sona sona sona.....

Over ANALYSIS Mat Karo😆😆

Originally posted by: ASHREENA

so before watching tonights episode i read the forum...and i swear to god somewhere that noone is letting go...

we always knew dev could never let go or escape his love...but tonight sona had to interfer and that is what i saw ...her interferance in his life...yes shruti was thrown out of the room and his life...but she was not homeless and she could have called security for herself or get management to open the door to get her things...so shruti was no way helpless...first of all anyone with one once of self respect would not be in a room with anyman who is not their husband...especially if the relationship is 15 days old...i live in the western world where most people find that type of relationship is good but some of use still perfer to respect ourselves and bodies...

but i am not here to condemn the choices of life made by the modern women today...for me i am neither team sona nor team dev...both their characters are full of flaws which is why i am guessing we like the show...non is perfect...

so sona thought she could handle mr piece of hotness only to hide behind the door as mr hotness said...everything she wanted to say she let shruti say it...and i thought you would let it go but no shruti was in no danger and neither was she homeless...if sona really wanted to help shruti she would have told her to forget the idiot and go home...here is some cash and a pair of slippers ...but she didnt...i can understand how alot of people thought that sona had self respect at that point...for me it was not self respect...it was as though she got to fuel for the fire...and her nanny was right she should not have interferred...what did she hope to accomplish...

it was not as though shruti was being raped molested abused or anything like that...she was put out of a hotel not a home...so saying sona could relate was connecting for me...

what i saw tonight she was affected by dev presence and she wanted to hurt him but she could not do it herself she used shruti...

as for shruti being manhandled by dev even though that was wrong and not justified shruti had no reason to speech dev off...all she had to do was take her belongings and leave...women often put themselves in situations and the outcome is never good...so why put yourself in that situation...did she think that by saying all those things to dev it would matter...all dev saw was sona interferring in his life and he was right...

if the idea by the cvs was to show women to be strong and self respecting for me it failed...all i saw was two individuals trying to provoke the other...

nothing in todays episode should give the idea that sona had self respect or was strong...it just showed a good relation between sona and suha...

so if i was sona in todays episode this is what i would have done...and i will start actually from the awards...

1.so i see mr hotness and he is looking yummylishus...but i would ignore him and his donkey comments...

2.i would give him a fake smile and tell myself what an idiot ...i did it my way...

3.upon recieving the award i would have said i would like to thank someone special she could not be here tonight but i love u and this is for u...

4.if reporters ask who is the special person i would say my love who will someday understand independence and the thing of independence.

5.back at the hotel ignore mr hottness...

6..tell shruti here is some money and a slipper take a cab or i can get a driver to drop u home...ignore the waste of time...life is to preciaous to waste on small matters...

7.well at this point mr hottness is not banging on my dor...so i cant call the police...

but as hard as it would be for me i would walk away...and let it go...

i did walk way from my first love and it was hard and painful...but i needed to be me again...and i married my best friend who allowed me to grow...and be independent...strong...and sometimes that is what is needed...no he aint perfect but he gets me...and even when we fight i always go back to that place that made love him and all the good things and we both ignore outside interference because it is our lives...and nobody can live it but us...and when ur married you have to let things go or else you lose urself...forget what everyone says make ur decisions...and listen to eachother dont just hear eachother listen...trust eachother so no one can feed u BS...

all in all mr hotness still loves his bunny and bunny still loves mr hotness...

Agree with you ...this is what I commented on Tia's post too...I will copy paste it here...

I agree with you Sonakshi helping Shruthi was commendable . Reason being ...Sona loves Dev and she saw Shruthi with him but even then when she found the other girl in trouble she was willing to help ...that definitely shows her class !!

But what she did after that is not something I thought a lady like Sonakshi should have done. Because she vented out her 7 yrs frustration , anger, humiliation , bolted love etc out loud and open to a total stranger ( Shruthi ) . She at that moment became DEV!! She lost her cool ...his presence was affecting her and his presence with another woman was affecting her even more...to know that the other woman was also treated the same ...gave her a satisfaction...cant deny it...and she used Shruthi ( knowingly or unknowingly ) to get back at him...by telling her what she had gone thru...

For me...our old Sona would have helped the lady by providing shelter or getting her back home safe with out revealing anything that happened in her personal life...that would mean a complete class of her own...

I personally feel ..helping Shruthi was good but she shouldn't have got emotional and told all that to Shruthi...How Shruthi should react to Dev is for Shruthi to decide...

I don't know if its just me but I am seeing few traits of old Dev Dixit growing in Sona slowly ...


Your one liner "all in all mr hotness still loves his bunny and bunny still loves mr hotness!!"
SO VERY TRUE...they cant live with out each other and even if they marry someone else they are going to run their lives too...Shruthi was spot on when she said ...tum pagal hai...vo bbi pagal hai...aur jo bhi tum dhono ke beech mein ayenge ...vo bhi pagal ho jainge..!!

shruti however seems to b dumb but summarised rightly jo tum dono ke beech aayega pagal ho jayega ...
dev n sona r definitely not over eacj other infact dey r stuck at d same point where dey left ...dey may pretend dey r over but d reality is dey have not moved even an inch