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Originally posted by: sowiee

Sorry sir I may be wrong but wanted to say that..

If male says something like that we say he isn't a dignified person or he is a senseless fellow .. but if the same thing a girl says we say wow she did a right thing she is independent and strong.

And giving back what they did for us all the time is not correct .. if so then nothing difference between them and us... Instead we should make them learn that what they did wrong...

Same here Sona knows that Dev s ego never allows to accept this kind of things other than turning his ego on which doesn't help her.. instead she could have opted some other way...

Originally posted by: yyy

If you are referring to that fight 7 years back then Sona has said lot of things to Dev .She has accused him of things he never did .Why just blame Dev ?

We all know whether Sona was genuinely praising him for motivating or taunting him .If she wanted to thank him she could have that done in private .There was no need to go on stage .

She has always used the words spinless and mama's boy even before the leap .So this is not because of Dev's current behavior.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Loved your note... I was wondering was it the same couple who were totally in love with each other...how can you hurt someone whom you loved so much...and I feel they still do...but they have hurt each other very badly...and those wounds are once more raw after seeing each other...the only difference betwn the two is all about upbringing ...

Dev and Sona both were brought up very differently ...any day Sona had a better childhood and upbringing that reflects in a classy character...

Regarding people not liking Sona calling Dev spineless ...our society is still very orthodox in nature ...when it comes to women pointing fingers at a man...and in the case Dev was her husband...pathi parmeshwar hotha hai ...that is what has been taught ...so now the thought is how could she call him spineless...especially when he was thinking abt her office employees safety rt ??
My answer to all those people would be...he was not thinking of their safety...if it was only safety then he could have told her in the first place ...which he didn't ...he made scene out of it ...got the court injunction order...why all the drama?? So what ever he did was done ONLY to hurt her...
and she gave it back...royally...he couldn't deny any word...

It is very difficult for ppl to accept a woman at par with a man in a professional world...and we are way behind accepting such truth. Its only now that people have started allowing their daughters to be professionals...People are not used to it...its not something that can be changed overnight too... that's the sad part...

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Interesting and thought provoking post coated,wrapped and served with a dollop of sarcasm😉..Nice👍🏼

I quite agree with Cutiepie.sona.I think they both crossed the line multiple times.It is unbelievable that they run big businesses.The example that they are setting to their staff is deplorable.

I think Dev's fault was in making a mountain out a of a molehill,that too in public and unnecessarily pushing and provoking Sona..His actions today are completely unjustifiable.He did what he did to massage his ego and assert his(supposed)male superiority.It was in awful taste..Sona calls him spineless,but his current actions seem more brainless than spineless.

Sona,for her part,held her calm and her nerves commendably,but finally she snapped.And when she snapped she broke free venturing down the same dirty lane where Dev already was.Her outrage and outburst was completely justified .Her fault was that when she retaliated she got too personal,hitting below the belt one time too many .Dev also had a personal motivation in all his actions,but he didn't say it in words.

Basically both Dev and Sona have to a take a long hard look at the mirror and ask what they are doing to themselves.The venomous force and the dripping sarcasm in their words show that both of them are engulfed and tormented by their past.It would do them a lot of good to just meet and talk things out or to stay away from each other...

.Unfortunately,our story doesn't progress if they stay away..so they will stay together and fight like cat and mice😉😉...I think the serial needs to be retitled as Tom and Jerry version 2😆😆

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

As a woman do I feel bad for Dev , yes I do...but am I going to justify his actions... NOPE!!...Did he deserve that spineless comment from her...I will say...YES !! he asked for it ...infact he was pleading for her out burst...but when she did there was no stop to it !!

Its easy to standout side a relationship and blame a woman's outburst...but If you look from Sona's perspective he was and is spineless...

He is so sad and angry because she never stood by him ...She left him even when he was ready to choose her...

But my thought is ...that act of his just happened ONCE...and he felt so bad...what about her ?? In their short span of marriage he would have ditched her side many times...honeymoon, infertility , Neha's issue, Vicky's Job , his birthday etc and those N number of taunts that she has got from his family...did she react this way to Dev??

Agreed there were mistakes from her side too...but one should understand , she was staying at his house , she left her house to be with him...she is there because she trusted him...and he is the one who should be the bridge betwn her and his family...he just couldn't do that ...

So todays episode I will support Sona because she was doing her job , its his ego and frustration that cause this whole drama...he asked for it and she gave it !![/QUOTE]

@BOLD - very well said.. also liked the fact that she was "man enough" ( pun intended) to state that she will pay the penalty if she did any wrong.. The CVs have created a strong role model. Unwittingly or not, we do not know.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

She did maintain her dignified self all through out...even when he belittled her , accused her of being a bad boss ...etc ...she didn't react much ...she even apologized to her employees when she felt what Dev said was right abt the fire safety rules...being a BOSS and to accept ones mistake and apologise to ur employees requires guts and great strength in Character...she didn't care who showed her the mistake , what mattered is she had to correct herself...that shows her class and upbringing !!

He decides to come back and snub her again... regarding the name...by then most of her employees had gone back...now she knew the actual reason of his outburst...he had pushed her to the corner that hurt her the most...and she knew that she had to give it back ...he had no clue what was going to be thrown at him... 😆

He was ok when she said , he was jealous abt her success etc etc...but when she spoke abt the name yes his face changed and then came the one that broke his faade "MUJHE TUMHARI NAM KI KOYI ZAROORAT NAHI HAI"..."TAKLEEF HO RAHI HAIN NA "?? !!

At that point it was old Dev ...all he could say is "That's it SONAKSHI" !!

Some times in life you need to open your mouth and give it back...and that's exactly what Sona did today...when someone takes ur silence for granted you will need to hit back . So I think her response to him was justified.

PS : More than Dev Sona needs to be careful of Vicky . I have a feeling he is either going to hurt Sona or Soha...and is going to put the blame on Dev...stating Dev asked him to do so...I didn't like Dev taking help of Vicky to get Sona out of his office...

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sorry Sir I could not understand the significance of your post. I think you don't need to fear for Sonakshi for whatever she says or does. Most of the forum members are her admirers. It is Dev Dikshit's supporters who are mocked at laughed at and called names. So rest assured. She can go to any extent verbal or otherwise. The forum won't judge her. Only a handful of us who see fault in both can be ignored royally. Stay happy.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sorry Sir I could not understand the significance of your post. I think you don't need to fear for Sonakshi for whatever she says or does. Most of the forum members are her admirers. It is Dev Dikshit's supporters who are mocked at laughed at and called names. So rest assured. She can go to any extent verbal or otherwise. The forum won't judge her. Only a handful of us who see fault in both can be ignored royally. Stay happy.

Originally posted by: sowiee

Sorry sir I may be wrong but wanted to say that..

If male says something like that we say he isn't a dignified person or he is a senseless fellow .. but if the same thing a girl says we say wow she did a right thing she is independent and strong.

And giving back what they did for us all the time is not correct .. if so then nothing difference between them and us... Instead we should make them learn that what they did wrong...

Same here Sona knows that Dev s ego never allows to accept this kind of things other than turning his ego on which doesn't help her.. instead she could have opted some other way...