentally retarded. I want to see Dixits including Dev on the street without money and power. And I want to see them sitting in the saamnewala street of Bose house with a katora. 😔 A family's life is turned upside down (not going into 'good' or 'bad', of course it's the inner strength of the Boses who didn't let themselves dissolve in the race of time and life, and won oh-so-amazingly šŸ‘), and we have these shitty Dixits playing ludo and krap 😔


CVs did you smoke or something. 😔
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As usual, excellent post, saumee! I have lost the patience to make separate posts on the state of the show as it is today... after all how long can one rave and rant about madcap behaviour!
Your question is the trillion dollar one. Maybe he expected Sona to put up with all his families insults just as he put up with it for all the years..? Don't know.

I think the chulha drama is symbolic that the dixits are getting back to their normal norm, which basically is being abnormal. The return of Sonakshi in their lives is a trigger for that! Dev is getting back, Ishwari is getting back, mamaji is getting back... and then ex-GKB will be back to just GKB!

What makes me watch this show still? Man, the two only... and you know who I am talking about. Both have got such strong charisma, looks, persona's and are a visual treat... even when they behave like tom and jerry!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: pkbdas61


What makes me watch this show still? Man, the two only... and you know who I am talking about. Both have got such strong charisma, looks, persona's and are a visual treat... even when they behave like tom and jerry!


Correct! I agree..The only reason I'm still watching the show is becoz of Dev and Son's chemistry. The second innings is all about fiction and pure drama. It's just time waste in scrutinizing the characters or decoding the logic.
Honestly, it makes no sense to me now, but I'm still enjoying it though. I'm not bothered about Dixit's or Bose's characters as they all converted purely to fiction😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agree with u what u said for sonakshi ..she is such a mature person that's why I love her...😊

I also dont understand why dev hate sonakshi so much that he locked her all alone and went home ... Waiting for her call is not love and when Vicky said those bad words for sonakshi so he can at least said to Vicky that don't say bad about sonakshi's character... but what we can accept from dev becoz he himself saying sonakshi chor so dosro ko tu moka milye ga...

Dev knows everything what ishwari did , greedy nature of Vicky and gkb...but still he is nice with than why not with sonakshi who left him just becoz of misunderstanding or becoz of dev's maa..
Edited by cancerian87 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well this has been my main question since beginning why so much hate for sona in dev such that in this hierarchy of hatred she is at the top with no apparent reason. This unfair hierarchy of blame is what is irritated me.
But I think this hatred is nowhere real and he just wanna hurt sona with words which he has been feeling since years. Other than that he is happy and kind of changed back to the old dev dixit after just one day with sonakshi becoz her back in his life in any way is a bliss for him. When one person affects u but u really can't get them hating is just easy becoz that helps in forgetting that person esp when that person is out of sight out of mind but now that she is back its just like a sober getting back his material of addiction
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Can someone please tell me if the taste of the halwa changes when cooked on chulha. Why on earth would Ishwari want to do it on the chulha vs. gas. I mean the last time she tried this stunt, it was to throw tantrums because she was upset with Sonakshi. Now, what ?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara

Dev was definitely affected when Vicky was talking nonsense about Sona. What I didn't get is; whether that "effect" was in favour of Sona or against? I mean did he feel angry at Vicky for pointing fingers at Sona and demeaning her? Or did he get jealous imagining Sona with someone else? Or both?šŸ˜† If he felt jealous, did he believe it may have happened? After all, he himself has had numerous affairs for last seven years.

Totally confused! šŸ¤ŖšŸ˜†

Yes totally confused. Every POV seems both right and wrong to me. Real conphusion. Itna studies mein confuse hoti tho doubts clear kar leti aur achchae marks le Aarti.🄱

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post

It was an interesting episode , Dev wanting Sona to phone him its because he longs and craves for her phone conversations surely he cannot just tell her to call him so he needs to play his game show he does not care about her but he is still in love with her yet at the same time he dislikes the fact that she is around she is not effected by him .
Dev waiting for her call anxiously it has nothing to do with the fact he locked her up in the office he wants to hear her voice any fight with her brings him closer to her why will he not want to play these games with the only person that has always made him alive , he is happy with his family because he was in thought Sona will phone him he just had been with her alone in the office too

Dev and Vicky scene now here Vicky was clearly testing the waters he is scared if Dev and Sona gets back so he needs to find out what is happening so he bad mouths Sona but Dev has put this cloak of faade on him that he cannot shred in front of his family these are the people that has hurt him so he needs to play it safe he cannot let anyone know he still loves Sona

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