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Posted: 8 years ago
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It's so good to see people analysing the reasons of their marriage not working. Specially now, because when we were seeing it we were frustrated angry and many things didn't understand.
Now we understand as much as dev was wrong in never speaking clearly for sona in front of his family, sona too never actually told him the taunts from ma and mami. This had started from very first day... Ishwari had told her to avoid but she decided to do the puja. Then when she messed up she never shared what dadi bua said or ishwari had said to dev. From then the more she tried to fit into the family the more taunts came her way... But she actually never put it into words for dev. Remember even when after the ayan lunch fiasco... Dev had come to her to speak then too she had said it doesn't matter it didn't hurt etc.
At the time the infertility truth, I remember we all wanted a moment where sona finally broke down. So what did that mean? We knew she was keeping it all in her and he wanted her to show her emotions to dev.
This I think had been hinted from day one... Remember her crying in front of the mirror the first day of marriage...she had said this situation too she will fight and will win over. She won't give up. So probably she had taken this up as a challenge...due to which complaining or talking about it to dev would been she hasn't been able to live up to it? Who knows na, the human mind is a complex thing.
And the final straw came after the money fiasco...she completely shut dev out. She didn't talk to him, not did she say what she was doing, nor did she let him talk to her Baba.
Them we all including me thought that was for her self respect.. Only now do we realise from dev's perspective it was her leaving him. If only they had talked then...rhings would have been different today.
I just hope this time... Once misunderstandings from both sides are cleared both sit down to talk about these issues.
BTW loving the analysis and thoughts guys!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Both of them were somewhat right and wrong too in whatever happened 7 years back... They'll surely realise their own mistakes too in the future track.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev and Sonakshi were in love with each other got married because both their parents felt it would be good for them but this marriage was already doomed from the very start as Bijoy never truly accepted Dev while Ishwari too never accepted Sona both Dev and Sona knew this too but never shared their thoughts with each other never spoke about their fears
we saw when Ishwari thought Sona was pregnant just how happy Dev was proving to us he knew all along just how difficult it has been for his wife yet both Dev and Sona never took the time to communicate with each other
there marriage broke and that was ugly now coming face to face with each other their frustrations their hurt their anger all comes out
it will take time before everything is out but in the process of throwing blame on each other and been cynic in their ways they are hurting each other even more and I do hope that one of them draws the line and realize this .
when they do get back together they would have learned every aspect of each other the good the bad and the ugly they would have respect and trust then on each other

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