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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Suvika.



I wish I can say for sure that he would back off. But alas, with this guy, there is no guarantee. Maybe we all should book a group therapy sessions. 😆


Is that so??😲.. Okay I am in! At least the audience should remain sane...😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She had already said then in the earlier episode you need to consult psychiatrist for anger management.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dreamy.tiara



But why does he want to see her fall apart? Because he did without her? And if she does, then would he be like 'revenge accomplished' and back off from her life? In that case, I have a plan for Sona 😉😆...


Psychos draw sadistic pleasure when their pray falls apart.😃😃

Sona should send a psychiatrist to his house for all the dixits, GKB and mamaji
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Posted: 8 years ago
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You know, Sonakshi's statement, "You need a psychiatrist" was something I was saying about Dev and Ishwari's unnatural fixation even before Dev fell in love with Sonakshi.
At that time I was told by many that it's normal. That is reality.

Their relationship was never normal. Dida and Bijoy's relationship was normal, Asha's relationship with her children is normal, Sonakshi's relationship with Soha is exceptional but normal, even Radha and Vicky's relationship is toxic but normal. But Dev and Ishwari are not normal.

They always used the excuse that "They are unique" to cover up their weirdness. But guess what? If you are weird, you don't get to expect normal people to form normal relationship with you because they are not obligated to put up with your weird fixation.

What Dev is doing is pretty evident. He is being vindictive and a jerk. And he it's still getting support here because as is most people like, we are always ready to pity the weak man and hate/blame the strong woman.

In fact, there is no one more feared, hated, misunderstood than a strong woman. No one bothers to ask her what cost her to be that strong. She was a woman who believed in love, fairy tales, wanted one love story before she died. She fell in love and gave her everything - over and over again. Despite being kicked in the face for her sacrifices, love, trust, dignity...

Today she does not even think or spare a glance around for love. But hey, she is a woman. Even worse, a strong woman trying to just do her job and live her life. If we as a society won't collectively point finger at her, then how will we feel good about ourselves?

Some people are claiming that if Dev had known about Soha, he won't have locked her up. So when a woman is mother, only then she is spared from harassment? A single working woman is fair game?

This is plain harassment, but if Vicky had done it, he will get slammed here. But since Dev did it, he is forgiven.

As I said, strong women are worshipped in temples, called Kuldevi at home and treated like objects without any feelings or consideration on the streets. 👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o



What Dev is doing is pretty evident. He is being vindictive and a jerk. And he it's still getting support here because as is most people like, we are always ready to pity the weak man and hate/blame the strong woman.

Its Hot man - and blame the female weak or strong - doesn't matter - she has to be tyag kee moorti

In fact, there is no one more feared, hated, misunderstood than a strong woman. No one bothers to ask her what cost her to be that strong. She was a woman who believed in love, fairy tales, wanted one love story before she died. She fell in love and gave her everything - over and over again. Despite being kicked in the face for her sacrifices, love, trust, dignity.

she has been deceived by the mother son duo - first moral blackmail then accusations and now being held responsible to have left without thinking that she didn't leave on her own but was kicked out of the house.


Today she does not even think or spare a glance around for love. But hey, she is a woman. Even worse, a strong woman trying to just do her job and live her life. If we as a society won't collectively point finger at her, then how will we feel good about ourselves?

What right she has to feel happy and live a life own her own- I sometimes think if she had told Dev about Soha - the duo would have called her a gold digger.!!!!

Some people are claiming that if Dev had known about Soha, he won't have locked her up. So when a woman is mother, only then she is spared from harassment? A single working woman is fair game?

So it means wives are not abused beaten in front of kids???

This is plain harassment, but if Vicky had done it, he will get slammed here. But since Dev did it, he is forgiven.

Big Yesss- he's sooo hot - sab maaf hai😃😃😃

As I said, strong women are worshipped in temples, called Kuldevi at home and treated like objects without any feelings or consideration on the streets. 👏

Apni Man aur bahen ko chhhod kar


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Edited by NBT-BV - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: suma74

She had already said then in the earlier episode you need to consult psychiatrist for anger management.


