Is it right to hide truth of suhana from Dev??.

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Is Sona doing right thing???

I mean even suhana is daughter of Dev ... So he has equal rights on her.. he has every right to take decision about suhana .

Though they are not in talking terms but the child is the evidence of their love .. and he has to know about it.. even though they are divorced ( I m not sure that they are divorced) I guess still he has a right to know about her...

Yes Dev was rude to her during the breakup he said all the bull shit.. but the hurt he has given her can be lessen by doing the right things and showering her the true love she deserves..

But the childhood n memories of suhana 's 6years cannot b brought back..

So I think hiding the truth if suhana is the biggest mistake..

But I know it's ones choice . I said my pov.. wanted to know how u guys are thinking about this..

Edited by sowiee - 8 years ago

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suma

@suma74

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think Sona is correct, First five year of a child/baby, mother is more important than the father, even though father is equally important. But when you are separated, only mother is enough. Its like mother going and begging for the father/husband to care/love for the child.

Now, that the child Suhana is 6 yrs old, now father's love is necessary and so Sona told about her father.

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Sharica

@Sharica

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

I agree...It was not right to hide this truth from Dev...He had all rights to knw abt his daughter...

Who better than Sona would know how much he wanted a tiny Sona...

But seems her ego and fear made her hide abt Soha..

Ego - To show him that she can be a good mother...

Fear- Dev might have fought for Soha's custody as Sona was not rich at that poit of time..

But I don't think this mistake can be justified..atleast I don't want to justify this...

Lets see what CV's have in store for us..

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NONIE

@Nonie12345

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Posted: 8 years ago

Sona was wrong to hid his daughter from Dev

I agree that they got separated but Dev should know about his daughter .

Dev missed his daughter's childhood because sona hid the truth which is not correct

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Shaun

@Jade0001

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Posted: 8 years ago

I don't think there can truly be a right and wrong decision

it had to be difficult for Sona to make that a decision of not telling Dev

Firstly we have to accept that everyone makes mistakes but its of the utmost importance that a child's needs are first seen too , no matter what grudges are going on between the parents one cannot drag the child into it

in my view I think every child should have the love of both parents especially when both are alive , other family members contribute to the enhancement of the child but its only parents that a child wants and needs

I feel the option should have been given to Dev if he wanted to see his child but then again I know Bijoy would have been against it

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sanjenaa

@john_sanj

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Posted: 8 years ago

I think sona was right in hiding the child. The way the dixits and spineless dev are, the child would had a good childhood with peace. In dixits and dev s life everyone interfer and there is not a single person who is senable. Now they are showing dev with cool style and bike etc. but his personality is same full of ego and self centeret. I don't think he would have been a good father, and that might have effected the child in a negative way. And ish with her emotional atyarchar would have mad lille kid psyco. And GKB always bad mounting sona would have effected the child very badly. So looking at the situation sona was and looking how spineless the dixits are it was the best thing to hid soha from them. Now that she has got a perfect upbringing, and dixits will not effect her upbringing sona told her about her spineless dad.

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kalyani nelluri

@kalyani246

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Posted: 8 years ago

Biggest mistake... Was that a joke... Dont you remember his mother is the person who made a prenuptual agreement in which it is clearly written that if sona conceive a child..she is only sona's responsibility... So i dont think sona ne kuch galat ki hai..

And most important dev ko patha hona matlab ishwariji ko patha hona... Oo sona se itni jalthi thi ki oo sona ko mayke bejdi... God knows agar oo suha se bhi insecure hothi tho suha ko hostel ya boarding school bejdethi.. Seriously i cant even imagine that

I disagree with you...

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Ashlyn

@ashlyn12

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Posted: 8 years ago

Frankly speaking I thought it in the same way... but after realising what the Dixits especially DEV thinks about her I think its right for her to not tell him. Even if she would have called them, they might have again passed a taunt that "she cant raise the child isliye she is back" So its better

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Paytonlee

@Paytonlee

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

I say no because Dev has as much rights on his daughter. She should have told him and after that its up to him whether he wants to keep in contact.Its another thing if she contacted Dev and GKB hid the letter or something (Mills&boon fan here 😆)..

but im glad suhana was kept away from ishwari. I always thought ishwari will turn Dev's child just like Dev, dependent only on her and both father and daughter will be singing her praises while Sona will be next to a corner.

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