Did Sona do right thing by telling....... - Page 2

Originally posted by: tia.o

If telling the truth is rude, then it's not the fault of the speaker. It's the fault of the person being spoken about.

Would you rather she had lied to her child?

If Sonakshi started telling everything she had faced unadulterated version, Soha would have reached the same conclusion.

But she didn't lie and didn't poison Soha's mind by telling the truth either.

Was Dev rude, spineless? Yes he was. How can anyone deny that?

Did she say he was the jerk who told your mother that she married him for money, broke his home, and that it's good that she can't be a mother because she will be a bad one and threw her out of his house (all truth by the way)?

If Sona wanted to use Soha as a weapon, she'd have never told about Dev, never had given her a choice to go to her dad, never have respected her choice, and when she talked about him, she'd have told the full unadulterated truth which would have made any child hate the person. Sona had plenty of weapon against Dev.

If she really wanted to turn Soha against Dev, she really did a bad job of it. And Sonakshi is not that bad at anything she sets her mind to achieve.

Originally posted by: Rsp2001

Yes, if Dev was rude and spineless, Sona should be sharing it with her friends, family or a counsellor, not with her 6 year old daughter... I am a psychologist, and see kids from broken marriages. We do not encourage this kind of talk from either parent. This is very damaging to kid!! and may cause the kid to not have a healthy relationship with one parent.

Tia, you look like you are very young and opinionated person. You need to be a parent to understand this delicate issue from a child's perspective. Also, Instead of being judgemental about Sona and Dev's relationship you have to see situations from a neutral angle, as things are not wrong on just one side. I see flaws on both sides : from "insecure Ishu", "big mouth GKB" or "make everybody happy Dev" or "impulsive/impatient Bijoy" or "I am always right Sona."..

This is what we do in counseling, make person see things in a neutral bigger perspective.

This generation girls need to come out of the "women empowerment" notion and see things in a realistic, non judgemental perspective.

Originally posted by: tia.o

If telling the truth is rude, then it's not the fault of the speaker. It's the fault of the person being spoken about.

Would you rather she had lied to her child?

If Sonakshi started telling everything she had faced unadulterated version, Soha would have reached the same conclusion.

But she didn't lie and didn't poison Soha's mind by telling the truth either.

Was Dev rude, spineless? Yes he was. How can anyone deny that?

Did she say he was the jerk who told your mother that she married him for money, broke his home, and that it's good that she can't be a mother because she will be a bad one and threw her out of his house (all truth by the way)?

If Sona wanted to use Soha as a weapon, she'd have never told about Dev, never had given her a choice to go to her dad, never have respected her choice, and when she talked about him, she'd have told the full unadulterated truth which would have made any child hate the person. Sona had plenty of weapon against Dev.

If she really wanted to turn Soha against Dev, she really did a bad job of it. And Sonakshi is not that bad at anything she sets her mind to achieve.

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

I've a totally different opinion about Sona, she's brave and a really good mother as I don't think I can give the choice to my child to choose either me or her father, I simply can't lose that person who has been the reason of my happiness to the reason of my sadness.

Originally posted by: ifuser

yes! agreed on one of your points that Sona gave the option to Soha to meet her Dad. If you ask me if Sona is a good mother and to what i saw last 2 episodes, "YES" She is a good mother no doubt about that, but my point is that she shouldn't have said those words to her daughter.

Look, I'm not stupid to always prove my point is right! I love to hear everyone's perspective as long as they are not biased based on their religion, state, community or gender.

one may be a good writer, but that doesn't mean that they are analyzing the human relationships correctly! It would be nice if one would able to see the other side too and not be judgemental!!!!!!!!!