She did comment about her anger management issues. But she had said he needed a life coach, not a psychiatrist...😊.. (at least not then😆)
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: NBT-BV


Psychos draw sadistic pleasure when their pray falls apart.😃😃

Sona should send a psychiatrist to his house for all the dixits, GKB and mamaji


That means Ishwari mata has successfully baptised her loving son into a psycho?? OMG!!😲

That would be a fun to watch, how the psychiatrist deals with the Dixits.🤣... How I wish Sona was a psychiatrist instead of a Nutritionist...😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wonderful analysis! Loved ur post!
Sona dear u r amazing, u rhandling that jerk so beautifully and keeping ur cool and at the same time showing him the mirror everytime he tris to belittle u. Three cheers for Sona. Women power!🥳
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

You know, Sonakshi's statement, "You need a psychiatrist" was something I was saying about Dev and Ishwari's unnatural fixation even before Dev fell in love with Sonakshi.

At that time I was told by many that it's normal. That is reality.


We couldn't see through the truth of their unique relation.😆 Hats off to you, that you did!👏... I am irked watching that he is so harsh towards Sona yet is still caring about Ishwari's medicines. If both the ladies broke his heart then, why different treatment?



Their relationship was never normal. Dida and Bijoy's relationship was normal, Asha's relationship with her children is normal, Sonakshi's relationship with Soha is exceptional but normal, even Radha and Vicky's relationship is toxic but normal. But Dev and Ishwari are not normal.

They always used the excuse that "They are unique" to cover up their weirdness. But guess what? If you are weird, you don't get to expect normal people to form normal relationship with you because they are not obligated to put up with your weird fixation.




Being close with your mother is not weird, that's what I thought initially. But being so possessive and jealous, is not a characteristic of a mother-son/father-daughter relationship, to the extent that it costs a traumatic divorce. I don't know why I am feeling that Suha would defend Sona with the same arguments that Dev would use to defend Ishwari. This is taking form of a war story than a love story. GKB is acting like Shakuni mami (she is female na😆)... breaking Dixit house to her advantage by pretending to be a well-wisher. God knows when Dixits would throw her out.🥱




What Dev is doing is pretty evident. He is being vindictive and a jerk. And he it's still getting support here because as is most people like, we are always ready to pity the weak man and hate/blame the strong woman.

In fact, there is no one more feared, hated, misunderstood than a strong woman. No one bothers to ask her what cost her to be that strong. She was a woman who believed in love, fairy tales, wanted one love story before she died. She fell in love and gave her everything - over and over again. Despite being kicked in the face for her sacrifices, love, trust, dignity...

Today she does not even think or spare a glance around for love. But hey, she is a woman. Even worse, a strong woman trying to just do her job and live her life. If we as a society won't collectively point finger at her, then how will we feel good about ourselves?

Some people are claiming that if Dev had known about Soha, he won't have locked her up. So when a woman is mother, only then she is spared from harassment? A single working woman is fair game?

This is plain harassment, but if Vicky had done it, he will get slammed here. But since Dev did it, he is forgiven.



I don't want to comment anything more about Dev's behavior, I have already in my post. . People still want Dev-Sona to be together, because they are attached to Devakshi. This is a hindi show, Devakshi have a huge fan-base and only due to this fact the end game would be Devakshi. We (audience, in general) are too used to (and attached to) happy endings.


For Sona, I am very proud of her, how she is dealing with her situation. A perfect example of strong modern Indian woman. But, in long run, being in close proximity with Dev has not been a good decision for her. He can use the knowledge of existence of Suha against her and turn her life upside down. She should have thought through it and made a strategic plan about how to tell/not tell Dev (whatever she decided), given that their relationship is so bitter right now. Well, practically speaking, people forget and forgive by 7 years, it is a long time.




As I said, strong women are worshipped in temples, called Kuldevi at home and treated like objects without any feelings or consideration on the streets. 👏



I think that it is taken for granted that strong women don't need support. Whereas even strong women like when they are given support (as Dev once said 'unhein sahare ki nahi saath ki zaroot h', what a transformation of Mr. Dixit!😲)... When this idea about strong women changes, there feelings would also be sensitively handled. And this is where Dev went wrong, taking Sona's strength and understanding for granted. Okay, I am not getting started again.




Thanks for your reply Tia di😊


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: poojak

Wonderful analysis! Loved ur post!

Sona dear u r amazing, u rhandling that jerk so beautifully and keeping ur cool and at the same time showing him the mirror everytime he tries to belittle u. Three cheers for Sona. Women power!🥳


Thank you Pooja for finding my rant wonderful..😉😆

Exactly three cheers for Sona🥳...

But I am little worried what effect the "fight" is going to have on Suhana. I don't want to watch a custody battle, that's most insensitively handled on Indian TV (like everything else😆)... But I think Dev would behave anything, but remotely mature, even with Suha in the picture. He can think only like a shrewd businessman.🥱
Edited by dreamy.tiara - 8 years ago

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